Thirumalamba

[Guest guest]

In the light of the recent discussions we had about Sita, State of women,

dowry, social reforms and our acharyas, SVTK-roles, etc. I thought I will

post this clipping from the

January issue of Hinduism Today.

Now start the portion from Jan96/ HT

Thirumalamba, A Literary Legacy Lives On .

This is the story of the extraordinary soul, Thirumalamba, the woman who

inspired Dr. Mangala to found Shashwati. Born in 1887 to orthodox Iyengar

parents, Thirumalamba lost her mother when she was barely five years old. Her

father was a lawyer and wished his daughter to be educated too. But educating

girls, though legal, was considered sinful by most people. Ignoring public

condemnation, he nevertheless enrolled Thirmalamba in school. Eventually the

villagers so harangued him, he removed her from school and married her off at

age 10. Four years later, her husband caught the plague, and villagers

banished him, fearing they would contract the disease. Alone, untended and

sickly, he soon died. The only time Thirumalamba ever saw him was at their

wedding.

 

Widowed at age 14, the crushing restrictions of widowhood clutched the little

girl. She was forbidden to step beyond the threshold of her house. If she

did, she and her father would be ostracized by the community. Crestfallen at

her fate, her father resolved to bring at least a little joy back into her

life by educating her himself. Every night, by the dim light of an oil lamp,

he read her the Ramayana, Mahabharata and other classics. Soon she was

reading on her own. Little did he know he was nurturing Karnataka's first and

foremost woman writer of the modern period.

 

Arising daily pre-dawn, the young girl took her bath, performed puja, japa,

meditation and did Surya namaskar facing the eastern horizon. Afterward, she

dove into the enchanting world of words. By age 21, she was writing dramas,

novels and traditional wedding songs. She bought a little printing press and

set it up inside her house. With the eager help of cousins, she printed cards

and labels. She struggled to get someone to publish her writings, but every

publisher rejected her. Women cannot be writers, they scoffed! So she started

her own publishing house, Sati Hitaishini. Over the years, it published 40 of

her books and two magazines, Karnataka Nandini and Sanmargadarshini. In

these, she exposed in grim detail the dead-while-living agonies that widows

must endure. She argued for saner, kinder attitudes that help rather than

punish and imprison widows. She opposed child marriage and railed against the

infatuation with English and its Anglicizing undertow. She urged a

renaissance of Kannada and other Indian languages.

 

Finally, a little recognition flowed her way and the Madras and Mysore

governments honored several of her books with awards. A few were even used as

school texts. With her last novel, Manimala, published in 1939, Thirumalamba

suddenly faded out of sight. No one knew why until 25 years later.

 

In the 1960s educationist Smt. C.N. Mangala was writing an article about

women writers of Karnataka and included a section on Thirumalamba, referring

to her in the past tense, i.e., dead. Someone informed Dr. Mangala that the

aged writer was alive, living reclusively in Madras. Dr. Mangala rushed to

Madras and prostrated before the 80-year-old figure and apologized profusely

for the error. "No need to apologize," Thirumalamba said. "What you said was

correct--that Thirumalamba does not exist any longer. Today's people don't

like what we write. So life for me now is my home, my pujas and my japa." Dr.

Mangala told her that her writings were of immeasurable inspiration for

others, including herself. "I told her that her works had eternal value" and

honored her by putting a shawl over her shoulders, offering a plate of full

of fruits--and then by founding Shashwati, an inspirational tribute to an

unbreakable literary spirit.

 

(contributed by: Choodie Shivaram is a free-lance journalist and holds a

degree in law and English)

 

-Sincerely,

K.Sreekrishna (tatachar)

PS: I think many Banglorean members may recognize Smt. C.N. Mangala.