I totally agree with you but tell me something....what would you do when someone is badly trying to spread rumors about you and no matter how much you ask him to stop but he doesn't stop.Even the people who are strangers to you give you bad looks....i cant go and tell the truth to everyone on the street.I am trying my best to get ahead in my career,evolve my relationship and not bother about these things but sometimes just out of the blue these things keep cropping up and completely destroy my concentration.
I am matured enough but at the same time i am not a coward.I could very well beat him up and i know secrets that can destroy his married life completely but to me that would be childish also if i spread rumors about him....how small his dick is,his impotency and blah blah blah then what would be the difference between me and him ??
i will tell you something....the girl was earlier involved with that guy not for long just about 2-3 months max.That was her first affair and this guy was double ahh sorry triple timing her and suddenly one fine day he left her and married someone else.She was completely devastated by this and was on a verge of a nervous breakdown.
A year later or so this guy and his wife had a big fight and she left him and that time this guy called my gf and apologized to her and said that he would divorce his wife.He made some moves to subdue her and when she blankly rejected his moves he got angry and from that day he is filled with vengance and anger against her and that continues to mee to ( as now we both are together ).Basically he took the rejection as an insult and threatened her that i will spoil your name in front of everybody.
We in india have a very conservative society and what people think of a girls character is a huge thing,once its dented everybody looks at her with shame and this is exactly where he is hitting with his false stories.He is trying to put her reputation down and thats what is bothering me.He is even giving out her phone numbers to people so that they can harass her.So in this case what should i do ? steal his phone and erase her number ?? She has changed her number many times just because of this and everytime he manages to get her number and spread it.
I am no expert on philosophy but i told what is logically correct.
I hope you understand what i am trying to say and help me out with it.
Thanks