You are absolutely 100 % right in what you said. People do exactly like you said they do, and then preach differently.However I cannot speak about anyone else but myself.I am vegetarian by choice therefore I do not like sacrificial worship ..that does not mean that because you do worship that way, that I would think less of you. Kali Ma blesses each person by what is in their mind and heart not by what goes in their stomach. I do not nor have I ever discriminated against anyone ,regardless of race ,religion or sex. I respect everyone's way of life.Each person makes a decision on how they want to live their lives.Be it bad or good that's between them and their god.I will email you and tell you why I asked the questions I did.
Jai Kali Ma