Guest guest Posted December 18, 2001 Report Share Posted December 18, 2001 Dearest Gloria, You wrote: >>>> O God! how insidious is self-love! Twisting like a snake, only too often it succeeds in preserving its life in the face of mortal threats. There is no illusion more deceptive than this. <<< Too serious, Oh my God, Gloria... How Lutheran, even Calvinistic! Indeed, hear Harsha, "Why worry...?" To see the fault of insidious self-love in yourself will not turn that 'insidious self-love' into unconditional self-love... Please, quickly invoke the fifth amendment. :-) You don't have to implicate yourself or set yourself up for prosecution... In fact, seriously, this self-implication, may slow down the re-covery of unconditional self, when you blame yourself for having it... Exonerate yourself, lighten your self from the burden of 'having been talked into being down on yourself'. Someone else is trying to load that burden onto you... The statement or SENTENCE that accuses you of having this kind of 'insidious self-love' comes from outside yourself, you were not born with it...it is not innate... It is not part of human divine nature, our human divine heritage and franchise. Don't let anyone stick it to you and thusly have you denature yourself... This accusation gets passed down to you, (and if you are not careful you will pass it down as well to your loved ones) by others who pass the buck to you just as they were passed that buck, just as they were not loved by their ancestors who accused them of insidious self-love, ancestors who also were not loved as they were also accused of insidious self-love and ... ... ... and so on backwards down the ancestral line... Ah, Eureka... You have found the root of "original sin", the instance when the original divine humans were talked into believing that they were not worth their divine nature... Is that wrongful belief still sticking up its nose...? Jesus thought that he had it all solved... This hand me down accusation of insidious self love... is what makes it so insidious... Start by loving yourself, any which way, there is less risk involved than by hating yourself. Putting yourself down for insidious self-love, ergo 'hating yourself', is guaranteed to work... Almost anyway, if it were not for people who help you liberate your selves from it. An interesting kind of "remote control" from the past eh? This "original" put down... Ah Gloria, do not take it so serious... But I won't put you down for bringing it up..., no way ... thanks... you are making my day... I love you for bringing IT up... So that now you can put IT down... Very far away from yourself... In fact, Gloria, better destroy IT... IT is a letter bomb... Destroy IT, lest others may find IT and use IT as a reason to hate themselves for finding IT, and then passing IT on to others...) In Dutch 'original sin' is also called 'erf zonde', the sin that you 'inherit'. Ah, what a hand-me-down... Is it not about time that we stop this nonsense. Do not recycle a letter bomb. Wim, Inciting you to try some unadulterated unconditional love for your SELF, unconditional... that means 'any which way' PS Christmas coming up... 'Emanuel', God is WITH us, immanently us. Let's recover our original BIRTH! The right to eternal life, the birth right of the human divine / divine human. Emanuel Manuel Human-U-El Human, you are God. ------------------ ---In , "Gloria Lee" <glee@c...> wrote: > The Revival of Self-love > by Jean-pierre de Caussade > from "Spiritual Letters" > One of self-love's subtle and unperceived illusions is to seek to discover the stage reached in your mystical dying, under pretext of getting to know what it must do to make that death in you still more thorough. > > In this life you will never make this discovery, nor is it to your advantage to do so. For even in the case of a soul that has completely died to the self, there is the risk of the self's revival if this discovery be made. This, because self-love's satisfaction at such an assurance would be so excessive that it would revive, and enter upon a new life more subtle and more difficult to destroy than the old. > Why worry? Harsha > > > /join All paths go somewhere. No path goes nowhere. Paths, places, sights, perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and subside back into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of Awareness. Awareness does not come and go but is always Present. It is Home. Home is where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart to be the Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee relishes in the Truth of Self-Knowledge, spontaneously arising from within into It Self. Welcome all to a. Your use of is subject to --- Incoming mail is certified Virus Free. 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Guest guest Posted December 19, 2001 Report Share Posted December 19, 2001 Dear Wim, Your concern is appreciated, but I feel it is misplaced. Trust me, this passage wasn't heard by me in the way you have interpreted it here. In no way am I "down on my self." That you can even suggest so, after knowing me on here for this length of time, is beyond me to comprehend. Over the past 30 years, I have read a lot of the writings of the old Catholic saints and mystics and their genuine love and happiness shines through, despite all the old fashioned terminology. Look at the prayers of St. Francis, besides just the famous one. There are some real treasures to be found in this literature if one can be open to understanding them, despite the sometimes cumbersome language of the times. Meister Eckhart's descriptions of the Godhead are completely nondual, The Dark Night of the Soul,and many of these spiritual classics, had very little in common with the prevailing theology and politics of the times. Some of them were considered heretics, or their writings were secret and undiscovered. It's funny to me that post after post here may speak (unchallenged) of no self, no doer, or transcending ego, and yet that is quite similar to what is meant by mystical "dying to self" in the context of the passage I quoted here. Abandonment to the will of God and surrender were descriptive of union with God, (or realization) within that Christian paradigm. People talked this way in the 17th century. This has nothing to do with what is apparently your concern for healthy self-esteem. Humility is not about thinking less of yourself, it is about thinking about yourself less often. When comparisons are made across religious and cultural contexts, it is a mistake to assume the words are defined the same way. The ego of Advaita and Buddhism and Freud are not equivalent terms. People might extend the same courtesy and spirit of openess to hear writers in their original context, before rushing to condemn them. I realize that this quote required more than the usual generosity, but to me it made a worthwhile point about self-obsession about where one is at level-wise. Gloria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2001 Report Share Posted December 19, 2001 Hi Gloria! Nice line: >Humility is not about thinking less of yourself, >it is about thinking about yourself less often. Thanks! And could be added ... less intensely, with less involvement ... So, what is it called when realizing that whatever you've been thinking was yourself, and whatever you've been intense about and involved in ... isn't? *What is*? Humbly, in truth, St. Dan P.S. Yes, agreed this is an on-target point: >to me it made a worthwhile point about self-obsession about where one >is at, level-wise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2001 Report Share Posted December 19, 2001 Dear Gloria, You wrote: >>>Trust me, this passage wasn't heard by me in the way you have interpreted it here.<<< It was by some though, it was not just me... And I only reacted to one phrase... the word 'insidious' just stood out too much... :-))) >>>In no way am I "down on my self." That you can even suggest so, after knowing me on here for this length of time, is beyond me to comprehend. <<< I know that!!! In the fire of me writing, that did not come through, my heartfelt apologies... What I wrote though, can still stand on its own, the kinds of text that you quoted are very often interpreted wrongly... >>>> Over the past 30 years, I have read a lot of the writings of the old Catholic saints and mystics and their genuine love and happiness shines through, despite all the old fashioned terminology. Look at the prayers of St. Francis, besides just the famous one. There are some real treasures to be found in this literature if one can be open to understanding them, despite the sometimes cumbersome language of the times. Meister Eckhart's descriptions of the Godhead are completely nondual, The Dark Night of the Soul,and many of these spiritual classics, had very little in common with the prevailing theology and politics of the times. Some of them were considered heretics, or their writings were secret and undiscovered.<<< I appreciate all that and I could not agree more... :-) >>>>It's funny to me that post after post here may speak (unchallenged) of no self, no doer, or transcending ego, and yet that is quite similar to what is meant by mystical "dying to self" in the context of the passage I quoted here. Abandonment to the will of God and surrender were descriptive of union with God, (or realization) within that Christian paradigm. People talked this way in the 17th century. This has nothing to do with what is apparently your concern for healthy self-esteem. Humility is not about thinking less of yourself, it is about thinking about yourself less often. <<< "Thinking" is the problematic and quintessential word here... >>>People might extend the same courtesy and spirit of openess to hear writers in their original context, before rushing to condemn them. <<<< I actually responded mostly to the phrase: >>>> O God! how insidious is self-love! Twisting like a snake, only too often it succeeds in preserving its life in the face of mortal threats. There is no illusion more deceptive than this. <<< >>>>I realize that this quote required more than the usual generosity, but to me it made a worthwhile point about self-obsession about where one is at level-wise.<<<< "Why worry about it" said Harsha. Notice that just the observation to figure out "where one is at level wise..." is a sign of .... (you guessed it) ...un warranted self obsession. I hope you can now read what I wrote in the same vein as the way you expected me to read your quote... :-))) You do have that sense of humour...!!! Love, Gloria, Wim (Both Humanly Obsessed in Divine Glory) --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.306 / Virus Database: 166 - Release 12/4/2001 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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