Rajapalayam Ramani Ammal - Part I

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Rajapalayam Ramani Ammal - Part I

Drawn to the Feet of RamanaMy chosen deity in childhood was Lord

Krishna. From my youth I had very pleasant dreams and would sometimes

see Lord Krishna or other familiar deities in these dreams. But at the

age of sixteen or seventeen I once saw a strange sage-like person

coming down a hill and was captivated by his grandeur. I later came

to realize that this sage was Sri Bhagavan. After having that vision

of Bhagavan in my dream, a certain fear that had gripped me for some

time all of a sudden disappeared. My relatives and others noticed

this and commented how I was now moving about freely. This was

Bhagavan's first influence on me.Also, at the age of sixteen I was

reading the Jnana Vasishta. While reading it I experienced that I was

enveloped in jyoti, a bright white light. I thought that if this is

what happens just by reading it, how much more wonderful would it be

if we practiced dhyana and the other spiritual injunctions taught in

the book. I used to be thrilled simply by reading those ancient Tamil

scriptures. But it wasn't until I was twenty before I got hold of a

book on Bhagavan.Kumaraswami Raja, the Chief Minister of Madras, who

was a cousin of mine, brought me Bharati's biography of Bhagavan,

Ramana Vijayam, in 1946. Mrs. Kumaraswami Raja was very fond of me,

and though other relatives prohibited me from reading spiritual

books, she used to stealthily supply me with them. The day she sent

this book over with a boy, I was sitting in the house with a friend,

a headmistress, who though Christian, was sincerely interested in our

religion. The boy who brought the book said, "Mami said to hand this

book to you." I got up and went up to the gate to receive it. The

moment I touched the book I lost body consciousness. My whole body

became stiff.I somehow managed to return and sit next to my friend.

Noticing my plight, she commented that I shouldn't read such books

that make me forget myself. Everyone was complaining about this same

thing, for in those days most of the time I would be sitting quietly,

alert to my spiritual aspirations. All thought that I was simply idle

with no work to do.With difficulty I opened Ramana Vijayam to the

first page and was met by the photo of the young Ramana. I became

speechless. My friend, who was somewhat alarmed at my condition, had

to leave and I somehow saw her off. With great reverence I took the

book and started reading it. As I read, my eyes kept closing

involuntarily, and I was drawn within, which I later came to know was

meditation. Bhagavan taught me meditation in this way.After reading

this book, I felt I should leave home and go meet Ramana Maharshi. It

is my family custom that women never even leave the house, not to

mention leaving the town. That vairagya, or desperate determination

to leave my house for spiritual fulfillment, was implanted in me by

this book; and I am sure it was by the direct influence of Sri

Bhagavan himself. Because of my intense desire to go and see

Bhagavan, my younger brother was moved to help me. He is a very pious

person, with a soft nature. With his help I secretly left home and

reached Tiruvannamalai and the holy feet of Sri Bhagavan. But after

reaching there, I was overcome with a sense of guilt for running away

from home. This feeling of guilt, and a sense of bringing ill fame to

the respected Rajagopalan family, was uppermost in my mind when I

first came into Bhagavan's presence. I felt depressed because of

this.When I arrived I went to the office to inquire where Bhagavan

was. I was told that Bhagavan was near the well. When I came near the

well, I saw a thatched shed next to it and all I could see in it was a

flaming fire. I thought to myself, "I asked for directions to go to

Bhagavan and they have sent me to a sacrificial place where there is

a fire." It was only after a few minutes that I saw Bhagavan's comely

form emerge from those flames. Even when I had the Jyoti Darshana I

was blaming myself, thinking that I had this delusion of seeing a

fire instead of Bhagavan because I was foolish enough to come out

into the hot sun. It was only afterwards I realized Bhagavan had

bestowed upon me this great boon of Jyoti Darshana.Next I heard

Bhagavan saying to me, "You have now come home. Why don't you sit

down?" Coming from a family where women never go out, and having

never gone out myself, I did not know how to behave in company. When

Bhagavan said "You have now come home. You can sit down," I sat down

right in front of him and not in the place reserved for women. For

three days I kept sitting in front of him and all the while the

feeling of guilt for running away from home was haunting me. I kept

sitting in front of Bhagavan, not knowing how to act or ask

questions, or anything else.On the third day I heard Bhagavan telling

someone: "I also ran away from my home, and at the railroad station I

was so frightened that anyone could have identified me as a runaway,

caught hold of me and sent me home. I ran away like a thief." When

Bhagavan narrated this, it completely wiped out all my guilt feelings

from that moment onwards. This was an act of pure grace directed

towards me. It is very strange that by those few words Bhagavan

entirely removed any residual fear in me. Bhagavan later said that

sometimes you have to do a wrong thing to achieve the ultimate right

thing. He even commented that there is nothing wrong in a woman

running away at the tender age of twenty to come here.