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Dear Harsha --

 

Like you, and probably others here, I attended a

candlelight vigil last night. There has been a

constant stream of events, people, emotions, and

meetings to deal with the past three days. Today,

there was a memorial service. Many spoke of

love, courage, and renewal. When many speak,

and one voice is heard clearly, it is evident

what hate and violence cannot destroy.

 

Now - a brief lull in the incessant goings-on,

and I now have a chance to respond

to the message you posted to me previously.

 

Thanks for this honest and thoughtful statement.

You raise several worthy points, which I address

in the spirit of love. For, in times such

as these, there is nothing else to address

except love.

> Harsha (snip):

> It is obvious to me that in living life,

> judgments and evaluations have

> to be made about situations, people, "spiritual

> teachers" etc. What leads us

> to form those judgments is another questions but

> such judgments are made. It

> seems to me that our personalities are attracted to

> some people, things, and

> situations and not so to others. I find certain

> spiritual teachers and

> teachings "unattractive" and even offensive at times

> and others more

> "attractive". I don't wish to or need to pretend

> otherwise.

 

Yes, attraction and repulsion are energy dynamics.

The maintenance of parameters of attraction and

repulsion in terms of values, judgments and

other variables, such as emotional response,

are aspects of the pattern we call "personality".

To "pretend otherwise" would simply be another

version of a dynamic of attraction and

repulsion, perhaps an attraction to an image

of "not being judgmental".

So, yes, attraction and repulsion "happen"

as part of being human.

To me, the important thing to note is that

these kinds of judgments and responses

are based on memory. The thought and response

"I like (or don't like) that teacher, president,

homeless person, etc." is dependent on past

experience and results, as well as conclusions

made by thought -- and thought is interdependent

with memory and the past.

 

So, I don't suggest trying to eliminate judgments

that happen. I look at how such judgments happen,

notice the limitation of the pattern (whether

it be called personality, the past, or whatever),

and "see" that which *is*, that which is not

defined in terms of the past, or parameters of

attraction/repulsion.

> The nature of consciousness itself is

> Self-attraction.

 

I disagree.

Consciousness determines, via thought, ways

to cognize "the nature of things".

Thus, it can never comprehend its own nature,

which is beyond thought.

Its own nature is already "present" prior to

comprehending anything.

Because it can never catch itself, so to speak,

consciousness isn't really "consciousness",

insofar as associations of qualities or experiences

are involved in the concept "consciousness".

 

Consciousness (or *it*, if you will), having

no nature that can be comprehended, certainly

doesn't have the nature of Self-attraction.

For there to be attraction, there has to be

a space, a separation -- otherwise, how

could there be the movement of attraction?

And there can be no attraction without repulsion.

So, for consciousness to have the nature of

Self-attraction, it would have to have the nature

of Self-repulsion as well.

 

So, I'd rather say, "Consciousness" (substitute other

words if you wish such as Self, Being, Truth,

Identity, *it*) is *that* which is beyond attraction

or repulsion, prior to any movement of being.

 

>So it is natural

> that we are attracted to that which we value in

> ourselves.

 

Yes. Until the point that we have nothing to

value or devalue in ourselves.

It's true that we can't help seeking that which

we project from ourselves, up until there is

no projection, hence no self to be imagined

as a projector.

For, not only are we attracted to what we value,

"we" are formed through the conceptual process that

is contructed by the movement called

"attraction and repulsion".

"We" not only give form to attractions and repulsions,

the dynamics of attraction and repulsion give

form to "me" ...

> We seek

> satisfaction and pleasure through joining others in

> conscious or unconscious

> relationships of various types. Husband - Wife,

> Parent - Child, Guru -

> Disciple, Friend - Friend, etc.

>

> I don't mind being attracted to some people or some

> teachings and not so to

> others.

 

Well, whether "you" mind or not, makes no

difference to the dynamic.

"You" are a construct of the dynamic.

Even if you object to the dynamic, your

very objecting ends up being part of it,

the dynamic that seems to create "you",

which "you" seem to project ...

>

> Dan, I wanted to comment on something in an earlier

> post of yours as well.

> You had stated:

>

> "I sense a difference in tone between

> one who is simply being aware, and

> one who is seeking to gain others' attention,

> following, admiration, adoration.

>

> And, many tricksters as well as charistmatic

> teachers, leaders, speakers and writers fall into

> that category."

> I agree with you Dan. However, consider that the

> nature of attraction is

> built into the fabric of the Universe.

 

There is no fabric to the Universe.

There is only the "fabric-less" Consciousness

which is none other than Love and Being

yet which really has no name (i.e., *that*)

which has no "within" nor "without",

hence no inherent structure, nor lack

of structure.

>The earth and

> the planets are able to

> go around the sun in a relatively smooth orbit

> because of the law of

> attraction to some center of gravity.

 

The earth and planets, and the "law of gravity",

are the same thing. They don't go 'round

because of a law external to themselves.

They themselves are the action of the so-called

"law" ... in other words, the Universe is

seemless manifestation without separation,

so there are no separable laws governing

things that happen in some space external

to the "laws" ...

> Have you seen

> a family gathered

> around a little baby girl or baby boy. Parents,

> Grandparents, uncles, aunts,

> cousins all giving their utmost attention,

> adoration, admiration. Gently

> massaging her feet, looking into her eyes. The mere

> fact of existence of

> this baby draws attention, adoration, admiration,

> etc., even though the baby

> does not seek it.

 

Clearly, if the baby is considered as an external

agent that draws love from me, there is a

conceptual separation between "me" and "the

baby" ...

 

To me, adoration is a version of love in which

distance is yet assumed as real. If there

can be adoration, there can be despising,

because they are two versions of the same

dynamic. Admiration and derogation go hand

in hand. What people usually call love

is just a polarity with indifference. The

love that has no bounds and no opposite,

the nameless love, is not a movement toward,

(an attraction), nor a movement away (a repulsion).

>Sometimes, it is the element of

> innocence, lack of self

> consciousness, and overwhelming beauty of life

> whether of a baby or a sage

> that calls forth admiration and adoration.

 

Yes. Yet admiration and adoration

are always toward an image.

And thus, these states of relationship

are transitional and not "ultimate" ...

 

Adoration passes away with wisdom,

because wisdom is the love that

allows no object, no relation to

another.

 

Don't misunderstand me as someone who

misses your point, who doesn't see that

you are suggesting that the infinite

includes all versions of love, that

adoration, although seeming to involve

two is expression of One. I see your

point and value it. Yet, I point to

an ending of any reliance on image, which

is inexpressible in words, and which

allows neither "two" nor "one" to

manifest or unmanifest. Although this

point seems as if "prior to" any manifestation,

it is all that is, and has nothing whatsoever

to do with constructs that are played out

as a "being going through states in time" ...

(This statement is merely suggestive, not

meant to point to any *absence* of a "being

going through states in time")

 

Certainly, I have no reason to negate,

nor to be against adoration, which is simply

one of many feeling-states that affect

perception, and which come and go.

 

Nothing is out of place.

 

When a transitional state passes into

another transitional state, where is

that which has no change, no state,

no movement? It is not apart, not somewhere

else. So, it is in the state of adoration,

and in the state of disillusionment with

adoration. It is here prior to adoration

and after the death of adoration, the one

who adores, and that which is adored.

 

> Some of

> my best moments have been

> in adoration of others.

 

And what have some of your worst moments

been?

And what is *that* in which any moment

is equal and inseparable from any other

moment?

 

If a trickster and

> charismatic teachers can call

> forth that type of adoration as well, so be it. If

> the motive for the

> adoration is pure, the one who adores gets saturated

> with the beauty he or

> she perceives in the "guru" even though it may be a

> trickster or a just a

> charismatic teacher. That is how it seems to me.

 

Yes. This sems to me like saying that there may

be an aspect of love in even the darkest

places. I agree with this very much.

Love is never absent.

That is the mystery of love.

 

Namaste and thank you!

 

Love,

Dan

 

 

 

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Dear Dan,

 

Thank you for your thoughtful response. You are indeed right Dan that

whatever word is used will have an opposite. Ancient sages often used

Sat-Chit-Ananda (Existence-Consciousness-Bliss) to describe the Self.

However, some can criticize this on the ground that the Self is beyond

existence and non-existence, knowledge, ignorance, etc.

 

Sages point out based on their experience that Sat-Chit-Ananda is one

monolithic whole. And that Sat-Chit-Ananda are not attributes but the

inherent nature of the Self It Self as one Inseparable Whole. What to do?

Some language has to be used. And whatever language is used can be subjected

to logical scrutiny. Then that logical scrutiny can be subjected to further

more rigorous scrutiny, etc.

 

I had said that the nature of consciousness itself is Self-Attraction.

Here, "Attraction" was not meant as a movement towards anything. It is just

another way to use language to describe a method, an orientation, a way of

understanding. If it does not make sense, that is ok. I do not view any

statement as describing some ultimate truth. Truth Is Self. Self Is Truth.

When One Is It, there is no being outside it to be attracted and so forth.

That is why I said, It's nature is that of Self-attraction. It has no where

to move and no one to move towards. But if someone is more satisfied with a

different combination of words, negations, etc. to understand the wholeness

of their nature, why not?

 

If you like your tea without sugar, I will have it the same way. :-).

 

Love to all

Harsha

 

 

 

 

d b [dan330033]

Friday, September 14, 2001 5:48 PM

RE: adoration and love / Harsha

 

 

Dear Harsha --

 

Like you, and probably others here, I attended a

candlelight vigil last night. There has been a

constant stream of events, people, emotions, and

meetings to deal with the past three days. Today,

there was a memorial service. Many spoke of

love, courage, and renewal. When many speak,

and one voice is heard clearly, it is evident

what hate and violence cannot destroy.

 

Now - a brief lull in the incessant goings-on,

and I now have a chance to respond

to the message you posted to me previously.

 

Thanks for this honest and thoughtful statement.

You raise several worthy points, which I address

in the spirit of love. For, in times such

as these, there is nothing else to address

except love.

> Harsha (snip):

> It is obvious to me that in living life,

> judgments and evaluations have

> to be made about situations, people, "spiritual

> teachers" etc. What leads us

> to form those judgments is another questions but

> such judgments are made. It

> seems to me that our personalities are attracted to

> some people, things, and

> situations and not so to others. I find certain

> spiritual teachers and

> teachings "unattractive" and even offensive at times

> and others more

> "attractive". I don't wish to or need to pretend

> otherwise.

 

Yes, attraction and repulsion are energy dynamics.

The maintenance of parameters of attraction and

repulsion in terms of values, judgments and

other variables, such as emotional response,

are aspects of the pattern we call "personality".

To "pretend otherwise" would simply be another

version of a dynamic of attraction and

repulsion, perhaps an attraction to an image

of "not being judgmental".

So, yes, attraction and repulsion "happen"

as part of being human.

To me, the important thing to note is that

these kinds of judgments and responses

are based on memory. The thought and response

"I like (or don't like) that teacher, president,

homeless person, etc." is dependent on past

experience and results, as well as conclusions

made by thought -- and thought is interdependent

with memory and the past.

 

So, I don't suggest trying to eliminate judgments

that happen. I look at how such judgments happen,

notice the limitation of the pattern (whether

it be called personality, the past, or whatever),

and "see" that which *is*, that which is not

defined in terms of the past, or parameters of

attraction/repulsion.

> The nature of consciousness itself is

> Self-attraction.

 

I disagree.

Consciousness determines, via thought, ways

to cognize "the nature of things".

Thus, it can never comprehend its own nature,

which is beyond thought.

Its own nature is already "present" prior to

comprehending anything.

Because it can never catch itself, so to speak,

consciousness isn't really "consciousness",

insofar as associations of qualities or experiences

are involved in the concept "consciousness".

 

Consciousness (or *it*, if you will), having

no nature that can be comprehended, certainly

doesn't have the nature of Self-attraction.

For there to be attraction, there has to be

a space, a separation -- otherwise, how

could there be the movement of attraction?

And there can be no attraction without repulsion.

So, for consciousness to have the nature of

Self-attraction, it would have to have the nature

of Self-repulsion as well.

 

So, I'd rather say, "Consciousness" (substitute other

words if you wish such as Self, Being, Truth,

Identity, *it*) is *that* which is beyond attraction

or repulsion, prior to any movement of being.

 

>So it is natural

> that we are attracted to that which we value in

> ourselves.

 

Yes. Until the point that we have nothing to

value or devalue in ourselves.

It's true that we can't help seeking that which

we project from ourselves, up until there is

no projection, hence no self to be imagined

as a projector.

For, not only are we attracted to what we value,

"we" are formed through the conceptual process that

is contructed by the movement called

"attraction and repulsion".

"We" not only give form to attractions and repulsions,

the dynamics of attraction and repulsion give

form to "me" ...

> We seek

> satisfaction and pleasure through joining others in

> conscious or unconscious

> relationships of various types. Husband - Wife,

> Parent - Child, Guru -

> Disciple, Friend - Friend, etc.

>

> I don't mind being attracted to some people or some

> teachings and not so to

> others.

 

Well, whether "you" mind or not, makes no

difference to the dynamic.

"You" are a construct of the dynamic.

Even if you object to the dynamic, your

very objecting ends up being part of it,

the dynamic that seems to create "you",

which "you" seem to project ...

>

> Dan, I wanted to comment on something in an earlier

> post of yours as well.

> You had stated:

>

> "I sense a difference in tone between

> one who is simply being aware, and

> one who is seeking to gain others' attention,

> following, admiration, adoration.

>

> And, many tricksters as well as charistmatic

> teachers, leaders, speakers and writers fall into

> that category."

> I agree with you Dan. However, consider that the

> nature of attraction is

> built into the fabric of the Universe.

 

There is no fabric to the Universe.

There is only the "fabric-less" Consciousness

which is none other than Love and Being

yet which really has no name (i.e., *that*)

which has no "within" nor "without",

hence no inherent structure, nor lack

of structure.

>The earth and

> the planets are able to

> go around the sun in a relatively smooth orbit

> because of the law of

> attraction to some center of gravity.

 

The earth and planets, and the "law of gravity",

are the same thing. They don't go 'round

because of a law external to themselves.

They themselves are the action of the so-called

"law" ... in other words, the Universe is

seemless manifestation without separation,

so there are no separable laws governing

things that happen in some space external

to the "laws" ...

> Have you seen

> a family gathered

> around a little baby girl or baby boy. Parents,

> Grandparents, uncles, aunts,

> cousins all giving their utmost attention,

> adoration, admiration. Gently

> massaging her feet, looking into her eyes. The mere

> fact of existence of

> this baby draws attention, adoration, admiration,

> etc., even though the baby

> does not seek it.

 

Clearly, if the baby is considered as an external

agent that draws love from me, there is a

conceptual separation between "me" and "the

baby" ...

 

To me, adoration is a version of love in which

distance is yet assumed as real. If there

can be adoration, there can be despising,

because they are two versions of the same

dynamic. Admiration and derogation go hand

in hand. What people usually call love

is just a polarity with indifference. The

love that has no bounds and no opposite,

the nameless love, is not a movement toward,

(an attraction), nor a movement away (a repulsion).

>Sometimes, it is the element of

> innocence, lack of self

> consciousness, and overwhelming beauty of life

> whether of a baby or a sage

> that calls forth admiration and adoration.

 

Yes. Yet admiration and adoration

are always toward an image.

And thus, these states of relationship

are transitional and not "ultimate" ...

 

Adoration passes away with wisdom,

because wisdom is the love that

allows no object, no relation to

another.

 

Don't misunderstand me as someone who

misses your point, who doesn't see that

you are suggesting that the infinite

includes all versions of love, that

adoration, although seeming to involve

two is expression of One. I see your

point and value it. Yet, I point to

an ending of any reliance on image, which

is inexpressible in words, and which

allows neither "two" nor "one" to

manifest or unmanifest. Although this

point seems as if "prior to" any manifestation,

it is all that is, and has nothing whatsoever

to do with constructs that are played out

as a "being going through states in time" ...

(This statement is merely suggestive, not

meant to point to any *absence* of a "being

going through states in time")

 

Certainly, I have no reason to negate,

nor to be against adoration, which is simply

one of many feeling-states that affect

perception, and which come and go.

 

Nothing is out of place.

 

When a transitional state passes into

another transitional state, where is

that which has no change, no state,

no movement? It is not apart, not somewhere

else. So, it is in the state of adoration,

and in the state of disillusionment with

adoration. It is here prior to adoration

and after the death of adoration, the one

who adores, and that which is adored.

 

> Some of

> my best moments have been

> in adoration of others.

 

And what have some of your worst moments

been?

And what is *that* in which any moment

is equal and inseparable from any other

moment?

 

If a trickster and

> charismatic teachers can call

> forth that type of adoration as well, so be it. If

> the motive for the

> adoration is pure, the one who adores gets saturated

> with the beauty he or

> she perceives in the "guru" even though it may be a

> trickster or a just a

> charismatic teacher. That is how it seems to me.

 

Yes. This sems to me like saying that there may

be an aspect of love in even the darkest

places. I agree with this very much.

Love is never absent.

That is the mystery of love.

 

Namaste and thank you!

 

Love,

Dan

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Just a little more BS:

 

The adoration of the infant's unconditionality is

the "apparent" movement of unconditional love meeting

itself...through the dynamic simultaneous polarity (being)

of self/SELF.

 

, "Harsha" <harsha-hkl@h...> wrote:

> Dear Dan,

>

> Thank you for your thoughtful response. You are indeed right

Dan that

> whatever word is used will have an opposite. Ancient sages often

used

> Sat-Chit-Ananda (Existence-Consciousness-Bliss) to describe the

Self.

> However, some can criticize this on the ground that the Self is

beyond

> existence and non-existence, knowledge, ignorance, etc.

>

> Sages point out based on their experience that Sat-Chit-

Ananda is one

> monolithic whole. And that Sat-Chit-Ananda are not attributes but

the

> inherent nature of the Self It Self as one Inseparable Whole. What

to do?

> Some language has to be used. And whatever language is used can be

subjected

> to logical scrutiny. Then that logical scrutiny can be subjected to

further

> more rigorous scrutiny, etc.

>

> I had said that the nature of consciousness itself is Self-

Attraction.

> Here, "Attraction" was not meant as a movement towards anything.

It is just

> another way to use language to describe a method, an orientation,

a way of

> understanding. If it does not make sense, that is ok. I do not view

any

> statement as describing some ultimate truth. Truth Is Self. Self Is

Truth.

> When One Is It, there is no being outside it to be attracted and so

forth.

> That is why I said, It's nature is that of Self-attraction. It has

no where

> to move and no one to move towards. But if someone is more

satisfied with a

> different combination of words, negations, etc. to understand the

wholeness

> of their nature, why not?

>

> If you like your tea without sugar, I will have it the same

way. :-).

>

> Love to all

> Harsha

>

>

>

>

> d b [dan330033]

> Friday, September 14, 2001 5:48 PM

>

> RE: adoration and love / Harsha

>

>

> Dear Harsha --

>

> Like you, and probably others here, I attended a

> candlelight vigil last night. There has been a

> constant stream of events, people, emotions, and

> meetings to deal with the past three days. Today,

> there was a memorial service. Many spoke of

> love, courage, and renewal. When many speak,

> and one voice is heard clearly, it is evident

> what hate and violence cannot destroy.

>

> Now - a brief lull in the incessant goings-on,

> and I now have a chance to respond

> to the message you posted to me previously.

>

> Thanks for this honest and thoughtful statement.

> You raise several worthy points, which I address

> in the spirit of love. For, in times such

> as these, there is nothing else to address

> except love.

>

> > Harsha (snip):

> > It is obvious to me that in living life,

> > judgments and evaluations have

> > to be made about situations, people, "spiritual

> > teachers" etc. What leads us

> > to form those judgments is another questions but

> > such judgments are made. It

> > seems to me that our personalities are attracted to

> > some people, things, and

> > situations and not so to others. I find certain

> > spiritual teachers and

> > teachings "unattractive" and even offensive at times

> > and others more

> > "attractive". I don't wish to or need to pretend

> > otherwise.

>

> Yes, attraction and repulsion are energy dynamics.

> The maintenance of parameters of attraction and

> repulsion in terms of values, judgments and

> other variables, such as emotional response,

> are aspects of the pattern we call "personality".

> To "pretend otherwise" would simply be another

> version of a dynamic of attraction and

> repulsion, perhaps an attraction to an image

> of "not being judgmental".

> So, yes, attraction and repulsion "happen"

> as part of being human.

> To me, the important thing to note is that

> these kinds of judgments and responses

> are based on memory. The thought and response

> "I like (or don't like) that teacher, president,

> homeless person, etc." is dependent on past

> experience and results, as well as conclusions

> made by thought -- and thought is interdependent

> with memory and the past.

>

> So, I don't suggest trying to eliminate judgments

> that happen. I look at how such judgments happen,

> notice the limitation of the pattern (whether

> it be called personality, the past, or whatever),

> and "see" that which *is*, that which is not

> defined in terms of the past, or parameters of

> attraction/repulsion.

>

> > The nature of consciousness itself is

> > Self-attraction.

>

> I disagree.

> Consciousness determines, via thought, ways

> to cognize "the nature of things".

> Thus, it can never comprehend its own nature,

> which is beyond thought.

> Its own nature is already "present" prior to

> comprehending anything.

> Because it can never catch itself, so to speak,

> consciousness isn't really "consciousness",

> insofar as associations of qualities or experiences

> are involved in the concept "consciousness".

>

> Consciousness (or *it*, if you will), having

> no nature that can be comprehended, certainly

> doesn't have the nature of Self-attraction.

> For there to be attraction, there has to be

> a space, a separation -- otherwise, how

> could there be the movement of attraction?

> And there can be no attraction without repulsion.

> So, for consciousness to have the nature of

> Self-attraction, it would have to have the nature

> of Self-repulsion as well.

>

> So, I'd rather say, "Consciousness" (substitute other

> words if you wish such as Self, Being, Truth,

> Identity, *it*) is *that* which is beyond attraction

> or repulsion, prior to any movement of being.

>

>

> >So it is natural

> > that we are attracted to that which we value in

> > ourselves.

>

> Yes. Until the point that we have nothing to

> value or devalue in ourselves.

> It's true that we can't help seeking that which

> we project from ourselves, up until there is

> no projection, hence no self to be imagined

> as a projector.

> For, not only are we attracted to what we value,

> "we" are formed through the conceptual process that

> is contructed by the movement called

> "attraction and repulsion".

> "We" not only give form to attractions and repulsions,

> the dynamics of attraction and repulsion give

> form to "me" ...

>

> > We seek

> > satisfaction and pleasure through joining others in

> > conscious or unconscious

> > relationships of various types. Husband - Wife,

> > Parent - Child, Guru -

> > Disciple, Friend - Friend, etc.

> >

> > I don't mind being attracted to some people or some

> > teachings and not so to

> > others.

>

> Well, whether "you" mind or not, makes no

> difference to the dynamic.

> "You" are a construct of the dynamic.

> Even if you object to the dynamic, your

> very objecting ends up being part of it,

> the dynamic that seems to create "you",

> which "you" seem to project ...

>

> >

> > Dan, I wanted to comment on something in an earlier

> > post of yours as well.

> > You had stated:

> >

> > "I sense a difference in tone between

> > one who is simply being aware, and

> > one who is seeking to gain others' attention,

> > following, admiration, adoration.

> >

> > And, many tricksters as well as charistmatic

> > teachers, leaders, speakers and writers fall into

> > that category."

>

> > I agree with you Dan. However, consider that the

> > nature of attraction is

> > built into the fabric of the Universe.

>

> There is no fabric to the Universe.

> There is only the "fabric-less" Consciousness

> which is none other than Love and Being

> yet which really has no name (i.e., *that*)

> which has no "within" nor "without",

> hence no inherent structure, nor lack

> of structure.

>

> >The earth and

> > the planets are able to

> > go around the sun in a relatively smooth orbit

> > because of the law of

> > attraction to some center of gravity.

>

> The earth and planets, and the "law of gravity",

> are the same thing. They don't go 'round

> because of a law external to themselves.

> They themselves are the action of the so-called

> "law" ... in other words, the Universe is

> seemless manifestation without separation,

> so there are no separable laws governing

> things that happen in some space external

> to the "laws" ...

>

> > Have you seen

> > a family gathered

> > around a little baby girl or baby boy. Parents,

> > Grandparents, uncles, aunts,

> > cousins all giving their utmost attention,

> > adoration, admiration. Gently

> > massaging her feet, looking into her eyes. The mere

> > fact of existence of

> > this baby draws attention, adoration, admiration,

> > etc., even though the baby

> > does not seek it.

>

> Clearly, if the baby is considered as an external

> agent that draws love from me, there is a

> conceptual separation between "me" and "the

> baby" ...

>

> To me, adoration is a version of love in which

> distance is yet assumed as real. If there

> can be adoration, there can be despising,

> because they are two versions of the same

> dynamic. Admiration and derogation go hand

> in hand. What people usually call love

> is just a polarity with indifference. The

> love that has no bounds and no opposite,

> the nameless love, is not a movement toward,

> (an attraction), nor a movement away (a repulsion).

>

> >Sometimes, it is the element of

> > innocence, lack of self

> > consciousness, and overwhelming beauty of life

> > whether of a baby or a sage

> > that calls forth admiration and adoration.

>

> Yes. Yet admiration and adoration

> are always toward an image.

> And thus, these states of relationship

> are transitional and not "ultimate" ...

>

> Adoration passes away with wisdom,

> because wisdom is the love that

> allows no object, no relation to

> another.

>

> Don't misunderstand me as someone who

> misses your point, who doesn't see that

> you are suggesting that the infinite

> includes all versions of love, that

> adoration, although seeming to involve

> two is expression of One. I see your

> point and value it. Yet, I point to

> an ending of any reliance on image, which

> is inexpressible in words, and which

> allows neither "two" nor "one" to

> manifest or unmanifest. Although this

> point seems as if "prior to" any manifestation,

> it is all that is, and has nothing whatsoever

> to do with constructs that are played out

> as a "being going through states in time" ...

> (This statement is merely suggestive, not

> meant to point to any *absence* of a "being

> going through states in time")

>

> Certainly, I have no reason to negate,

> nor to be against adoration, which is simply

> one of many feeling-states that affect

> perception, and which come and go.

>

> Nothing is out of place.

>

> When a transitional state passes into

> another transitional state, where is

> that which has no change, no state,

> no movement? It is not apart, not somewhere

> else. So, it is in the state of adoration,

> and in the state of disillusionment with

> adoration. It is here prior to adoration

> and after the death of adoration, the one

> who adores, and that which is adored.

>

>

> > Some of

> > my best moments have been

> > in adoration of others.

>

> And what have some of your worst moments

> been?

> And what is *that* in which any moment

> is equal and inseparable from any other

> moment?

>

> If a trickster and

> > charismatic teachers can call

> > forth that type of adoration as well, so be it. If

> > the motive for the

> > adoration is pure, the one who adores gets saturated

> > with the beauty he or

> > she perceives in the "guru" even though it may be a

> > trickster or a just a

> > charismatic teacher. That is how it seems to me.

>

> Yes. This sems to me like saying that there may

> be an aspect of love in even the darkest

> places. I agree with this very much.

> Love is never absent.

> That is the mystery of love.

>

> Namaste and thank you!

>

> Love,

> Dan

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Thanks Ed. I think you and Dan need to have a conversation! :-). When you

start using those kinds of terms, I feel only qualified to listen!

 

Love

Harsha

 

 

eea [eea]

Saturday, September 15, 2001 12:12 PM

Re: adoration and love / Harsha

 

 

Just a little more BS:

 

The adoration of the infant's unconditionality is

the "apparent" movement of unconditional love meeting

itself...through the dynamic simultaneous polarity (being)

of self/SELF.

 

, "Harsha" <harsha-hkl@h...> wrote:

> Dear Dan,

>

> Thank you for your thoughtful response. You are indeed right

Dan that

> whatever word is used will have an opposite. Ancient sages often

used

> Sat-Chit-Ananda (Existence-Consciousness-Bliss) to describe the

Self.

> However, some can criticize this on the ground that the Self is

beyond

> existence and non-existence, knowledge, ignorance, etc.

>

> Sages point out based on their experience that Sat-Chit-

Ananda is one

> monolithic whole. And that Sat-Chit-Ananda are not attributes but

the

> inherent nature of the Self It Self as one Inseparable Whole. What

to do?

> Some language has to be used. And whatever language is used can be

subjected

> to logical scrutiny. Then that logical scrutiny can be subjected to

further

> more rigorous scrutiny, etc.

>

> I had said that the nature of consciousness itself is Self-

Attraction.

> Here, "Attraction" was not meant as a movement towards anything.

It is just

> another way to use language to describe a method, an orientation,

a way of

> understanding. If it does not make sense, that is ok. I do not view

any

> statement as describing some ultimate truth. Truth Is Self. Self Is

Truth.

> When One Is It, there is no being outside it to be attracted and so

forth.

> That is why I said, It's nature is that of Self-attraction. It has

no where

> to move and no one to move towards. But if someone is more

satisfied with a

> different combination of words, negations, etc. to understand the

wholeness

> of their nature, why not?

>

> If you like your tea without sugar, I will have it the same

way. :-).

>

> Love to all

> Harsha

>

>

>

>

> d b [dan330033]

> Friday, September 14, 2001 5:48 PM

>

> RE: adoration and love / Harsha

>

>

> Dear Harsha --

>

> Like you, and probably others here, I attended a

> candlelight vigil last night. There has been a

> constant stream of events, people, emotions, and

> meetings to deal with the past three days. Today,

> there was a memorial service. Many spoke of

> love, courage, and renewal. When many speak,

> and one voice is heard clearly, it is evident

> what hate and violence cannot destroy.

>

> Now - a brief lull in the incessant goings-on,

> and I now have a chance to respond

> to the message you posted to me previously.

>

> Thanks for this honest and thoughtful statement.

> You raise several worthy points, which I address

> in the spirit of love. For, in times such

> as these, there is nothing else to address

> except love.

>

> > Harsha (snip):

> > It is obvious to me that in living life,

> > judgments and evaluations have

> > to be made about situations, people, "spiritual

> > teachers" etc. What leads us

> > to form those judgments is another questions but

> > such judgments are made. It

> > seems to me that our personalities are attracted to

> > some people, things, and

> > situations and not so to others. I find certain

> > spiritual teachers and

> > teachings "unattractive" and even offensive at times

> > and others more

> > "attractive". I don't wish to or need to pretend

> > otherwise.

>

> Yes, attraction and repulsion are energy dynamics.

> The maintenance of parameters of attraction and

> repulsion in terms of values, judgments and

> other variables, such as emotional response,

> are aspects of the pattern we call "personality".

> To "pretend otherwise" would simply be another

> version of a dynamic of attraction and

> repulsion, perhaps an attraction to an image

> of "not being judgmental".

> So, yes, attraction and repulsion "happen"

> as part of being human.

> To me, the important thing to note is that

> these kinds of judgments and responses

> are based on memory. The thought and response

> "I like (or don't like) that teacher, president,

> homeless person, etc." is dependent on past

> experience and results, as well as conclusions

> made by thought -- and thought is interdependent

> with memory and the past.

>

> So, I don't suggest trying to eliminate judgments

> that happen. I look at how such judgments happen,

> notice the limitation of the pattern (whether

> it be called personality, the past, or whatever),

> and "see" that which *is*, that which is not

> defined in terms of the past, or parameters of

> attraction/repulsion.

>

> > The nature of consciousness itself is

> > Self-attraction.

>

> I disagree.

> Consciousness determines, via thought, ways

> to cognize "the nature of things".

> Thus, it can never comprehend its own nature,

> which is beyond thought.

> Its own nature is already "present" prior to

> comprehending anything.

> Because it can never catch itself, so to speak,

> consciousness isn't really "consciousness",

> insofar as associations of qualities or experiences

> are involved in the concept "consciousness".

>

> Consciousness (or *it*, if you will), having

> no nature that can be comprehended, certainly

> doesn't have the nature of Self-attraction.

> For there to be attraction, there has to be

> a space, a separation -- otherwise, how

> could there be the movement of attraction?

> And there can be no attraction without repulsion.

> So, for consciousness to have the nature of

> Self-attraction, it would have to have the nature

> of Self-repulsion as well.

>

> So, I'd rather say, "Consciousness" (substitute other

> words if you wish such as Self, Being, Truth,

> Identity, *it*) is *that* which is beyond attraction

> or repulsion, prior to any movement of being.

>

>

> >So it is natural

> > that we are attracted to that which we value in

> > ourselves.

>

> Yes. Until the point that we have nothing to

> value or devalue in ourselves.

> It's true that we can't help seeking that which

> we project from ourselves, up until there is

> no projection, hence no self to be imagined

> as a projector.

> For, not only are we attracted to what we value,

> "we" are formed through the conceptual process that

> is contructed by the movement called

> "attraction and repulsion".

> "We" not only give form to attractions and repulsions,

> the dynamics of attraction and repulsion give

> form to "me" ...

>

> > We seek

> > satisfaction and pleasure through joining others in

> > conscious or unconscious

> > relationships of various types. Husband - Wife,

> > Parent - Child, Guru -

> > Disciple, Friend - Friend, etc.

> >

> > I don't mind being attracted to some people or some

> > teachings and not so to

> > others.

>

> Well, whether "you" mind or not, makes no

> difference to the dynamic.

> "You" are a construct of the dynamic.

> Even if you object to the dynamic, your

> very objecting ends up being part of it,

> the dynamic that seems to create "you",

> which "you" seem to project ...

>

> >

> > Dan, I wanted to comment on something in an earlier

> > post of yours as well.

> > You had stated:

> >

> > "I sense a difference in tone between

> > one who is simply being aware, and

> > one who is seeking to gain others' attention,

> > following, admiration, adoration.

> >

> > And, many tricksters as well as charistmatic

> > teachers, leaders, speakers and writers fall into

> > that category."

>

> > I agree with you Dan. However, consider that the

> > nature of attraction is

> > built into the fabric of the Universe.

>

> There is no fabric to the Universe.

> There is only the "fabric-less" Consciousness

> which is none other than Love and Being

> yet which really has no name (i.e., *that*)

> which has no "within" nor "without",

> hence no inherent structure, nor lack

> of structure.

>

> >The earth and

> > the planets are able to

> > go around the sun in a relatively smooth orbit

> > because of the law of

> > attraction to some center of gravity.

>

> The earth and planets, and the "law of gravity",

> are the same thing. They don't go 'round

> because of a law external to themselves.

> They themselves are the action of the so-called

> "law" ... in other words, the Universe is

> seemless manifestation without separation,

> so there are no separable laws governing

> things that happen in some space external

> to the "laws" ...

>

> > Have you seen

> > a family gathered

> > around a little baby girl or baby boy. Parents,

> > Grandparents, uncles, aunts,

> > cousins all giving their utmost attention,

> > adoration, admiration. Gently

> > massaging her feet, looking into her eyes. The mere

> > fact of existence of

> > this baby draws attention, adoration, admiration,

> > etc., even though the baby

> > does not seek it.

>

> Clearly, if the baby is considered as an external

> agent that draws love from me, there is a

> conceptual separation between "me" and "the

> baby" ...

>

> To me, adoration is a version of love in which

> distance is yet assumed as real. If there

> can be adoration, there can be despising,

> because they are two versions of the same

> dynamic. Admiration and derogation go hand

> in hand. What people usually call love

> is just a polarity with indifference. The

> love that has no bounds and no opposite,

> the nameless love, is not a movement toward,

> (an attraction), nor a movement away (a repulsion).

>

> >Sometimes, it is the element of

> > innocence, lack of self

> > consciousness, and overwhelming beauty of life

> > whether of a baby or a sage

> > that calls forth admiration and adoration.

>

> Yes. Yet admiration and adoration

> are always toward an image.

> And thus, these states of relationship

> are transitional and not "ultimate" ...

>

> Adoration passes away with wisdom,

> because wisdom is the love that

> allows no object, no relation to

> another.

>

> Don't misunderstand me as someone who

> misses your point, who doesn't see that

> you are suggesting that the infinite

> includes all versions of love, that

> adoration, although seeming to involve

> two is expression of One. I see your

> point and value it. Yet, I point to

> an ending of any reliance on image, which

> is inexpressible in words, and which

> allows neither "two" nor "one" to

> manifest or unmanifest. Although this

> point seems as if "prior to" any manifestation,

> it is all that is, and has nothing whatsoever

> to do with constructs that are played out

> as a "being going through states in time" ...

> (This statement is merely suggestive, not

> meant to point to any *absence* of a "being

> going through states in time")

>

> Certainly, I have no reason to negate,

> nor to be against adoration, which is simply

> one of many feeling-states that affect

> perception, and which come and go.

>

> Nothing is out of place.

>

> When a transitional state passes into

> another transitional state, where is

> that which has no change, no state,

> no movement? It is not apart, not somewhere

> else. So, it is in the state of adoration,

> and in the state of disillusionment with

> adoration. It is here prior to adoration

> and after the death of adoration, the one

> who adores, and that which is adored.

>

>

> > Some of

> > my best moments have been

> > in adoration of others.

>

> And what have some of your worst moments

> been?

> And what is *that* in which any moment

> is equal and inseparable from any other

> moment?

>

> If a trickster and

> > charismatic teachers can call

> > forth that type of adoration as well, so be it. If

> > the motive for the

> > adoration is pure, the one who adores gets saturated

> > with the beauty he or

> > she perceives in the "guru" even though it may be a

> > trickster or a just a

> > charismatic teacher. That is how it seems to me.

>

> Yes. This sems to me like saying that there may

> be an aspect of love in even the darkest

> places. I agree with this very much.

> Love is never absent.

> That is the mystery of love.

>

> Namaste and thank you!

>

> Love,

> Dan

 

 

 

/join

 

 

 

 

All paths go somewhere. No path goes nowhere. Paths, places, sights,

perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and subside

back into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than

the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of Awareness.

Awareness does not come and go but is always Present. It is Home. Home is

where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart to be the Finality of Eternal

Being. A true devotee relishes in the Truth of Self-Knowledge, spontaneously

arising from within into It Self. Welcome all to a.

 

 

 

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>Thanks Ed. I think you and Dan need to have a conversation! :-).

 

Namaste, Harsha!

>When you start using those kinds of terms, I feel only qualified to

listen!

 

Well then, you might enjoy the curried alphabet soup he makes of my

words. :-)

 

Peace, brother.

 

>>Just a little more BS: The adoration of the infant's

>>unconditionality is the "apparent" movement of

>>unconditional love meeting itself...through the dynamic

>>simultaneous >>polarity (being) of self/SELF.

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>Thanks Ed. I think you and Dan need to have a conversation! :-).

 

Namaste, Harsha!

>When you start using those kinds of terms, I feel only qualified to

listen!

 

Well then, you might enjoy the curried alphabet soup he makes of my

words. :-)

 

Peace, brother.

************************************************

Namaste Ed!

 

Yes, Dan is gifted with words and the overwhelming intelligence,

understanding, and capacity to use them. His prose approaches poetry, his

critique goes to the heart of the matter and his logic is unassailable. Dan

takes words as far as they can go.

 

Dan's enormous talents are supplemented with a generous and a kind heart and

overflowing wisdom and we love him for that.

 

The limitations of words Ed, especially in describing the Truth of Reality,

is that we have to make the assumption that we can stand outside the Truth,

Reality, and therefore can speak about it in a manner that is independent of

that Reality.

 

That is why anything can be said.

 

Love

Harsha

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Dear Harsha,

> Thank you for your thoughtful response.

 

You're welcome.

My pleasure, and thanks for yours,

as well.

> You are

> indeed right Dan that

> whatever word is used will have an opposite. Ancient

> sages often used

> Sat-Chit-Ananda (Existence-Consciousness-Bliss) to

> describe the Self.

> However, some can criticize this on the ground that

> the Self is beyond

> existence and non-existence, knowledge, ignorance,

> etc.

 

Indeed, it is the central assumption of language and

thought, to be able to contrast something

with what it is not, in such a way as to

form definition, meaning and relationship.

That this assumption is found across cultures,

in the structures that are assumed in order

to think, organize perception and society,

and form language,

speaks to the universality of the "human being" ...

 

My response, however, was not simply to note

the bias inherent in language,

but to take a look

at the limitations of "adoration" --

to humbly acknowledge love prior to,

and beyond states such as adoration, and

similarly prior to the dynamics of judgment,

attraction, and repulsion.

>

> Sages point out based on their experience that

> Sat-Chit-Ananda is one

> monolithic whole. And that Sat-Chit-Ananda are not

> attributes but the

> inherent nature of the Self It Self as one

> Inseparable Whole. What to do?

 

There is nothing to do, and nothing

that hasn't already been done.

> Some language has to be used. And whatever language

> is used can be subjected

> to logical scrutiny. Then that logical scrutiny can

> be subjected to further

> more rigorous scrutiny, etc.

 

My response to you included logic, Harsha, but

simultaneously expresses intuitive awareness.

I wrote simply to point to

the limitations of an idealization of adoration.

 

To be clear --

I am not against adoration, nor am I

saying that someone needs to never express

adoration. "What is" is inclusive of all

possible states, including adoration, repugnance,

indifference. Yet "what is" is not adoring, not

the object of adoration, nor

repelled, nor indifferent. How can "what is"

be inclusive of all possible states, yet

be within no states, having no qualities?

Like this!

 

Certainly I am not intrigued by logical scrutiny for

its own sake, nor by endlessly subjecting logic to

logic. In fact, I don't see "what is" as the outcome

of logical scrutiny.

 

That there is love beyond attraction and repulsion,

and beyond adoration, is what I addressed,

which is actually "a point prior to and

beyond logical scrutiny".

 

Remember -- your previous statements had to do with

the necessity of making judgments, of being

attracted to certain teachers and sages, indifferent

to

or repulsed by others,

and finding adoration to be valuable in

and of itself. It was in that context that I spoke.

That is what I addressed, not the concept

that everything needs to be subjected to

logical scrutiny ad infinitum.

 

To be clear with you, dear Harsha, what I'm

saying is that adoration is a transitory

state of being that

involves a relationship in which there is

one and another.

> I had said that the nature of consciousness itself

> is Self-Attraction.

> Here, "Attraction" was not meant as a movement

> towards anything. It is just

> another way to use language to describe a method, an

> orientation, a way of

> understanding. If it does not make sense, that is

> ok.

 

Yes, I'm sure that's true of any of my statements

as well, if they don't make sense, they

don't make sense.

 

I speak not in service of a method or an

orientation, nor against a method

or an orientation. Simply put, where

there is no outside, and thus no being

who can be apart, there is

no future outcome to be attained, hence no

method to put in place. There is nothing

to orient. Here there can be no understanding

nor adoration to be had,

nor is there in any way a limitation

or lack of understanding or love.

 

Acknowledging we are "now"

beyond logic, words, or sensations,

we can speak what we have to say,

without worrying about whether

or not we've made sense.

 

My situation when I speak of these

things is utterly hopeless, and I

acknowledge that.

> I do not view any

> statement as describing some ultimate truth. Truth

> Is Self. Self Is Truth.

> When One Is It, there is no being outside it to be

> attracted and so forth.

 

Indeed - anything said about *this* cannot be taken

itself as *this*, for this is not definable

as a verbal statement -- yet there is nothing

other than *this*.

 

So, we rest in peace "now", and say what we

will, or say nothing.

 

"When one is it", there is

no such thing as ever not having

been it, nor of anything that could

have ever not been it.

> That is why I said, It's nature is that of

> Self-attraction. It has no where

> to move and no one to move towards.

 

Thank you for clarifying.

>But if someone

> is more satisfied with a

> different combination of words, negations, etc. to

> understand the wholeness

> of their nature, why not?

 

Certainly, one's nature isn't

definable by words, that's

been acknowledged ;-)

Yet, words are used to communicate

by humans, and nothing is out of place ;-)

 

Usually words are used to achieve objectives,

such as organizing actions or imparting

a point of view.

 

So, when words are used to express what has

no objective, such words can't be understood

as words usually are understood (when

goals and objectives are maintained).

Understanding "now" must be comprehended

as neither imparting meaning, nor lacking

meaning-- not at all "meaningless", this

word (regardless whether "you" or "I"

speak) -- is itself revealing to itself.

 

So, yes, if your use of "self-attraction" was

said in this way, then, indeed, it "makes sense" ...

 

As you suggest I say it in whatever way fits for me,

I will say "Self-revelation" ...

 

And I'm sure the same "criticism" could apply

to that word, too, for what is there to

be revealed to whom?

> If you like your tea without sugar, I will have it

> the same way. :-).

 

Regardless of who drinks the tea in

what way, it ends up in the same place ;-)

 

Love,

Dan

 

 

 

 

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