Guest guest Posted December 3, 2005 Report Share Posted December 3, 2005 hello everybody I am Archana from mumbai ( India ). I am recently pregant but the problem is that in past due to certain reason there was miscarriage. Now I am in trouble please help me so that I will deliver a healthy baby. I am marathi and my kulswamini is santadurga. I strongly belived in Ganpathi, Saibaba and Santadurga. Kindly help me to solve my problem and come out of this situation. jai mata ki Archana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 4, 2005 Report Share Posted December 4, 2005 My heart goes out to you and I hold your hand ! archana_ap1996 <archana_ap1996 wrote: hello everybody I am Archana from mumbai ( India ). I am recently pregant but the problem is that in past due to certain reason there was miscarriage. Now I am in trouble please help me so that I will deliver a healthy baby. I am marathi and my kulswamini is santadurga. I strongly belived in Ganpathi, Saibaba and Santadurga. Kindly help me to solve my problem and come out of this situation. jai mata ki Archana International aid Devi Traditions Divine Visit your group "" on the web. Personals Skip the bars and set-ups and start using Personals for free Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 4, 2005 Report Share Posted December 4, 2005 Well for us here in Singapore/Malaysia where majority is from the South India, the main deity that we always go to is Periachi Amman. We go to her when we want a child, when we are pregnant and to seek her for safe delivery. Even after the birth, during the 30day ceremony, we offer the child at her feet first before others. But most of all, you must take care of yourself. If you have history of miscarriage, then you should not do any heavy housework. Take good food and enough rest, and visit your doctor regularly. Once a while spend sometime under the Sun, especially the morning sun. The sun rays will do good not only to pregnant ladies but for all, helps to boost the body immunity. Another I personally feel, you can try to communicate with your child. Talk to your child. You won't be surprise that your child listens to your voice [the sound that is], your heart beat and everything about you, the child [though] able to register all these. This is what they call bonding. It starts from the womb. If you are upset or depress, your child can feel all these emotions. During my pregnancy, when I felt stress or unable to sleep because of the discomfort, I will sit down quietly and listen to the CD, my favorite of which is Bhavanyastakam [a prayer to Mother Divine]. SHE is the Mother, The child, The Daughter, The Sister, The Aunty and many others. So SHE knows your fears and your troubles. You always go back to The Mother and seek her comfort and guidance, and you will be protected. To me, pregnancy is one of the most wonderful experience a woman can ever have. To have a life growing within you and to be able to feel that life, you can never describe the joy. Im being told once, only when you have undergone that experience, you will understanding the true emotions of a mother. Why mothers behave as they are towards their child. My apology, this is not meant to hurt the feelings of others, but this is how I feel. I understand the pressure some married ladies undergo when they couldnt get pregnant especially from the family & relations. Ive been there. How often Ive been asked : how come you are still not pregnant. Why are you waiting for etc... Some of the questions these insensitive people asked can be very personal. My only response to them is : if im not meant to have, its my karma, I will accept whatever that is given to me. yeah! its easier said then done, but one shouldnt allow oneself to be held hostage by other peoples insecurity. - In , Redder Red <redderred> wrote: > > My heart goes out to you and I hold your hand ! > > > archana_ap1996 <archana_ap1996> wrote: hello everybody > > I am Archana from mumbai ( India ). I am recently pregant but the > problem is that in past due to certain reason there was miscarriage. > Now I am in trouble please help me so that I will deliver a healthy > baby. > > I am marathi and my kulswamini is santadurga. I strongly belived in > Ganpathi, Saibaba and Santadurga. > > Kindly help me to solve my problem and come out of this situation. > > jai mata ki > > Archana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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