Progress Indicators for Prapannas

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Dear Bhagavatas,

There has been a discussion on whether there are any progress indicators for

a Prapanna after doing Prapatti. Swami Desika has given in Adhikara 14

Svanishta Abhignana Adhikara of his Rahasya Traya Sara, clear guidelines to

determine whether a Prapanna has developed the proper state of mind.

Reproduced below is the write up on this Adhikara in Chapter 18 "Prapatti"

from my book "Hinduism Rediscovered"

 

Apart from the external signs and personal habits detailed by other

contributors, what Swami Desika emphasizes is the development of attitudes. A

constant self- examination and evaluation of one’s attitude from time to time

will reveal whether and if so, how far a Prapanna has progressed in his/ her

own spiritual evolution.

 

Dasoham

Anbil Ramaswamy

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ADHIKARA 14 : SVANISHTA ABHIGNANA ADHIKARA

(Characteristics of behavior of a Prapanna which show that he has

developed the proper state of mind required of a Prapanna)

The following traits of behavior would reveal that a Prapanna has attained

proper stage of evolution of mind and the following Nishtas (Codes of conduct)

would serve as a barometer to measure the stage of such evolutionViz.,

(i) Svarupa Nishta ( self surrender),

(ii) Upaya Nishta ( surrendering the means ) and

(iii) Purusharta Nishta ( surrendering the fruits of surrender)

 

(1 ) Svarupa Nishta:

(a) He will not feel hurt when others hurl insults on him, being aware that

the soul can never be insulted.

(b) He will feel compassionate towards those insulting him for only they

would incur sin by insulting a Prapanna.

© He will feel thankful towards those accusing him because they make him

aware of a possible defect in him for rectifying which they had given him an

opportunity.

(d) He will not harbor any ill will against those insulting him being

convinced that it is divine will that is instrumental for such accusations in

a process of testing his courage to face insults with equanimity.

(e) He will feel happy that his sins get removed by being exposed to insults

(merited or otherwise) and by exposure of his defects.

 

In practical terms-

If someone insults, you say "I think you are perhaps correct"

If someone calls you a fool, you say "I have that doubt myself"

If someone besmears you, you think you have gained an experience

If you think nothing is in your hands, you will have no grief or misery

 

SRI ANDAL has provided in her TIRUPPAVAI an excellent example of this

attitude. When her mates accused her , she answered "Maybe, I am at fault"-

"Nanethaan Aayiduga" This is considered to be the essential index of a true

Vaishnava -

(Vaishnava lakshanam)

 

NARSI MEHTA, a Gujarati poet composed a poem to answer the question "Who is a

Vaishnava?" (devotee of Vishnu) and this poem is said to have influenced

Mahatma Gandhi in adopting his famous creed of Ahimsa. He enlists the

following as the traits of a Vaishnava. These can be taken as indices for a

Prapanna.

 

(i) One who feels sympathetic on seeing the sufferings of others and rushes

to alleviate their sufferings and does not feel proud for doing this.

 

(ii) One who respects all living beings alike, and does not engage himself in

slandering through mind, word or deed.

 

(iii) One who has no illwill towards others and regards all womenfolk (other

than his wife) as Mother (i.e) without lust, one who does not indulge in

falsehood, one who does not covet others' belongings.

 

(iv) One who has banished with a determination Kaama and Krodha (desire and

anger) from his mind.

 

(v) One who has totally dedicated himself to the service of the Lord and

humanity- because such service is the true hallmark of a Vaishnava.

 

(2) Upaya Nishta

(a) He is convinced that he is not subservient to any one other than Sri

Narayana.

 

(b) He is prepared to welcome death as and when it comes-as an honored guest,

knowing full well that on his death, he would reach up to the kingdom of God.

 

© He does not take recourse to any other means to achieve his goal in the

firm faith that Lord Sri Narayana has already assured to respond to his

prayers and will protect him under all circumstances.

 

(d) He is free from all worries knowing that Lord Sri Narayana would destroy

all that is harmful and grant all that is beneficial to his spiritual

upliftment (not necessarily what he desires, which might turn out to be

harmful ultimately)

 

(3) Purushartha Nishta

(a) Being immersed in his dedication to the Lord, he no more seeks physical

or material comforts or nourishment, in the conviction that everything happens

as per the will of God.

 

(b) If any physical or material comforts come his way (through Dharmic ways,

of course) he does not shun them, knowing that it is one of the ways to get

rid of his Punya karmas because they also constitute impediments on his path

to Moksha.

 

© He views both joy and sorrow alike submitting himself to both with

equanimity, knowing that both pleasure and pain visit him as ordained by the

Lord.

 

(d) He feels intensity of devotion like that of 'Parama Bhakti" when he

cannot brook any further delay in achieving communion with the Lord.

 

When one acquires the mental caliber as aforesaid, there can be no fear other

than Bhagavata Apachara and Acharya Apachara (disrespect to devotees and

preceptor) which in any case, he would not indulge in.

 

In short, a true Prapanna is a true gentleman and answers to the description

of a

'TRUE GENTLEMAN' given by CARDINAL NEWMAN in these words:

"The true gentleman carefully avoids whatever may cause a jar or a jolt in the

minds of those with whom he is cast; all clashing of opinion , or collision of

feeling, all restraint or suspicion; or gloom or resentment.

- His great concern being to make everyone at their ease and at home.

- He has his eyes on all his company.

- He is tender towards the bashful, gentle towards the distant, and merciful

towards the absurd.

- He can recollect to whom he is speaking.

- He guards against unseasonable allusions, or topics which may irritate.

- He is seldom prominent in conversation and never wearisome.

- He makes light of favors and seems to be RECEIVING when he is CONFERRING.

- He never speaks of himself except when compelled, never defends himself by a

mere retort.

- He has no ears for slander or gossip, is scrupulous in imputing motives to

those who interfere with him.

- He is never mean or little in his disputes, never takes unfair advantage,

never mistakes personalities or sharp sayings for arguments or insinuates evil

which he dare not say out.

- From a long sighted prudence, he observes the maxim of the ancient sage that

we should *ever conduct ourselves towards our enemy as if he were one day to

be our friend*.

- He has too much good sense to be affronted at insults;

- He is too well employed to remember injuries and too indolent to bear

malice.

- He is patient, forbearing and resigned on philosophical principles

- He submits to pain because it is inevitable, to bereavement because it is

irreparable and to death because it is his destiny.

- If he engages in controversy of any kind, his disciplined intellect

preserves him from the blundering discourtesy to better though less educated

minds.

- He may be right or wrong in his opinions but he is too clear headed to be

unjust, he is as simple as he is forcible and as brief as he is decisive"

 

Dasoham

Anbil Ramaswamy

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