Namaskar,
As you said, you both are born with makar and kumbh rashi, whose rashi lord is saturn. Normally, it is believed that, saturn will not trouble much for those who has saturn as either lagna or rashi lord. However, trouble will be felt to some extent, if not to a great extent. As per the chart, yours look like a love marriage. Is it so? can you give your date of marriage?
Yes indeed, you can reduce the ill effects of saturn by pleasing him. Some of the ways to please him would be to fast on saturdays, listening or chanting vishnu sahasranam,if possible everyday or atleast on saturdays. If you are non vegetarian, atleast be vegetarian on saturdays.
with regards
tirulaxmi
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