Jerkiness

[Guest guest]

Relationships today are difficult for some people. If you have a

child it is harder.

 

Singles have different interests than parents.

 

It is even difficult being in a relationship. The ups and downs and

then just downs make you look around even before you split up.

 

What to do? Put out a mating call. Everyone does it. It says 'I am

available and desirable' in every way possible to communicate. But

today there is so much conflict about wanting someone, and the

willingness to find one and take a chance.

 

This is my thesis; Jerkiness is muddying the water.

Men take advantage by refusing to see a woman as a person that will

still be around tomorrow with feelings that can get hurt.

Women prejudge men which runs off the ones capable of loving them and

would be capable of treating them as people instead of objects.

This is formulaic but is a start for realizing that we think about

relationships before they start as if they will fail. Conclusion:

Have some fun!

 

what is the truth? Anyone including ourselves can be different one

minute from now. We are not things that can be defined. People are

the only thing on the planet that can become something different with

different agendas and tastes from one instant to another. The Real

Self doesn't change but the personality that meets the other people

can, we just have to be in charge a little.

 

Maybe we just want to be taken care of, not worry about it for a

while, and let someone we trust take over for awhile. But we are

worried that that trust will be abused. The conflict is intense

sometimes I know. It should help to know what it is. Sometimes we

put out a mating call and don't know we are doing it. We want

someone but we really don't trust others enough to admit that to

ourselves.

 

All Love

Bobby B.