Guest guest Posted February 20, 2001 Report Share Posted February 20, 2001 > > ****** It never gets "resolved" Wim, but "dissolved." > Love is not about winning, never was, never will be. > Think about it like this - it wouldn't be love if it was now would it? > Duh! Seriously, what did you think love was? Where you get to ride > around the victor or something? Hardly. Think again! Hi Judi: I wanted to share an insight about love. One of my books recommends that we start with the love of our parents to understand what this is about. This teacher points out that whatever we might think, our parents did stuff they didn't have to do, and why? It struck me like a ton of bricks when I realized that "oh, my dad didn't love me, he did it out of duty" was turning the very thing of love into something else. Why I do this/did this, I don't know, but suddenly I feel foolish, and at the same time, full of gratitude for all the "duty" over all these years. What do you mean, "it wouldn't be love it if was now, would it?" Bye for now. Terry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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