pleae accept my humble obesainces & All glories to Srila Prabhupada !!!!
I have gone through the topic started by "vinc", First of all I would like to say Sukadeva Goswami(A very learned person) who narrated the whole Bhagavatam to King Parikshit, Suta Goswami & others, himself didn't uttered the name of RadhaRani, why ?? you know because he said he is not qualified to utter her name, then not to speak of us whose minds are contaminated by mundane things, A live e.g. using the world "romance" for Krishna's pure love toward his devotees.
And one more thing I would like to add is, all the 16000 wives of krishna were great sages in their past life, when they all saw Lord Rama in Trete yuga, they were so much fascinated by Rama's look that they said we would like to become his spouse, So in order to fulfill their wish, He excepted them his wife when he descended as Krishna in Dwapar yuga.
So my humble request is don't ever try to give any statement untill & unless you have done thorough study, & from your questions it appears as if you haven't gone through the literature. I am extremely sorry if I have hurt anyone which was not intentional.
Hari Bol,
Sushil