SEX HAS FOUR STAGES / THE THIRD is heterosexual.

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AND THE THIRD phase is heterosexual.

When a man is really out of autosex, homosex, then he is capable and mature to

fall in love with a woman -- which is a totally different world, a different

chemistry, a different psychology, a different spirituality. Then he is able to

play with this different world, this different organism. They are poles apart,

but when they come close -- and there are moments when they are really close and

overlapping -- first glimpses, lightning glimpses of samadhi are attained.

 

Because it does not happen, many people think that I am just talking something

like poetry. It is not poetry! I am not talking fiction, I am talking reality.

What I am saying is an existential phenomenon, but the need is that the man and

the woman must be mature. They must have gone beyond the first two stages; only

then can this happen. And very rarely, very rarely, are there people who are

mature men and mature women. So nothing happens; they make love, but that love

is only superficial. Deep down they are autosexual, or, at the most, homosexual.

 

To love a woman or to love a man, a new kind of being is needed which can accept

the polar opposite. And only with the polar opposite -- just as with negative

and positive electricity meeting, electricity is born, just like that -- when

life electricities meet, man and woman, yin and yang, Shiva and Shakti, when

that meeting happens, that merger, that oblivion, that drunkenness, they have

disappeared as separate entities, separate egos. They are no longer separately

there, therefore they are throbbing as one, two bodies in one soul. That is the

first experience of no-mind, no-ego, no-time, and that is the first experience

of samadhi.

 

Once this has been experienced, then a desire arises: how to attain this samadhi

so that it can become a natural state of affairs and you need not depend on a

woman, you need not depend on a man? -- because dependence brings slavery. Only

out of the experience of heterosexual orgasm does a person start searching for

ways, means, and methods -- Yoga, Tantra, Tao -- so that he can attain the same

state on his own or on her own.

 

And yes, it can be attained, because deep inside each man is a man and a woman

-- half comes from his father, half comes from his mother -- and each woman is

half woman, half man. So once you have known it happening through the outside

woman, you will have the first glimpse that it can happen within too. The outer

woman simply triggered it, the outer man simply acted as a catalytic agent; now

you start meditating.

 

 

 

 

 

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