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My Name is Dinesh DOB: 14-10-1978 TOB: 10.30am POB: Jaunpur (U.P.) As per the incidents in my life related to marriage, I arrived on a conclusion that if Lord of 7th House in 12th House (Loss and Debts), the married life will be in danger. I got a good Job in June 1997. My wedding date was fixed on 27-01-1998. Just before 20 days of my wedding, I lost my job. I got married, but on the day of wedding, there was a big quarrel between both the families. Right after 4 months in June 1998, my wife left my home for a reason that she could not adjust in that home. She went back to her parents home. After my repeated request she didn't came and on 14-10-1998 which happens to be my birthday, there was a big quarrel between us and I was so distress that I got a knife to kill my self but her mother any how threw the knife. After that we lived separate for two years. Within this two year, I managed to setup a good computer business. After two years, she called me up and accepted to come back home. She came back to home. While living together I noticed that my business was going in great loss. Again in 3-4 months she left for the same reason. We again lived separate for two years. After she left, I managed to recover my losses in two years. After two years she came back again to live together but to my surprise she left within 4 months again. Within 4 months, she got pregnant. This time I filed a divorce suit. But in court, she begged for forgiveness and promised to live happily. So I accepted her but the same thing happened again. This time she told me that she does not like my mother and want to live separate. I rejected to leave my mother. She left again to her parents home. After few years shem called me up and asked to live separately. That time for my kid I accepted her and Rented a Flat on 9-6-2010 and we started living together. But again in 2 months only she left my home and went to her parents home. Within the course of 12 years of my married life, I had separated 4 times for 2 years each. and each time we started living together, it was just for 3 or 4 month max. Within these twelve years, I hardly enjoyed sex life or married life. Even whenever she came back in to my life, I faced troubles & Losses in my business. This is because my 7th Lord Shukra is in 12th house which is the house of Losses and Debts. Shukra is the planet of romance and sex which destroyed my sex life also. But I am wondering which planet is always forcing us to compromise and live together after separation each time. Even I could not make out If this relationship will come to an end with a divorce or not? Best Regards.