fault in avatarams ?

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namaskarams to all,

in first mail in the KURAI ONDRUM ILLAI series the author said the

following lines :

" Every avataram has some fault, and this is the fault in

KrisnAvataram, where He did not save her immediately. But Draupadi

was saved, she received the protection she needed. How is this

possible, if Krishna did not save her? He says that He didn't save

her, but His NAmam did. "

but i believe Sriman Narayana came into this world in different

avataras not only to restore peace and prosperity but also to set an

example of how divine and pure every person's life should be.

i have 2 questions in this regard. will anyone help me to clear my

doubts.

1.im not able to accept the fact that Krishna did not save his true

bhaktai draupadi or that he did not save her immediately.

why god did not want to save her and why did he keep silent when she

was being dishonoured in front of all .

2. also i cannot digest the fact that Rama, the egapatni

viradhan,one who loved his wife immensely sends her off to the forest

WHILE SHE IS PREGNANT even without letting her know that she will be

away from him for the rest of her life( this is story that i've

heard - so kindly forgive me if iam wrong).

being a woman myself, i cannot digest the fact of a woman being

marooned by her soul mate when she is pregnant( the time when a woman

needs emotional and physical support) whatever the reasons may be.

when i asked this question about Rama to several people most of them

say that Rama came into this world as a human and he had to suffer

just like any human. well if so, why should he set a bad example to

his bhaktas ? just because a washerman spoke ill of his Sita, Rama

cannot send her away . didnt he promise in front of Agni devata that

he will ever protect her and never leave her alone under any

circumstance( isnt that the true meaning of marriage ?).

can Lord himself fail from his promise ?

these questions have been troubling me for a long time . can anyone

please clear them for me and help me restore my faith in all acts of

god ?

 

regards,

Mythreyi Srivaths