Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 Hi Alton: I would agree that alternatives, especially holistic ones, are the best route to take with even those who are "chemically imbalanced". However, often those who are imbalanced are just not stable enough to commit to a program. Five very long years ago I took my daughter to a very good herbalist....all of the brain and hormonal imbalances showed up and a regiment was prescribed. My 17 year old daughter would simply not take them and now at 23 she is on the chemical ones. She is finally stablized and appears to be growing and functioning at a manageable level. Of course, I still have full care of her 5 year old daughter and have learned to just accept it. What is of interest is that for years I tried to get doctors to test her hormonal levels...finally, after a stint in the mental floor of the local hospital they did the tests...her levels are way out of balance with the male hormones being much higher than the female.....and the doctors will not even address that issue...they feel she should just stay on the program of drugs for mood stabilization, anxiety and depression. They are helping but she knows that she is most likely looking at further problems down the road.....now she tells me that she wishes she had taken the herbs seriously and tried to do it that way. I can no longer afford to financially or emotionally step in......she will now have to find her own way to work with other disciplines and find a program that not only stabilizes her but also helps to keep her healthy. Her meds have been prescribed by mental health professionals and though they are not the first choice they are at least keeping her from totally destroying her life as well as anyone else's in her path. What I have noticed though is that Bruce and Greg are both right too many other doctors are prescribing these drugs to people who are not organically imbalanced. I have too many clients, friends and relatives that are on these drugs because boyfriends ended relationships, jobs were lost, teenagers are causing parents grief and assorted other situations that are just a matter of life on this planet. It is becoming a situation whereby no one will allow themselves to grieve, feel fear or any other "negative" emotion. An interesting trend is that these same doctors will no longer prescribe valium or zanex as they are considered addictive....not quite sure how they view pills that are so powerful that coming off of them without medical supervision can cause seizures. I wonder what this will all look like in 20 years. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 Hi Linda: Thanks for sharing. We have lived with our grandchildren for almost 21 years. My wife and I have Saturn in the forth house and Saturn right here in Hawaii on the AstroCart read. We were both from NY and who would have believed that we would end up in Paradise. We have had some very difficult times and now I really appreciate parenthood. As far as our 22 year old grandson is concerned, I really dont think he is clinically depressed. He has lots of friends and goes out every night. He has quite a superior mind but they suspended him from college because he has stedfastly refused to do any homework. I told him about the side effects and he forgot about anti-depressants until his friends convinced him that it would help him in life. I could go to any psychiatrist and if I tell them a few things they would say that I too am clinically depressed. Bull. If someone needs them and is unwilling to do alternative stuff then I am for them. Our brother-in-law has had 14 operations for Neurofibromatoma and is generally in increbible pain. After his last operation the nurse asked him if he wanted any painkiller. He said that the pain that he is experiencing now after the operation is mild compared to the pain he usually has. He finally could not take the pain anymore and refused to get our of bed. His wife said that either you go on anti-depressants or she will commit him. He now takes them and I asked him if it helps with the pain. He said that the pain is still there but that his attitude about it is improved. Love, Alton Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2001 Report Share Posted June 26, 2001 Hi Alton: I also have Saturn in the 4th house it's been quite the journey :-). Two years ago I relocated back to NY after a 9 year stint in Florida and am aware that I will not stay in NY but have no sense of where I'll be moving. I suspect that when next year's eclipse aspects Saturn I'll have a direction. I encouraged my daughter to check herself into the hospital and am grateful for the care they gave her. The pills have helped her greatly despite the imperfections, she now has a chance of living life with some peace and purpose. It is encouraging to hear that you are content after raising another set of children into adulthood . Thanks for sharing that. Namaste, Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2001 Report Share Posted June 26, 2001 Hi: Linda; Did you have an Astrocartology chart done to see where is the best place for you to live? Some astrologer I met online was going to do a reading for me and advised that I get an Astrocart done. My wife's former husband was killed in his own plane and left her with four small children. She lost the suit again Piper Aircraft because the lawyer that represented her was not allowed to place into evidence, the fact of a design problem with the aircraft. Now they changed that rule. How's that for Saturn in the forth house? My wife's family has had lots of cancer and her mother died of it at 58. She is now almost 70 and has made meraculous progress going to a Chinese herbalist for herbs and acupunture once per week. She has to cook the herbs and take them 2 time per day. Her Angina completly left and her energy is fantastic. Right now she has health problems because of her stress regarding her son's Cancer and being away from home. Basically, I only had impute for our grandchildren as when we started living together she send her kids to Synanon to live. The daughter living with us had chronic asthma and kidney disease and we were rushing her to the emergency ward each night. Then years later after Synanon we brought her to our homestead on another Island and took her off her drugs cold turkey. We were macrobiotic and that helped cure her also. Since we lived 75 miles away from a drug store, she had no access to her drugs and got cure and had two kids. The Endocrinologist that she went to said that she could never have any children and that if she went off her medicines she would die. Synanon really helped her and the other two that went there for a time. Now all are doing great except for the health problem of her son. Aloha with love, Alton p.s Have you thought of Hawaii? I could not imagine any place on earth that is nicer than here. When we take our walks, people say hello to each other and most places are quite safe. The weather is always georgeous and the air is clean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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