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Why Dearest Bob; You Golden Sufi you!

Love it when you speak from the heart place.

I have spirit money to burn

in the Ghost Festival, and

The Laws of Heaven

allow no exceptions:>>>>>>>>>

We light our candles on paper leaves,

and send them floating on the river.

Who sent them?

Who saw them go?

Who can keep them?

Only the prayers arrive.

love

eric

, shawn <shawn@w...> wrote:

....watching the "me project." And watching me project......

Who is this?

..... Brothers and Sisters,

Hearts of Faith,

Channels of Grace,

a moment please –

we have been checked into these

drab motels for so long

we begin to think of them as

our actual forwarding address.

We are driven hither and thither by

a little imaginary machine percolating

under our skin, so that we

never rest.

In the fervor of our archaeology,

we hold pieces of broken glass

over our heads and crow about

our treasures.

In solitary moods of desperation we always

crave that of which

we have already despaired –

Final Blessing.

Believe me now -

the secret of Blessing is that

Blessing is never denied,

nor is It ever final.

I have spirit money to burn

in the Ghost Festival, and

The Laws of Heaven

allow no exceptions:

luck and misfortune are intertwined,

and although I've played with these

dice my whole life,

they are useless to me now.

It is said that someone who

doesn't make flowers makes thorns.

"If you're not building rooms where

wisdom can be openly spoken,

you're building a prison."

Truly, the slightest breeze can

pull us inside these prison gates,

and even the strongest ox can't

pull us out again.

Wherever we walk, the monkey

is surely not far behind.

He even volunteers for jail.

Perhaps this is why the

King of Masks remarked:

"The dragon in the shallows

is forever toyed with by shrimp."

The world often seems to be a cold place,

but we can bring warmth to it.

What other enjoyment can there

be in life? A drop of Compassion

brings wellsprings of Gratitude.

Is there water in this wine, or

wine in this water?

When such questions are asked,

my eyes drift up to the sky.

I stare, still somehow disbelieving, at

the charred ruins of my own boat.

How swiftly the fire, once

ignited, showed me that

there is nothing we can own.

You ask from whence I come.

I answer "Here".

These ashes are my crib,

and in this mud a kind of

sprout has pushed through into

daylight.

Thank you for

Your Water.

I stagger, blinded, from

The Tavern of the Drunken Idiots,

my limp more evident now,

but the tricks of the monkey are

wasted on me in my condition.

God takes pity on fools such as I.

I hold you here where we both

blend with eternity, and

something there makes me

hear the whole world

sigh in relief.

I sit astride the toenail of the

Buddha of Infinite Qualities, without

any qualities I can find in myself.

Where She roams, thunder echoes

from Her footsteps, but

I hear only the most imperceptible

glad murmur of reception from the

earth on which She treads.

They say that the heart acts as a translator

between mystery and intelligence;

that it has its own dwellers who

do not speak with those who are just

passing through. But I ask:

"Who is there on this shining floor

who is not trampled by Her

Dancing Feet?"

The Princess arrives on the

Boat of Kindness, and along the banks

there are Lilac Groves whose

fragrance runs riot through the senses.

Spring's first Buttercups are enough to

quiet all dispute, just as the Tulips

reveal the meaning of our appearance.

Yes, no, maybe so –

in this lovely garden of our souls,

what use are these distinctions?

When life is this dear,

can we not feel the One

Who is calling us Home,

even now,

even Now?

Don't stop anywhere!

Not until we

vanish can we know where

we truly stand.

After this death we can

become human at last.

I have emptied out my pockets –

there is nothing in them

anymore.

If you grab me by the collar,

what you hold is only air.

One after another,

each will pass through this

Gate in their time, and these words

like ashes will be scattered along the

avenues of towns long ago abandoned.

And please forgive me for this

indulgence here –

my sand has now

poured through.

LoveAlways,

b

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perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and

subside back into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not

different than the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of

the nature of Awareness. Awareness does not come and go but is always

Present. It is Home. Home is where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart

to be the Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee relishes in the

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STOP PRETENDING

 

By Catherine Ingram

 

 

 

INNER DIRECTIONS JOURNAL, SPRING 1997

 

One day a six-year-old friend said to me, "Pretend you are surrounded

by a thousand hungry tigers. What would you do?" I visualized the

situation as he had suggested and, coming up with no viable plan of

action, said, "Wow, I don't know. What would you do?" And he

replied, "I'd stop pretending."

 

In many ways, our usual pretending to be' somebody, to

prove' something, to aggrandize some notion of ourselves is similar

to imagining being surrounded by a thousand hungry tigers. It is a

condition of fright based on an illusion of our own creation. As soon

as we take ourselves to be a separate

agent—a somebody—we are more or less in competition with or trying

to be protected from—other bodies. With the beliefs in "I,me,"

and 'mine" come fear and craving. It's a package deal. Waking up is

the refusal to indulge this nightmare any longer, the simple decision

to stop pretending. Beyond that, nothing further is required. In

other words, you need not add anything. You need only to no longer

entertain thoughts and beliefs that are not true. Then this beauty

that you are, your true nature, shines through effortlessly and

brilliantly.

A classic metaphor suggests that we observe clouds covering the view

of the sun. Eventually the clouds pass. The intelligent observer

would not assume that any thing inherent in the passing of the clouds

actually created the sun. There would be recognition that the sun had

merely been temporarily obscured by clouds, but had been there all

along. In this same way, our true nature of clear presence is, at

times, obscured but always shining.

Yet, if this is so simple, so available, so obvious, how have people

consistently missed its ongoing realization? Why have people gone to

such lengths ardently practicing techniques, programs, and religions

only to become further entrenched in ideology and sometimes even

fighting wars to defend their "faith"?

The answer lies in the investment in beliefs. I once

interviewed J. Krishnamurti, and as I was about to ask him a question

beginning with the words, "Do you believe...?" he stopped me and

said, "I don't believe in anything." Most people believe their

thoughts, and if they have had a lot of thoughts on a given subject

over time, there is a long-term investment in the belief of those

thoughts. The good news is first, that one need not believe one's

thoughts, and secondly, that there is no loss whatsoever in

abandoning the long-term investment in what had been believed. On the

contrary, without belief in habitual thought, there is clear seeing

and open potentiality. Beliefs lock us into a set way of perceiving

that filters reality through these beliefs—like a screen—and

conditions our actual experience of life. As one believes, so one

experiences. If one holds a belief that the world is a dangerous

place, one experiences danger all around. If one believes

oneself to have been damaged in childhood, then one experiences life

as a victim and feels abused at every turn. If one believes that

something more is needed for happiness—more money, more sex, more

power, more notoriety—then that person experiences hunger and a sense

of lack, no matter what divine showers occur.

These thoughts and concepts all cluster around one central

belief—the belief in "me." This is the ridgepole for the entire

illusory house of pain. With it comes an obsession with the related

topics of my life, my past, my future, my likes and dislikes, my

opinions, my needs, my feelings, my worth.

With this one central belief comes also an enormous and miserable

workload—the me project, which requires continual feeding and

entertainment. Because there is an inherent feeling of separation

that comes with the belief in "me," there is also a perceived need

for protection, so there is wariness and suspicion of possible

threats. Its appetite for experience is driven by an unrelenting

sense of discomfort and a desire to be at least temporarily

distracted from the project. To that end there is abuse of all

kinds of substances, sex, material consumption, and power.

After working many years on the me project, and finding no lasting

satisfaction in any of its pursuits of "happiness," some people

decide to try a different approach, and they direct the project in a

search for enlightenment. They become spiritual seekers. But, often

it is just the same old me project, only now with a new spin: "I will

become enlightened, and then I will be respected, feel better about

myself, spend time with spiritual people, get out of this pitiful

condition I've been living in, and someday maybe have lots of

followers, sex, and money, to boot."

I know this well from experience. By the time I was twenty years old,

I had realized that all the worldly promise for happiness paled in

time or worse, grew bitter to the taste. For the next two decades I

lived a life of spiritual pursuit, mostly focusing on Buddhist

meditation practice. But, I did so with the hope of attaining

something someday. I wanted to feel better; to have a

sense of belonging, to be visionary and wise. Yet, as long as this

feeling of "I" is around, there is almost no hope of feeling better.

Even when I was getting what I wanted, there was always the nagging

sense that it would soon be gone.

Anything gained in time may also be lost in time.

Looking back on the twists and eddies of this life journey, I see

that so much of what I attempted in my longing for happiness was a

way of exhausting all possibilities that the world offered, including

spiritual pursuit. Neti neti as they say in India. Not this, not

that. Many years of spiritual endeavor eventually ended in

disappointment and spiritual disappointment is a most troubling kind

of despair as there is a sense that there is nowhere else to

turn. Of course, this is also a potential dawn of realization, for

when there is nowhere else to turn, one may be forced to recognize

that mysterious essence which silently permeates one's discontent all

along, that supreme peace which is never shaken or diminished in all

those long wanderings in sorrow or joy.

A friend of mine recently remarked (as a play on the old Janis Joplin

song). "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to choose." If

one is fortunate, there comes an eventual giving up of the me project

altogether— when you've played out all your dreams and schemes and

found no consolation in any of them, when the tired stories

about "me," or spiritual attainment, or needing to have some

particular life experience have no lure and cannot seduce you for

one moment from your mountain seat of freedom.

And there you rest effortlessly, no longer looking for love

but being love, no longer yearning for vision but continually

baptized in a mystical vision of perfection, no longer trying to live

in the present, but knowing that is it is impossible to live other

than in the eternal stream of now, no longer trying to clear your

mind but knowing without doubt that nothing—no thought, worry,

fear, or idea about yourself—has ever stuck to you or ever

could.

 

 

 

LoveAlways,

 

b

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I play your game when you make me cry like this.

If I had a sister

I would have probably been fighting with her over that shell!

Yet, now I am a worthless shell

I can listen to the sea that you speak of.

And know that the ocean is my sister

Yet in truth. Much closer than this.

love

eric

, ErcAshfrd@a... wrote:

>Love it when you speak from the heart place.

Waves of love wash over my shore, faithfully, obliterating the little

scratched markings in the sand left by beachcombers long gone, the

carved shapes of hearts and words returned once more to pristine

sparkling innocence of primal virgin elements. This vast and timeless

shore!

Laughing and sweeping their arms out across the horizon as if to

encompass this infinite panorama of delight, a couple make their way

along the ebb & flow of tidal waterline, and before them two

children, pails and shovels in hand, race along with breathless

wonder.

The little girl stops momentarily, her eyes widening with the joy of

treasure's discovery, and she reaches down to scoop up a half-buried

seashell. Rinsing it off in the cool waters playing around her

ankles, she beams with happiness to share it with her brother.

"O look!" She offers, "Look at what I've found!"

He peers into the intricate shape, forged in the same ocean that

birthed his ancestors, and with the exquisite regard only children

can summon, pours into that small shell and finds himself drifting

through immense galaxies of starry radiance, and it is a timeless

realm of vast and silent majesty, and he is that in which he floats,

and all swims within him in utter perfection and brilliance, and he

recognizes his own face, the face of the splendor and glory that he

is, that he has always been -- his own form stretched across space,

birthing star clusters and trailing comets through endless paths of

luminescent ecstasy. Worlds within worlds, worlds upon worlds, appear

and disappear in the twinkling of his eye, and all the while a

flaming yearning is met by an open welcoming embrace, as if one huge

spirit heart perpetually forgets and then remembers itself, and only

for the sheer joy of the thrilling re-discovery!

And so he looks up into his sister's expectant eyes, and behind her

the golden sands, and then the hills race up into the bright blue

sky -- the hills ablaze with sunlit vibrant greens and rich deep

earthy browns, and soaring hawks tilt wings upon the air currents,

and wisps of clouds emerge from nowhere and just as soon vanish, and

it is all one piece, they are all one Body, and now his heart is

breaking with unbearable beauty, with overwhelming love for the mere

and sublime presence of every thing, and the no-thing out of which

and back to which it flows, and flows, and flows.

And so he smiles at her, and gently hands the small shell back, and

she says, laughing:

"What game shall we play today?"

LoveAlways,

b

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perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and

subside back into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not

different than the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of

the nature of Awareness. Awareness does not come and go but is always

Present. It is Home. Home is where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart

to be the Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee relishes in the

Truth of Self-Knowledge, spontaneously arising from within into It

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Love this! The "me project". The maypole is down to one stand. ...a

mantra....mystical visions a siddhis occur......there is this subtle

sense of suffering....why? "I" am still here. The "me project."

....watching the "me project." And watching me project......

Who is this?

================================

on 7/5/02 6:57 AM, hrtbeat7 at hrtbeat7 wrote:

STOP PRETENDING

By Catherine Ingram

INNER DIRECTIONS JOURNAL, SPRING 1997

One day a six-year-old friend said to me, "Pretend you are surrounded

by a thousand hungry tigers. What would you do?" I visualized the

situation as he had suggested and, coming up with no viable plan of

action, said, "Wow, I don't know. What would you do?" And he

replied, "I'd stop pretending."

In many ways, our usual pretending to be' somebody, to

prove' something, to aggrandize some notion of ourselves is similar

to imagining being surrounded by a thousand hungry tigers. It is a

condition of fright based on an illusion of our own creation. As soon

as we take ourselves to be a separate

agent—a somebody—we are more or less in competition with or trying

to be protected from—other bodies. With the beliefs in "I,me,"

and 'mine" come fear and craving. It's a package deal. Waking up is

the refusal to indulge this nightmare any longer, the simple decision

to stop pretending. Beyond that, nothing further is required. In

other words, you need not add anything. You need only to no longer

entertain thoughts and beliefs that are not true. Then this beauty

that you are, your true nature, shines through effortlessly and

brilliantly.

A classic metaphor suggests that we observe clouds covering the view

of the sun. Eventually the clouds pass. The intelligent observer

would not assume that any thing inherent in the passing of the clouds

actually created the sun. There would be recognition that the sun had

merely been temporarily obscured by clouds, but had been there all

along. In this same way, our true nature of clear presence is, at

times, obscured but always shining.

Yet, if this is so simple, so available, so obvious, how have people

consistently missed its ongoing realization? Why have people gone to

such lengths ardently practicing techniques, programs, and religions

only to become further entrenched in ideology and sometimes even

fighting wars to defend their "faith"?

The answer lies in the investment in beliefs. I once

interviewed J. Krishnamurti, and as I was about to ask him a question

beginning with the words, "Do you believe...?" he stopped me and

said, "I don't believe in anything." Most people believe their

thoughts, and if they have had a lot of thoughts on a given subject

over time, there is a long-term investment in the belief of those

thoughts. The good news is first, that one need not believe one's

thoughts, and secondly, that there is no loss whatsoever in

abandoning the long-term investment in what had been believed. On the

contrary, without belief in habitual thought, there is clear seeing

and open potentiality. Beliefs lock us into a set way of perceiving

that filters reality through these beliefs—like a screen—and

conditions our actual experience of life. As one believes, so one

experiences. If one holds a belief that the world is a dangerous

place, one experiences danger all around. If one believes

oneself to have been damaged in childhood, then one experiences life

as a victim and feels abused at every turn. If one believes that

something more is needed for happiness—more money, more sex, more

power, more notoriety—then that person experiences hunger and a sense

of lack, no matter what divine showers occur.

These thoughts and concepts all cluster around one central

belief—the belief in "me." This is the ridgepole for the entire

illusory house of pain. With it comes an obsession with the related

topics of my life, my past, my future, my likes and dislikes, my

opinions, my needs, my feelings, my worth.

With this one central belief comes also an enormous and miserable

workload—the me project, which requires continual feeding and

entertainment. Because there is an inherent feeling of separation

that comes with the belief in "me," there is also a perceived need

for protection, so there is wariness and suspicion of possible

threats. Its appetite for experience is driven by an unrelenting

sense of discomfort and a desire to be at least temporarily

distracted from the project. To that end there is abuse of all

kinds of substances, sex, material consumption, and power.

After working many years on the me project, and finding no lasting

satisfaction in any of its pursuits of "happiness," some people

decide to try a different approach, and they direct the project in a

search for enlightenment. They become spiritual seekers. But, often

it is just the same old me project, only now with a new spin: "I will

become enlightened, and then I will be respected, feel better about

myself, spend time with spiritual people, get out of this pitiful

condition I've been living in, and someday maybe have lots of

followers, sex, and money, to boot."

I know this well from experience. By the time I was twenty years old,

I had realized that all the worldly promise for happiness paled in

time or worse, grew bitter to the taste. For the next two decades I

lived a life of spiritual pursuit, mostly focusing on Buddhist

meditation practice. But, I did so with the hope of attaining

something someday. I wanted to feel better; to have a

sense of belonging, to be visionary and wise. Yet, as long as this

feeling of "I" is around, there is almost no hope of feeling better.

Even when I was getting what I wanted, there was always the nagging

sense that it would soon be gone.

Anything gained in time may also be lost in time.

Looking back on the twists and eddies of this life journey, I see

that so much of what I attempted in my longing for happiness was a

way of exhausting all possibilities that the world offered, including

spiritual pursuit. Neti neti as they say in India. Not this, not

that. Many years of spiritual endeavor eventually ended in

disappointment and spiritual disappointment is a most troubling kind

of despair as there is a sense that there is nowhere else to

turn. Of course, this is also a potential dawn of realization, for

when there is nowhere else to turn, one may be forced to recognize

that mysterious essence which silently permeates one's discontent all

along, that supreme peace which is never shaken or diminished in all

those long wanderings in sorrow or joy.

A friend of mine recently remarked (as a play on the old Janis Joplin

song). "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to choose." If

one is fortunate, there comes an eventual giving up of the me project

altogether— when you've played out all your dreams and schemes and

found no consolation in any of them, when the tired stories

about "me," or spiritual attainment, or needing to have some

particular life experience have no lure and cannot seduce you for

one moment from your mountain seat of freedom.

And there you rest effortlessly, no longer looking for love

but being love, no longer yearning for vision but continually

baptized in a mystical vision of perfection, no longer trying to live

in the present, but knowing that is it is impossible to live other

than in the eternal stream of now, no longer trying to clear your

mind but knowing without doubt that nothing—no thought, worry,

fear, or idea about yourself—has ever stuck to you or ever

could.

LoveAlways,

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Hi Shawn,

> ...watching the "me project." And watching me project......> Who is this?

There is really no need to question oneself.

"That one's existence was questioned around the moment of birth, does

not have to mean that one has to take that question seriously."

"You had no trouble with you; someone else may have had..., and maybe

often enough for it to become a condition around you. You then may

have bonded with that condition and the search for "who this is" and

the "reason for being" becomes serious."

"We really do not have to worry so much about how we may be projecting

OUT, just notice that and how we were projected UPON... to eventually

discover that there is no need for those projections to keep sticking

to us."

Wim

(from "Do it the other way around, it works better")

shawn

[shawn (AT) withouraloha (DOT) com]Friday, July 05, 2002 12:09

PMSubject: Re:

Stop PretendingLove this! The "me project". The maypole is down to

one stand. ...a mantra....mystical visions a siddhis occur......there

is this subtle sense of suffering....why? "I" am still here. The "me

project."================================on 7/5/02 6:57 AM, hrtbeat7

at hrtbeat7 wrote:

STOP PRETENDINGBy Catherine Ingram

INNER DIRECTIONS JOURNAL, SPRING 1997One day a six-year-old

friend said to me, "Pretend you are surrounded by a thousand hungry

tigers. What would you do?" I visualized the situation as he had

suggested and, coming up with no viable plan of action, said, "Wow, I

don't know. What would you do?" And he replied, "I'd stop

pretending."In many ways, our usual pretending to be' somebody, to

prove' something, to aggrandize some notion of ourselves is similar

to imagining being surrounded by a thousand hungry tigers. It is a

condition of fright based on an illusion of our own creation. As soon

as we take ourselves to be a separate agent—a somebody—we

are more or less in competition with or tryingto be protected

from—other bodies. With the beliefs in "I,me," and 'mine"

come fear and craving. It's a package deal. Waking up is the refusal

to indulge this nightmare any longer, the simple decision to stop

pretending. Beyond that, nothing further is required. In other words,

you need not add anything. You need only to no longer entertain

thoughts and beliefs that are not true. Then this beauty that you

are, your true nature, shines through effortlessly and brilliantly.A

classic metaphor suggests that we observe clouds covering the view of

the sun. Eventually the clouds pass. The intelligent observer would

not assume that any thing inherent in the passing of the clouds

actually created the sun. There would be recognition that the sun had

merely been temporarily obscured by clouds, but had been there all

along. In this same way, our true nature of clear presence is, at

times, obscured but always shining.Yet, if this is so simple, so

available, so obvious, how have peopleconsistently missed its ongoing

realization? Why have people gone to such lengths ardently practicing

techniques, programs, and religions only to become further entrenched

in ideology and sometimes even fighting wars to defend their

"faith"?The answer lies in the investment in beliefs. I once

interviewed J. Krishnamurti, and as I was about to ask him a question

beginning with the words, "Do you believe...?" he stopped me and said,

"I don't believe in anything." Most people believe their thoughts, and

if they have had a lot of thoughts on a given subject over time, there

is a long-term investment in the belief of those thoughts. The good

news is first, that one need not believe one'sthoughts, and secondly,

that there is no loss whatsoever in abandoning the long-term

investment in what had been believed. On the contrary, without belief

in habitual thought, there is clear seeing and open potentiality.

Beliefs lock us into a set way of perceiving that filters reality

through these beliefs—like a screen—and conditions our

actual experience of life. As one believes, so one experiences. If

one holds a belief that the world is a dangerousplace, one

experiences danger all around. If one believes oneself to have been

damaged in childhood, then one experiences life as a victim and feels

abused at every turn. If one believes that something more is needed

for happiness—more money, more sex, more power, more

notoriety—then that person experiences hunger and a sense of

lack, no matter what divine showers occur.These thoughts and concepts

all cluster around one central belief—the belief in "me." This

is the ridgepole for the entire illusory house of pain. With it comes

an obsession with the related topics of my life, my past, my future,

my likes and dislikes, my opinions, my needs, my feelings, my

worth.With this one central belief comes also an enormous and

miserableworkload—the me project, which requires continual

feeding and entertainment. Because there is an inherent feeling of

separation that comes with the belief in "me," there is also a

perceived need for protection, so there is wariness and suspicion of

possible threats. Its appetite for experience is driven by an

unrelenting sense of discomfort and a desire to be at least

temporarilydistracted from the project. To that end there is abuse of

all kinds of substances, sex, material consumption, and power.After

working many years on the me project, and finding no

lastingsatisfaction in any of its pursuits of "happiness," some

people decide to try a different approach, and they direct the

project in a search for enlightenment. They become spiritual seekers.

But, often it is just the same old me project, only now with a new

spin: "I will become enlightened, and then I will be respected, feel

better about myself, spend time with spiritual people, get out of

this pitiful condition I've been living in, and someday maybe have

lots offollowers, sex, and money, to boot."I know this well from

experience. By the time I was twenty years old, I had realized that

all the worldly promise for happiness paled in time or worse, grew

bitter to the taste. For the next two decades I lived a life of

spiritual pursuit, mostly focusing on Buddhist meditation practice.

But, I did so with the hope of attaining something someday. I wanted

to feel better; to have a sense of belonging, to be visionary and

wise. Yet, as long as this feeling of "I" is around, there is almost

no hope of feeling better. Even when I was getting what I wanted,

there was always the nagging sense that it would soon be

gone.Anything gained in time may also be lost in time.Looking back on

the twists and eddies of this life journey, I see that so much of what

I attempted in my longing for happiness was a way of exhausting all

possibilities that the world offered, including spiritual pursuit.

Neti neti as they say in India. Not this, not that. Many years of

spiritual endeavor eventually ended in disappointment and spiritual

disappointment is a most troubling kindof despair as there is a sense

that there is nowhere else to turn. Of course, this is also a

potential dawn of realization, for when there is nowhere else to

turn, one may be forced to recognize that mysterious essence which

silently permeates one's discontent all along, that supreme peace

which is never shaken or diminished in all those long wanderings in

sorrow or joy.A friend of mine recently remarked (as a play on the

old Janis Joplin song). "Freedom is just another word for nothing

left to choose." If one is fortunate, there comes an eventual giving

up of the me projectaltogether— when you've played out all your

dreams and schemes and found no consolation in any of them, when the

tired stories about "me," or spiritual attainment, or needing to have

some particular life experience have no lure and cannot seduce you

forone moment from your mountain seat of freedom.And there you rest

effortlessly, no longer looking for love but being love, no longer

yearning for vision but continually baptized in a mystical vision of

perfection, no longer trying to live in the present, but knowing that

is it is impossible to live other than in the eternal stream of now,

no longer trying to clear your mind but knowing without doubt that

nothing—no thought, worry,fear, or idea about

yourself—has ever stuck to you or ever could.LoveAlways,b

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somewhere. No path goes nowhere. Paths, places, sights, perceptions,

and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and subside back

into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than

the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of

Awareness. Awareness does not come and go but is always Present. It

is Home. Home is where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart to be the

Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee relishes in the Truth of

Self-Knowledge, spontaneously arising from within into It Self.

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, shawn <shawn@w...> wrote:

 

....watching the "me project." And watching me project......

 

Who is this?

 

 

..... Brothers and Sisters,

Hearts of Faith,

Channels of Grace,

a moment please –

 

we have been checked into these

drab motels for so long

we begin to think of them as

our actual forwarding address.

 

We are driven hither and thither by

a little imaginary machine percolating

under our skin, so that we

never rest.

 

In the fervor of our archaeology,

we hold pieces of broken glass

over our heads and crow about

our treasures.

 

In solitary moods of desperation we always

crave that of which

we have already despaired –

Final Blessing.

 

Believe me now -

the secret of Blessing is that

Blessing is never denied,

nor is It ever final.

 

I have spirit money to burn

in the Ghost Festival, and

The Laws of Heaven

allow no exceptions:

 

luck and misfortune are intertwined,

and although I've played with these

dice my whole life,

they are useless to me now.

 

It is said that someone who

doesn't make flowers makes thorns.

 

"If you're not building rooms where

wisdom can be openly spoken,

you're building a prison."

 

Truly, the slightest breeze can

pull us inside these prison gates,

and even the strongest ox can't

pull us out again.

 

Wherever we walk, the monkey

is surely not far behind.

He even volunteers for jail.

Perhaps this is why the

King of Masks remarked:

 

"The dragon in the shallows

is forever toyed with by shrimp."

 

The world often seems to be a cold place,

but we can bring warmth to it.

What other enjoyment can there

be in life? A drop of Compassion

brings wellsprings of Gratitude.

 

Is there water in this wine, or

wine in this water?

When such questions are asked,

my eyes drift up to the sky.

 

I stare, still somehow disbelieving, at

the charred ruins of my own boat.

How swiftly the fire, once

ignited, showed me that

there is nothing we can own.

 

You ask from whence I come.

I answer "Here".

These ashes are my crib,

and in this mud a kind of

sprout has pushed through into

daylight.

 

Thank you for

Your Water.

 

I stagger, blinded, from

The Tavern of the Drunken Idiots,

my limp more evident now,

but the tricks of the monkey are

wasted on me in my condition.

 

God takes pity on fools such as I.

 

I hold you here where we both

blend with eternity, and

something there makes me

hear the whole world

sigh in relief.

 

I sit astride the toenail of the

Buddha of Infinite Qualities, without

any qualities I can find in myself.

Where She roams, thunder echoes

from Her footsteps, but

I hear only the most imperceptible

glad murmur of reception from the

earth on which She treads.

 

They say that the heart acts as a translator

between mystery and intelligence;

that it has its own dwellers who

do not speak with those who are just

passing through. But I ask:

 

"Who is there on this shining floor

who is not trampled by Her

Dancing Feet?"

 

The Princess arrives on the

Boat of Kindness, and along the banks

there are Lilac Groves whose

fragrance runs riot through the senses.

 

Spring's first Buttercups are enough to

quiet all dispute, just as the Tulips

reveal the meaning of our appearance.

 

Yes, no, maybe so –

in this lovely garden of our souls,

what use are these distinctions?

 

When life is this dear,

can we not feel the One

Who is calling us Home,

even now,

even Now?

 

Don't stop anywhere!

 

Not until we

vanish can we know where

we truly stand.

 

After this death we can

become human at last.

 

I have emptied out my pockets –

there is nothing in them

anymore.

 

If you grab me by the collar,

what you hold is only air.

 

One after another,

each will pass through this

Gate in their time, and these words

like ashes will be scattered along the

avenues of towns long ago abandoned.

 

And please forgive me for this

indulgence here –

my sand has now

poured through.

 

 

 

LoveAlways,

 

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, ErcAshfrd@a... wrote:

>Love it when you speak from the heart place.

 

 

Waves of love wash over my shore, faithfully, obliterating the little

scratched markings in the sand left by beachcombers long gone, the

carved shapes of hearts and words returned once more to pristine

sparkling innocence of primal virgin elements. This vast and timeless

shore!

Laughing and sweeping their arms out across the horizon as if to

encompass this infinite panorama of delight, a couple make their way

along the ebb & flow of tidal waterline, and before them two

children, pails and shovels in hand, race along with breathless

wonder.

The little girl stops momentarily, her eyes widening with the joy of

treasure's discovery, and she reaches down to scoop up a half-buried

seashell. Rinsing it off in the cool waters playing around her

ankles, she beams with happiness to share it with her brother.

"O look!" She offers, "Look at what I've found!"

He peers into the intricate shape, forged in the same ocean that

birthed his ancestors, and with the exquisite regard only children

can summon, pours into that small shell and finds himself drifting

through immense galaxies of starry radiance, and it is a timeless

realm of vast and silent majesty, and he is that in which he floats,

and all swims within him in utter perfection and brilliance, and he

recognizes his own face, the face of the splendor and glory that he

is, that he has always been -- his own form stretched across space,

birthing star clusters and trailing comets through endless paths of

luminescent ecstasy. Worlds within worlds, worlds upon worlds, appear

and disappear in the twinkling of his eye, and all the while a

flaming yearning is met by an open welcoming embrace, as if one huge

spirit heart perpetually forgets and then remembers itself, and only

for the sheer joy of the thrilling re-discovery!

And so he looks up into his sister's expectant eyes, and behind her

the golden sands, and then the hills race up into the bright blue

sky -- the hills ablaze with sunlit vibrant greens and rich deep

earthy browns, and soaring hawks tilt wings upon the air currents,

and wisps of clouds emerge from nowhere and just as soon vanish, and

it is all one piece, they are all one Body, and now his heart is

breaking with unbearable beauty, with overwhelming love for the mere

and sublime presence of every thing, and the no-thing out of which

and back to which it flows, and flows, and flows.

 

And so he smiles at her, and gently hands the small shell back, and

she says, laughing:

 

"What game shall we play today?"

 

 

LoveAlways,

 

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, ErcAshfrd@a... wrote:

>If I had a sister

I would have probably been fighting with her over that shell!

 

 

....Ah, Dear Brother --

not if you looked into those eyes of Hers,

the same ones looking out our window at dawn and writing

about Whale Visions and Tasting God in Water!

 

>Yet, now I am a worthless shell

I can listen to the sea that you speak of.

And know that the ocean is my sister

Yet in truth. Much closer than this.

 

 

....Nearer than a heartbeat!

 

 

 

LoveAlways,

 

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on 7/5/02 9:56 AM, Wim Borsboom at wim (AT) aurasphere (DOT) org wrote:

Hi Shawn, Hi Wim!

> ...watching the "me project." And watching me project...... Who is this? There

> is really no need to question oneself.

I'll be the judge of that :)

"That one's existence was questioned around the moment of birth, does not

have to mean that one has to take that question seriously."

I have never taken my birth seriously......

"You had no trouble with you; someone else may have had..., and maybe often

enough for it to become a condition around you. You then may have bonded

with that condition and the search for "who this is" and the "reason for

being" becomes serious."

I am watching your ideas.....wow pretty cool

"We really do not have to worry so much about how we may be projecting OUT,

you mean speaking....

just notice that and how we were projected UPON...

you mean pro-jectile vomiting?

to eventually discover

that there is no need for those projections to keep sticking to us." gross!

Wim (from "Do it the other way around, it works better")

a book on 69?

It's been....well very nearly real!

Thanks Wim

Shawn m-m-m-m-m-wa

shawn [shawn (AT) withouraloha (DOT) com]

Friday, July 05, 2002 12:09 PM

Re: Stop Pretending

Love this! The "me project". The maypole is down to one stand. ...a

mantra....mystical visions a siddhis occur......there is this subtle sense

of suffering....why? "I" am still here. The "me project."

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on 7/5/02 6:57 AM, hrtbeat7 at hrtbeat7 wrote:

STOP PRETENDING

By Catherine Ingram

INNER DIRECTIONS JOURNAL, SPRING 1997

One day a six-year-old friend said to me, "Pretend you are surrounded by a

thousand hungry tigers. What would you do?" I visualized the situation as he

had suggested and, coming up with no viable plan of action, said, "Wow, I

don't know. What would you do?" And he replied, "I'd stop pretending."

In many ways, our usual pretending to be' somebody, to prove' something, to

aggrandize some notion of ourselves is similar to imagining being surrounded

by a thousand hungry tigers. It is a condition of fright based on an

illusion of our own creation. As soon as we take ourselves to be a separate

agent‹a somebody‹we are more or less in competition with or trying to be

protected from‹other bodies. With the beliefs in "I,me," and 'mine"

come

fear and craving. It's a package deal. Waking up is the refusal to indulge

this nightmare any longer, the simple decision to stop pretending. Beyond

that, nothing further is required. In other words, you need not add

anything. You need only to no longer entertain thoughts and beliefs that are

not true. Then this beauty that you are, your true nature, shines through

effortlessly and brilliantly. A classic metaphor suggests that we observe

clouds covering the view of the sun. Eventually the clouds pass. The

intelligent observer would not assume that any thing inherent in the passing

of the clouds actually created the sun. There would be recognition that the

sun had merely been temporarily obscured by clouds, but had been there all

along. In this same way, our true nature of clear presence is, at times,

obscured but always shining. Yet, if this is so simple, so available, so

obvious, how have people consistently missed its ongoing realization? Why

have people gone to such lengths ardently practicing techniques, programs,

and religions only to become further entrenched in ideology and sometimes

even fighting wars to defend their "faith"? The answer lies in the

investment in beliefs. I once interviewed J. Krishnamurti, and as I was

about to ask him a question beginning with the words, "Do you believe...?"

he stopped me and said, "I don't believe in anything." Most people believe

their thoughts, and if they have had a lot of thoughts on a given subject

over time, there is a long-term investment in the belief of those thoughts.

The good news is first, that one need not believe one's thoughts, and

secondly, that there is no loss whatsoever in abandoning the long-term

investment in what had been believed. On the contrary, without belief in

habitual thought, there is clear seeing and open potentiality. Beliefs lock

us into a set way of perceiving that filters reality through these

beliefs‹like a screen‹and conditions our actual experience of life. As one

believes, so one experiences. If one holds a belief that the world is a

dangerous place, one experiences danger all around. If one believes oneself

to have been damaged in childhood, then one experiences life as a victim and

feels abused at every turn. If one believes that something more is needed

for happiness‹more money, more sex, more power, more notoriety‹then that

person experiences hunger and a sense of lack, no matter what divine showers

occur. These thoughts and concepts all cluster around one central belief‹the

belief in "me." This is the ridgepole for the entire illusory house of pain.

With it comes an obsession with the related topics of my life, my past, my

future, my likes and dislikes, my opinions, my needs, my feelings, my worth.

With this one central belief comes also an enormous and miserable

workload‹the me project, which requires continual feeding and entertainment.

Because there is an inherent feeling of separation that comes with the

belief in "me," there is also a perceived need for protection, so there is

wariness and suspicion of possible threats. Its appetite for experience is

driven by an unrelenting sense of discomfort and a desire to be at least

temporarily distracted from the project. To that end there is abuse of all

kinds of substances, sex, material consumption, and power. After working

many years on the me project, and finding no lasting satisfaction in any of

its pursuits of "happiness," some people decide to try a different approach,

and they direct the project in a search for enlightenment. They become

spiritual seekers. But, often it is just the same old me project, only now

with a new spin: "I will become enlightened, and then I will be respected,

feel better about myself, spend time with spiritual people, get out of this

pitiful condition I've been living in, and someday maybe have lots of

followers, sex, and money, to boot." I know this well from experience. By

the time I was twenty years old, I had realized that all the worldly promise

for happiness paled in time or worse, grew bitter to the taste. For the next

two decades I lived a life of spiritual pursuit, mostly focusing on Buddhist

meditation practice. But, I did so with the hope of attaining something

someday. I wanted to feel better; to have a sense of belonging, to be

visionary and wise. Yet, as long as this feeling of "I" is around, there is

almost no hope of feeling better. Even when I was getting what I wanted,

there was always the nagging sense that it would soon be gone. Anything

gained in time may also be lost in time. Looking back on the twists and

eddies of this life journey, I see that so much of what I attempted in my

longing for happiness was a way of exhausting all possibilities that the

world offered, including spiritual pursuit. Neti neti as they say in India.

Not this, not that. Many years of spiritual endeavor eventually ended in

disappointment and spiritual disappointment is a most troubling kind of

despair as there is a sense that there is nowhere else to turn. Of course,

this is also a potential dawn of realization, for when there is nowhere else

to turn, one may be forced to recognize that mysterious essence which

silently permeates one's discontent all along, that supreme peace which is

never shaken or diminished in all those long wanderings in sorrow or joy. A

friend of mine recently remarked (as a play on the old Janis Joplin song).

"Freedom is just another word for nothing left to choose." If one is

fortunate, there comes an eventual giving up of the me project altogether‹

when you've played out all your dreams and schemes and found no consolation

in any of them, when the tired stories about "me," or spiritual attainment,

or needing to have some particular life experience have no lure and cannot

seduce you for one moment from your mountain seat of freedom. And there you

rest effortlessly, no longer looking for love but being love, no longer

yearning for vision but continually baptized in a mystical vision of

perfection, no longer trying to live in the present, but knowing that is it

is impossible to live other than in the eternal stream of now, no longer

trying to clear your mind but knowing without doubt that nothing‹no thought,

worry, fear, or idea about yourself‹has ever stuck to you or ever could.

LoveAlways,

b

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back into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than

the ocean, all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of Awareness.

Awareness does not come and go but is always Present. It is Home. Home is

where the Heart Is. Jnanis know the Heart to be the Finality of Eternal

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Hi Shawn,

 

:-)))

 

m-m-m-m-m-wa

 

Wim:

"That one's existence was questioned around the moment of birth, does

not have to mean that one has to take that question seriously."Shawn:

 

"I have never taken my birth seriously...... "

 

I understand, but that was not what I was saying, I was saying "That

one's existence was questioned...."

 

Shawn: "you mean pro-jectile vomiting? "

I actually almost used the word projectile, but not with the vomiting

connotation :-)

Shawn:

"gross! "

 

It would have been...

Wim:

(from "Do it the other way around, it works better")

Shawn:

"a book on 69? "

Sortof, you know that together those numbers make the yin yang symbol.Shawn:

"m-m-m-m-m-wa " Thanks Shawn, Wim

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And please forgive me for this

indulgence here –

my sand has now poured through.

Well, at least now someone can make sandpaper with it, now that it is

all poured out. With the sandpaper we can smooth out those rough

beams of our mental constructions, and then erect a new town to

replace all those abandoned and ruined ones.

Love,

Zenbob

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