Anything wrong if i worship my wife as Goddess and do sadana?

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[NOTE: Kochu, thanks for this response. Nora and I decided to remove the

original posting after some discussion, as it seemed, in much of its tone and

content, inappropriate to the forum. If you feel differently, please let me

know. Perhaps an edited version would be useful for discussion purposes? I don't

want this forum to be abused, but if a post contains legitimate points of

discussion, I suppose we should let it go through. Any comments or advice in

this regard (other members who read the post before deletion are welcome to

comment as well)? Thanks in advance. For now, here's your response:]

 

An interesting letter. I will revert at length later.

But for now I would like to stress that the great ones

in the past always have said "Athi Sarwathra

Varjjayeth" - Excess in anything has to be avoided

zelously.

 

Human mind is a very dangerous thing. Just remember

that.

 

There is problem in worshipping your wife; though in

Tantra sadhana allows it under certain aspects,

usually the suvasini whose puja you do will invariably

different from your wife.

 

Regards

 

Kochu

[Guest guest]

Its OK. I do not think the message is apropriate to

the forum. I think it is something called BDSM or

something in the west. I think the couple should

consult a psychologist FAST. I wanted to reply in

detail, but decided against it.

As a sadhaka I would like to say that what is being

done has nothing to do with sadhana and they have to

see an apropriate person fast.

 

Kochu

--- sankara menon <kochu1tz wrote:

> [NOTE: Kochu, thanks for this response. Nora and I

> decided to remove the original posting after some

> discussion, as it seemed, in much of its tone and

> content, inappropriate to the forum. If you feel

> differently, please let me know. Perhaps an edited

> version would be useful for discussion purposes? I

> don't want this forum to be abused, but if a post

> contains legitimate points of discussion, I suppose

> we should let it go through. Any comments or advice

> in this regard (other members who read the post

> before deletion are welcome to comment as well)?

> Thanks in advance. For now, here's your response:]

>

> An interesting letter. I will revert at length

> later.

> But for now I would like to stress that the great

> ones

> in the past always have said "Athi Sarwathra

> Varjjayeth" - Excess in anything has to be avoided

> zelously.

>

> Human mind is a very dangerous thing. Just remember

> that.

>

> There is problem in worshipping your wife; though in

> Tantra sadhana allows it under certain aspects,

> usually the suvasini whose puja you do will

> invariably

> different from your wife.

>

> Regards

>

> Kochu

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

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Sudhir couple

 

What you have just described, have to admit is not devi worship but

sadomaschochistic behaviour, otherwise called bondage etc etc.

 

Please do not mistake your obsessive love for your wife as devotion

for Maa, the two are separate. The pattern and yearning you seem to

express is not uncommon where executives, managers, policeman who are

used to spending their working life delegating work, bossing people

and taking responsibilities, seek to relieve their stress by wanting

to be subservient.

 

It is just a reaction of the human brain and seems to have surfaced

after all these years of working as an executive. So whilst you could

practice slavery etc as a release of your work stresses, do

compartmentalise it from Goddess worship, THEY ARE TWO DIFFERENT

ENTITIES.

 

As for Mrs Sudhir whilst its valid for you to participate in your

husband's fantasies do seek some counselling to deal with this or

else after a few years it will affect your psyche and you will feel

abused in this relationship.

 

This is both a clinical and psychological assessment of the

situational picture posed by you both.

 

Hope you find the ability to comprehend calmly and take steps.

 

Kallikaputri

[Guest guest]

Thank you Kochu-ji and Kalikaputri.

 

I wonder is it okay for you to elaborate more on this matter.

 

You said : "There is problem in worshipping your wife; though in

Tantra sadhana allows it under certain aspects, usually the suvasini

whose puja you do will invariably different from your wife"

 

Is this as what you are referring to the same as Shodasi Pooja. We

have a brief discussion earlier on with regards to this [ see post

297, 300 and 302 ]

 

You mention problem in worshipping your wife, can you elaborate more

on this. What kind of problems ? etc

 

And under what aspectations is this puja being carried out?

 

Om ParaShaktiye Namaha

[Guest guest]

Namaste Mr Sudhir.

 

The way I see it is that you and your wife have every right to practise

what both of you are happy with. I hope it will help you become more aware

of the presence of the Goddess in all women, and indeed in all beings.

 

You have asked for advice. My only suggestion would be that you don't keep

asking her to do things to you that she doesn't wish to do. If you are

serious about being her worshipper, shouldn't you respect her wishes?

 

Now I have one request for you. You mentioned the group "Divinely

Female". Could you send me their email address or website address? I have

heard of them before and would like to get in touch with them.

 

Om Shantih,

Colin.