Dear abes_srivastava
I've got married on 3 Feb 2007 and have the same problem, in my case its her Mom and Sister both who are a problem. The month of Feb 2007 was not good for marriage I feel.
In ure case the GUNA MILAN is excellant : 33 out of 36
Numerological Matching is good : 1 and 9
BUT the GIRLS horoscope is the WORST possible;
Rahu in Lagna Sthan, Shani & Ketu in Marriage House;
Dear friend its better if u let her go from ure life, because the same will happen to any man who marries her within a year of marriage.