Question from Member : Wife as Devi [ A conversation ]

[Guest guest]

, "sashank_hindu"

<sashank_hindu> wrote:

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> yep noraji ,

>

>

> devi herself is not good or bad thast what i was saying.but for

> someone who sees a devi in wife and obeys her.... that is a

method

> to fall down in life.wife is a devi with a L THAT IS DEVI + L =

> DEVIL. some wives only have one part of devi that is

destruction

> only.

>

> no preserving....and dont even start about protecting.

 

 

 

 

[ MEMBER ] If she is DEVI she will alway win. I am just worried

about abuse. Sometimes we need to stand my ground.

 

[ME ] We are all gross human being. She shout at you, and you shout

at her right. But you see DEVI in everything around you, even in

your husband and your wife. You see, sometimes you must use logic. I

also argue with my husband too but its how you go about getting

youre ways. Must it always ends with shouting? Many a times I use

humour to get my message around by teasing? Like Shiva Shakti. What

do they normally does teasing right?

 

[ MEMBER ] My wife alway shout, I also shout , angry

 

[ ME ] If you want to create a change, you must first change. I am

like that too but I have learnt that it leads to nothing. What I do,

I tone down . Whenever he raise his voice or shout, I just look at

him and goes into silence . I talk in voice lower than him, that

eventually got the message across . You must create the change only

then change will comes. When you see her as DEVI, you will be more

forgiving. You see her mistakes

and you forgive her . Its easier to forgive a stranger but not a

memebr of ure family right?

Why look at stranger, when the real DEVI is right before you. From

my own personal experience with my Guru, he is more interested to

hear about my family then about spiritual matters. You're

relationship in your family will tell about you're mental state of

mind as long as there is no happiness in the family, spiritual

matter will be staggering too.

Everything begins in the family, because DEVI herself is a family.

To her, her family will always comes first

[Guest guest]

I wonder if this might be irrelevant to the thread..well..sometime back

i was dumb and definitely daring enough to go and aska great shakta

guru if i can visualize ma wife/partner as Devi when doing any sort of

rituals ratherthan sticking to the dhyanashloka or anything of Her. His

answer was simple.. "Devi doesnt change into your wife, but your wife

changes into Devi". Imagine Devi as in your wife and not the other way

around!!

> , "sashank_hindu"

> <sashank_hindu> wrote:

> >

> > yep noraji ,

> >

> >

> > devi herself is not good or bad thast what i was saying.but for

> > someone who sees a devi in wife and obeys her.... that is a

> method

> > to fall down in life.wife is a devi with a L THAT IS DEVI + L =

> > DEVIL. some wives only have one part of devi that is

> destruction

> > only.

> >

> > no preserving....and dont even start about protecting.

[Guest guest]

....But She HAD "changed into" Ur wife, nah? Ur wife is already an AkAra of

Bhagavati

 

, "Adwaith Menon" <menonar> wrote:

>

> I wonder if this might be irrelevant to the thread..well..sometime back

> i was dumb and definitely daring enough to go and aska great shakta

> guru if i can visualize ma wife/partner as Devi when doing any sort of

> rituals ratherthan sticking to the dhyanashloka or anything of Her. His

> answer was simple.. "Devi doesnt change into your wife, but your wife

> changes into Devi". Imagine Devi as in your wife and not the other way

> around!!

[Guest guest]

i believe that Devi is present in all women

 

KD

 

, "Arjuna Taranandanatha"

<bhagatirtha@m...> wrote:

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> ...But She HAD "changed into" Ur wife, nah? Ur wife is already an

AkAra of Bhagavati

>

> , "Adwaith Menon"

<menonar> wrote:

> >

> > I wonder if this might be irrelevant to the

thread..well..sometime back

> > i was dumb and definitely daring enough to go and aska great

shakta

> > guru if i can visualize ma wife/partner as Devi when doing any

sort of

> > rituals ratherthan sticking to the dhyanashloka or anything of

Her. His

> > answer was simple.. "Devi doesnt change into your wife, but your

wife

> > changes into Devi". Imagine Devi as in your wife and not the

other way

> > around!!

>