SPandya

Namaste Shashikaranji, This colleague of mine is very friendly with me and is not married yet. She is more interested in love marriage rather than an arranged one but faced problems twice. Her main concern is about getting married. In one of the post in a different website, I found that if UL and its lord are in 6/8relation in a chart than the interested person would not be able to marry of his/her choice even if he likes the person for some or the other reason. Regards Coolgimmy

Dear Shashikaranji, There is a problem now with my brother involving us too. Just to refresh the things, his DOB is 12Feb,1978, 11:15pm, My bhabhi has filed a case against us involving wrong claims that we are asking for dowry and harassing her all the while. My brother and my mom including me are so tensed. Are we destined to get involved in the court cases which will continue for a long time or do you see any amicable solution to this problem. Regards. SPandya

Dear Shashikaranji, I am very much thankful to you for your devoting your precious time for the analysis to my queries. The 36point matching was done in my brother's case also and my mother sought advice from the family astrologer before marriage. After the things went from bad to worse she again went there and sought his opinion and he told that things will be right. Last week she was here to just pack her belongings and left us once and for all without informing anyone. The family astrologer also matched my horoscope and came to the conclusion about the match with 26 points using some software. Due to all this, I wanted to know about the boy in detail rather than just matching on the points. Thank you once again. Regards/ SPandya

Dear Shashikaranji, I would appreciate if you mail me your analysis about me and the boy at the email address pandya.savitri@gmail.com. Whatever findings are a bout me and the boy whether good,bad or ugly, please feel free to let me know about it. My parents want me to go ahead with this proposal, and I am still confused whether to take a risk or not. Some events about the boy. Father had serious job problems during 2000-2001, he got his first job during November 2003, got operated due to appendix in September 2006, went to US for project in Feb 2008 for 3months. He has two sisters, one elder and one younger to him. Thanks Savitri Pandya

Dear USRji, Many thanks for your analysis and valuable advice on my horoscope. As such I am not interested in learning astrology, but since you mentioned in your earlier replies to approach you separately, I told her. I am more interested in music and share bazaar. Since I showed the details of the prospect to her first she had given her suggestions and thats how the issue about 12th house came up. I wrote what she dictated to me. When she is there, why do I bother to take all the efforts to learn a new subject. If you still have some more analysis on my horoscope or the boy's horoscope or about my brother's or bhabhi's horoscope, about which you are hesistant to put on the public board, please feel free to mail me on pandya.savitri@gmail.com . I or my family members will not feel bad about it and it will enable us to take some decision. Regards/ S Pandya

Dear USRji, I will ask my friend to continue her queries about the 12th house in another thread. I dont understand why you have softcorner for me instead of him and advice me to reconsider again my views. Am I missng something? Is there some major problem in my horoscope that I will not get married in case I reject this proposal? No marriage is better than a bad marriage. Thanks Savitri Pandya

Hello USRji, Thank you very much for your advice. But it seems for some reason you have a softcorner for this boy inspite of addressing him as lovebug. Any other observations you have made in his horoscope which you are trying to conceal for some reason? My friend has a request and its about going abroad or going to jail with Rahu in 12th house. She came up with the e.g of first Primeminister of India.Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru's horoscope where the position of Rahu is same and wants to ask how come he stayed all the while in India except going for studies reasons abroad? Even in case of my brother Rahu position is in 12th but I dont see any scope of him going abroad, but if the things with my Bhabhi are not settled he will surely have some legal issues. One more question from my friend what happens if Rahu is in 4th house as its related to home or ones own country? Regards/ Savitri Pandya

Hello Shashikaranji, Thanks to you for your analysis. Savitri Pandya

Hello USRji, Thankyou very much on the predictions of the boy's overall nature & character. Your reply has given me a lot of information about the boy indirectly. Marriage is not loving one's spouse too, but loving one's spouse only. Savitri Pandya

Hello USRji, My friend who is at the learning astrology from books pointed out one thing about the proposed boy that he may have some affair with some girl in the past or can have after marriage too. She mentioned this because in his case the lord of fifth and seventh houses are to-gether. What does the astrological code mention about his character? The reason for asking you is not based on what my friend said, but on the introductory conversation I had with him. Is there a scope for imprisonment in his horoscope? Savitri Pandya

USRji, I am M.Com working in bank.DOB is 25.8.1984,6:00AM, Vadodara. He is electronics engineer. Thanks Savitri Pandya

USRji, Please accept our thanks for your advice. We will try our best to make the things work.But this denial factor has become both scary and concern for me. My brother has a prospect for me and his DOB is 31.05.1982, 10:45AM Ahmedabad. Would you please check denial factor specially and his overall horoscope to find out his nature? I am really scared now to step into arranged marriage after what has happened with my brother. Do you think its suitable to marry the above prospect? Thanks Savitri Pandya

USRji, It was an arranged marriage, but after engagement there was some problem between my mother and bhabhi for which we wanted to call of the marriage. My brother did not agree as he liked the girl very much. Nowadays parents cant force girl or boy to marry someone if they are not happy. Then why did she enter into matrimony against her wishes, when she is MBA with finance, was doing job and was able to support herself financially. Denial of marriage in her chart meaning she was not interested in getting married at all? Savitri Pandya

USRji, The date of marriage was 29.12.2005, the time was around 2.00pm afternoon, place Vadodara. My bhabhi has one sister. The reasons of quarrel are that she wants to stay separately and live independant while my brother is not interested to leave us and go. Thanks SPandya

Jai Shri Krishna & Namaskar, My brother got married three years back and since then there are constant quarrels in the house due to some or the other reason. My bhabhi left home two months back and doesnt communicate with my brother now. My mother is tensed and so am I. Please let us know whether they will reconcile again or will they be seperated. Date of Birth of my brother: 12.02.1978(DD:MM:YY) Time:11:15PM, Place:Vadodara Date of Birth of my bhabi: 11.04.1981(DD:MM:YY) Time:12:25PM, Place:Surat SPandya