Hmm... Its Really Difficult to Understand what is right and wrong by our-self... I think every person has there own thinking and emotions... thus who fulfills this same felling, the person gets attached to the those. thus Nothing is wrong in this... Lord Swaminarayan has clearly said never take Bad or negative things from the Satsang ,Saints or Devotiess. then Y we Use to think about that, this sampraday is Bad or not following such things, Y not take the best part of the Sampraday and make our self more Positive and Successful. If we trust god more than Our-self then He will surely give us identification of what is good and bad... so first try to Trust him...
Jai Swaminarayan...