Hare Krishna
when you get sick of people's comments and you don't care for them anymore then you have a renounced attitude, just look at Meerabhay (sorry bad spelling) she renounced the whole world and at the end she got Krishna's association.
also I was listening to a Srila Prabhupada lecture on C.D and he said that we are not the Supreme Enjoyer's Krishna is, so we as men and women are trying to enjoy in material life, that is why we are put in this miserable condition. Also he said something very interesting that we all, as living entities when liberated are under the control of davi-prakriti (Srimati Radharani), and that we are all women! But that subject matter is very complicated, but it just shows how kind Krishna is, you can have any relationship with Him and he will reciprocate, you can be His friend, father, mother, lover, sister, son etc anything even be He's enemy!! /images/graemlins/ooo.gif
anyway here's hoping Krishna is reading this and he gives me the knowledge to understand Lord Chaitanya's Message (oh my God) /images/graemlins/smile.gif