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OK, let me explain. When I said that I enjoy

"skull-bashing", that was intended as SELF-deprecating humor, not

as another dig at you. In other words, "even though

I am such an insecure jerk that I, too, get off on

seeing people put down some guy in Germany who they

don't even know", I felt moved to offer the rest of the

comment. Similarly, my observation that my joke was "at

[your] expense" was intended to point out the more or

less ignoble depths to which I constantly find myself

sinking, not to reflect adversely on you. Maybe this gets

lost in the translation, or maybe I am just too

obscure in the way I write.<br><br>Also, I reread this

series of posts and and concluded that perhaps I have

been a bit condescending, which I also didn't mean to

do. Sorry. Please go back to my "few words of

encouragement" and accept them in the spirit in which they were

offered. That is all.

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It's curious, isn't? People keep posting

seemingly offensive messages, then they say: it wasn't

meant to be serious, it was JOKE!<br><br>Anyway, since

I know perfectly well that I'm not a saint myself,

I'll try not to be too condescending and accept your

explanations. In a (hopefully) better spirit.

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i have been thinking about the situation. It is

possible that people get a feel from your posts they can

banter with you - but it consistently does not go over

well. (Banter does not mean you have to lie down and

take it - come-backs are in order.) <br>Interesting to

see what happens to others here - does the same thing

happen to them? If yes - how do they respond? If no-

what would you say why not. (trying to get a eagle's

eyeview /wider perpective on it to understand

it).<br><br>Some people insult me - it is crushing but it is a

message that has equal weight to the message that you're

going to RESPOND with (or not). They did not WIN. So to

speak. (Sometimes they're just plain wrong). The person

could be an entire idiot - they're just hiding all the

telltales by appearing anonymously on a screen. They

probably couldn't engage you in a conversation in real

life if their life depended on it. Just nip what they

say in the bud if you disagree. It could be with a

joke.<br><br>Ce la vie.<br>(this may feel like criticism, but it

actually is support to take the crap a little more

lightly)<br><br>Repeat this affirmation: I am loved.

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