Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Dear Sri Pradeep, You wrote: It is my opinion that "Guru" : 1) is NOT a Profession -> like I was a lawyer/doctor/engineer and now I am a guru from tomorrow and get paid for my services / discourses/ consultation 2) is NOT a Post -> like I was a vice-chancellor and now I became a Chancellor by some process say experience or recommendation, seniority whatever. To me it seems logical that "Guru" is a state that someone attains to by the grace of god and is sent by God and is God himself in a human form. Please correct my views if I am wrong. But when such glory is to be attributed to a Guru...how does one distinguish the true one from the rest. Its a thought that I have been having and request opinions & feedback from the other Bhagavathas of the group who might from their experience and knowledge can shed some light on this for the benefit of those who are in search of a true Guru for spiritual guidance. -- pradeep ============================================================== Gu+ru- one who dispells darkness; ignorance. Swamy Desikan describes the greatest qualities of AchArya in nyAsavimsati slOkA 1: 1.Sound philosophical jnAnam obtained (learnt) through the greatest lineage of his AchAryAs 2.Having an undisputed clear knowledge on sAsthrAs; 3.Free from any sins and attachments; 4.Complete knowledge of Vedas, its subsidiaries and ithihAsAs 5.Deep unshakable faith in Brahman (Almighty- unsurpassed unparalleled Sriya: Pathi Sriman Narayanan) 6.possesses sAtvic guNA; 7.Always speaks truth 8.lives in accordance with the manner laid down in sAsthrAs; 9.free from jealousy, show etc.. 10. having control over sense organs 11.friendly and affectionate towards all; 12.Compassionate towards all; 13.helps the disciples who err, correct them and make them follow right track as laid down in sAsthrAs 14.wishes for everyones welfare at all times. The greatness of our Srivaishnavam is that we not only show respect and pay obeisance to our prakritam (present) AchArya, also to the entire lineage of AchAryas, right upto the Lord. The thaniyan (dedicatory verse) of our AchArya and thaose of his predecessors, are to be recited by every srivaishnava. It is not only in paying respect to the glory of these AchAryAs, also to show our gratitude for what GREAT service rendered by them to our srivaishnava sampradAyam, by way of disseminating through granthas and kAlakshEbams. Swamy Desikan describes this very movingly: yERRi manatthu yezhil jnAna viLakkai iruLanaitthum- mARRinavarkku oru kaimmARu mAyanum kANagillAn pORRiugappathum pundhiyiR koLvadhum, pongupugazh- sARRivaLarppathum saRRallavOmunnam peRRadhaRkkE. To the One who has lit the lamp of jnAnam (knowledge) (in us) and dispelled the darkness from our minds, there is nothing (no way ) even the Lord can do to repay (for what the AChArya has done). Praising such AchAryan and telling about his greatness to others, spreading his name, glories, continuously will be like an infinitesimal portion for what He has done. (saRRu - iota) (since it is only so small, why should I do? should not be our comment please). Sri maNavALa mAmunigaL in his upadEsaratthinamAlai says "jnAnam anuttAnam ivai nanRAgavE udaiya nAna, guruvai adaindhakkAl - mAnilatthIr! thEnAr kamalatth thirumAmagaL kozhunan thAnE vaikuntham tharum." When one takes refuge at an AchAryan (Guru), who is the great personification of jnAnam and anshtAnam, oh folks! the Lord Sriya: Pathi Sriman Narayanan will grant mOksham. He also stresses that if one wishes to get saved, place your mind (and yourself) at the feet of your AchAryan. Swamy Vedanta Desikan concludes the Nyasa vimsati with a gist of how he was led to prapatti, and how he lives his life as a prapanna after performing prapatti. This concluding Slokam is included as part of the nitya-anushandhAnam at the end of the nyAsa daSakam which is recited during the nitya bhagavad-ArAdhanam. samSArAvarta vega praSamana Subha-dr*k deSika prekshito'ham samtyakto'nyairupAyair-anucita cariteshvadya SAntAbhisabshih | niS-Sankhah tatvat-dr*shtyA niravadhika dayam prArthya samrakshakam tvAm nysya tat-pAda padme varada nija-bharam nir-bharo nir-bhayo'smi || "I chose a good AcArya who could instruct me on how to get out of the whirl of samsAra, and had his divya kaTAksha. Because of the AcArya's teachings, I obtained the knowledge that could help me analyze and understand the difficulty of bhakti yoga and the realization that prapatti is the only recourse open to me, which I could perform easily, and attain the desired moksham by performing it once and only once. I learnt the facts about prapatti and so had no doubt whatsoever about its efficacy. I sought refuge of peraruLALan with pirATTi as the sole refuge who could protect me. I surrendered all responsibility for my protection at the feet of peraruLALan and performed prapatti at His feet. Since I am now living the life of a prapanna, I feel completely relieved of all responsibility for my self from that point. Since all my acts from that point on have been directed to only kaimkaryam for bhagavAn, there is nothing more to fear about any accumulation of karma. So I continue to lead a life of nishkAmya kaimkaryam to bhagavAn while spending the rest of my life in this world, and deriving infinite happiness from it". Trust it answers your queryas to how and where to find the Acharya (Guru).. what are his qualities.. Regards Narayana Narayana adiyEn Narayana dAsan madhavakkannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2001 Report Share Posted June 29, 2001 Dear Pradeep: You are raising a very important question the answer to which will save one from chasing the wrong Gurus and wasting one's time and ruining one's expectations."Marry in haste and repent at leisure " has to be avoided at all costs in the matter of choice of One's AchAryan. Neo-Sadhus are dime a dozen. On the other hand , There are living examples of SadAchAryans ( True perceptors ) existing today at many parts of India and guiding their disciples with great affection and competence. Their standards are very high in selecting a Sishyan . Let me comment further: At 06:43 AM 6/27/01 -0000, you wrote: >I have a request to the group. > >In this age where there are a lot of new people who make tall claims >that they are God's incarnation and also have some following, in >addition to some mystical powers that they exhibit sometimes, how >does one go about culling out the wrong ones ? Yes, You are right about all kinds of fake gurus claiming all kinds of accomplishments and offering all too easy solutions to a serious searcher. One has to cull them out by questioning their Jn~Anam , VairAgyam and anushtAnam and the paramparai that they come form . True gurus do not go after sishyans like collecting victory points. The true sishyans come to them thru Bahgavan's grace. Excellent descriptions of Who is a true Guru and what his qualifications are have been described precisely in Swamy Desikan's Sri NyAsa Vimsathi SlOkams 1-4. The qualifications of a True AchAryan , a true Sishyan and their relationships are beautifully described in these four verses. In today's scene , I can identify a few AchAryans , who live up to these demanding requirements and come to the rescue of their sishyAs. Yes, they do exist.I am fortunate to have one such great SdaachAryan as My perceptor and every thing. > >Is it possible to create an awareness or post like true candid >reviews/experiences whereby someone who wants to choose a guru gets >atleast some idea & info on whom to rely/trust and so on, atleast >whom to avoid ? > Yes.The tests again are Knowledge about ShAsthrAs, AachAram , anushtAnam , the lineage they come from and their VairAgyam . >It is my opinion that "Guru" : >1) is NOT a Profession -> like I was a lawyer/doctor/engineer and now >I am a guru from tomorrow and get paid for my services / discourses/ >consultation > >2) is NOT a Post -> like I was a vice-chancellor and now I became a >Chancellor by some process say experience or recommendation, >seniority whatever. > >To me it seems logical that "Guru" is a state that someone attains to >by the grace of god and is sent by God and is God himself in a human >form. Please correct my views if I am wrong. No, You are absolutely correct in your descriptions.The AchAryan is indeed the God on earth. > >But when such glory is to be attributed to a Guru...how does one >distinguish the true one from the rest. Through the help of others , who have searched in vain and found their true Guru. V.Sadagopan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2001 Report Share Posted July 2, 2001 Pradeep, You bring up some very relevant issues. Part of the solution is to be vigilant in using your mind at all times, and to see whether the proposed acharya or guru is really making sense and is consistent. Often we find ourselves attracted to people for emotional reasons. Sometimes these emotions cloud our judgment until it's too late to discern reality from illusion. Second, the acharya or guru should exhibit true and consistent values, as the messages of Sri Madhavakkannan and Sri Sadagopan Maama have demonstrated. I would like to build upon their contribution. In my opinion one of the chief means of distinguishing a true guru from one who is not is how much they chase after money, either directly or indirectly. We find so many people who are in the position of acharya/guru these days asking for money every chance they get. They may cloak this in different ways, but in the end it's just a request for money. Usually, the money guru's followers rationalize that because the omniscient master simply *must* have some noble purpose in mind, everything is okay. In this regard, we may heed Swami Desika's words of seven centuries ago, which ring remarkably prophetic: Alas! Observe the "renunciation" of the kali-yuga sannyasis who bear the saffron robes and holy staff in name only: "For bhiksha, and for taking care of my disciples,", they say; "Merely for my robes, and for erecting a permanent roof over my monastery," they say; "To pay for the purchase of books," they say; though sannyasis, they are possessed by their desire for money. Now Swami Desika would be the first to argue that guru-dakshiNa is of vital importance and that one should give to one's guru as much as possible; for no payment can be equal the value of a guru-sishya relationship. But the question is -- does the guru himself demand money early and often? If so, watch out. aDiyEn rAmAnuja dAsan, mani Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2001 Report Share Posted July 3, 2001 Dear Sri Pradeep and friends: As an addendum to the excellent guidelines of Sri Mnai, I reproduce below the concluding paragraph of my book "Oh! My God!" now being serialized in "sri Kanchi Perarulalan" religious monthly in India. Also, reproduced are a few lines from my article on Srimad Andavan of Poundarikapuram Swami Ashramam on the occasion of his recently concluded Sathabishekam celebrations. I hope these will help in your quest for a true and reliable Acharya. Dasoham Anbil Ramaswamy ======================================================================== >From "Oh! My God!" " The acid test of real spiritual leaders is that they never project themselves as 'somebody', never show off their powers of Siddhis, never indulge in magic, never seek after disciples and never presume to indoctrinate others. They withdraw into seclusion, practice their Dharmic duties unostentatiously in humble dedication to God, shun publicity and are content to be inconspicuous, selective in choosing only deserving students who would follow their own code of conduct before imparting to them the eternal truths. They have to be 'searched for and sought after' than their 'searching, scanning and scheming'. They do not hanker after name or fame, are prepared to pass into oblivion 'Unsung. Un-honoured, Unwept' by the mere mortals because their minds and vision are truly fixated on the transcendental reality". >From the article mentioned above: "Srimad Andavan of Poundarikapuram Swami Ashramam answers precisely to the above description: * To this day, in the matter of discipline, he is absolutely and uncompromisingly strict on himself and those who approach him. * To this day, he has lived almost always in Srirangam. * To this day, he had never sought after name or fame. * To this day, he never went out soliciting Sishyas. * To this day, he has never failed to impart true knowledge to genuine seekers who seek his advice. * To this day, he has lived in seclusion SILENTLY meditating on the Lord. * He is blind to others' faults; deaf to scandals; mute in the sense of avoiding vain talk. Living in the 21st century, he still upholds the old-world values. Strict on himself, he is practical enough to understand the predicament of common folk like us. He offers sensible and really "sage" advice on the appropriate "modus operandi" to reconcile the great time-divide and space-divide to prove how even in the so called present circumstances and the much touted modern day compulsions, one can and should practice Srivaishnavam. He is the one who can advise exactly where "relaxation ends and where repugnance starts" in observing "anushTAnams" for us (who seek to excuse ourselves on grounds of being away from our mainland and away from the values of yore).Thus, the words "Muni" and "Guru" just fit him well. He is the Senior most of all Prakritam yathivaras of Bhagavad RamAnuja-Swami Desika SathsampradAyam both in point of age and assumption of the ascetic order (Ashrama sweekaraNam), which latter is the criterion for determining the seniority among them. He is not only a fitting successor to the glorious lineage of the PounDarikapuram Ashramam but also a role model for all other yathivaras, in the matter of his superb "AtmaguNas". No wonder, he is hailed verily as "VasishTa" among them and held in very high esteem by all. The fact that all yathivaras of our SathsampradAyam are congregating to celebrate his SathAbhishEkam "speaks" volumes about this "silent" MunisrEshTa. VADOOLA GOTRAM: You will remember that a while ago, I had mentioned about the glory of "Naitrava KAsyapa" GOtram and how the word "MADabhoosi", became a variant form of "MAtrubhooshaNam" which the famed "Naitrava KAsyapa" Rishi was. Every GOtram has its own unique glory. I have heard in Kalakshepams that the uniqueness of `VAdoola GOtram" is that those belonging to it are such `Viraktas" that they never ask for any favors, much less any pecuniary favors from anyone, however dire their circumstances may be. Their palm when outstretched is always "down-facing" (signifying giving) and never "up-facing" (signifying receiving). This mahAn belongs to this "VAdoola GOtram". He never asks for anything either for himself or even for any kainkaryams he undertakes or even for running the Ashramam. If Sishyas or AbhimAnis offer any genuine and voluntary help, he accepts them only after making sure of the intention behind the offer and accepts it regarding it as "Bhagavad anugraham". His rectitude can be seen in how personally and scrupulously he monitors that assistance received in this manner is spent precisely for the purpose for which it is received from the donors". ======================================================================= _______________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2001 Report Share Posted July 4, 2001 Dear Sri Mani Varadarajan : After a great deal of sorrow & anguish arising from Your recent note on "neo-Saadhus" that included passages from Sankalpa SooryOdhayam to develop Your untenable position , I am writing to you to stay away from the temptation of penning such misleading notes as responses . I do not relish public display of emotions. When one's AchAryan is attacked however , one does not have much of a choice.Your AchAryan will take the same position , when it comes to putting up with AchArya Nindhanai intended or otherwise. Here are the points: At 08:43 PM 7/2/01 -0700, you wrote: >Second, the acharya or guru should exhibit true and >consistent values, as the messages of Sri Madhavakkannan >and Sri Sadagopan Maama have demonstrated. I would like >to build upon their contribution. What I commented on , has no bearing on the points that You are developing below. You are giving an unfortunately distorted and almost malicious account of some of the present day AchAryAs of Sri VaishNavite SampradhAyam in general and my AchAryan in particular . Your comments are distasteful to say the least and does not sit well with many people , who have called me and expressed their anger . I would like to distance myself from your remarks on how to calibrate an AchAryan , since I do not agree with them.I would rather celebrate MY ACHAARYAN with all "emotions" rather than calibrate Him . He is nadamAdum dhaivam for me AND ALL HIS SISHYA KOTIS . Please do not enter into these areas with impunity. Your quotation of Swamy Desikan's Sri Sookthi passage from Sankalpa SuryOdhayam is not at all relevant and is most unfortunate . You are mouthing the quotation of another curent day AchAryan . I am not happy over your remarks. FYI , a SadAchAryans does not "chase after money " for their personal gratification or advancemnet . They are not like the different Maharishis who have a staple of Rolls Royce and travel first class and have their headquarters in Cozy Swizerland . They are not like the members of the pop musical groups , who go to air conditioned villas of "neo-sadhus" in HimAlayAs to cram in one week the intricacies of raaja yOgam and return "fulfilled" . A sadAchAryan has devoted years of his life under another SadAchAryan studying SaasthrAs and practises rigorous anushtAnam and instructs others on the lofty standards that he has inherited .They spurn wealth for its own sake. They deflect the samarpaNams for Bhagaavth-BhAgavatha, Grantha-nirmANa , Vedha PaatasAlA , anna dhAnam and other adhyAthmic kaimkaryams . At an advanced age , my own revered AchAryan puts up with an immoral government stealing the lands donated for Bhagavath kaimkaryam ; Inspite of His physical fraility , demanding anushtAnam , He travels tirelessly from village to village throughout the entire length of Bhaaratha Desam as commanded by Sri Lakshmi Narasimhan some six hundred years ago.He has no choice. He has immense responsibilities as the head of a Matam with 12 devasthAnams and 50 branches and hosts of kainkarya parALs , who depend on Him for their livelihood. Sitting here and making frivolous coments is repugnant to me.Few matAdhipathis have similar awesome rsponsibilities that my AchAryan has . It is not fair to judge them without any understanding of their complex responsibilities. This is not a subject for Bhakthi List . We can certainly talk about the qualifications of a SadAchAryan but not in this casual , cavalier and insensitive manner. >You wrote further: >In my opinion one of the chief means of distinguishing >a true guru from one who is not is how much they chase >after money, either directly or indirectly. We find >so many people who are in the position of acharya/guru >these days who ask for money every chance they get. Often, >followers rationalize that because the omniscient guru >simply *must* have some noble purpose in mind, everything >is okay. > >In this regard, we may heed Swami Desika's words of seven >centuries ago, which ring remarkably prophetic: > > Alas! Observe the "renunciation" of the kali-yuga sannyasis > who bear the saffron robes and holy staff in name only: > > "For bhiksha, and for taking care of my disciples,", they say; > "Merely for my robes, and for erecting a permanent roof over my > monastery," they say; > "To pay for the purchase of books," they say; > though sannyasis, they are possessed by their desire > for money. > >Now Swami Desika would be the first to argue that guru-dakshiNa >is of vital importance and that one should give to one's guru >as much as possible; for no payment can be equal the value of >a guru-sishya relationship. But the question is -- does the guru >himself demand money early and often? If so, watch out. These words are like NaarAsam for my ears and that of all fellow sishyAs of our matam. We can not accept any innuendo directed at our AchAryan , whose Vaathsalyam and MahOpakAram is limitless. Please cease and desist from such poor remarks , which are totally unwarranted. Please de me form the Bhakthi List , if you feel that my remarks are not just. V.Sadagopan July 4, 2001. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2001 Report Share Posted July 4, 2001 Sri: Sri Ramanujaya namah: Sri Nigamahantha Desikaya Namah: Sri Lakshmi Narasimha Paramatmane parabrahmane namah: Dear Pradeep, To begin with, As u said getting the right Guru is very difficult. But if u are truly devoted and with full heart throng to find a Guru, The supreme, almighty , mercifull, the one filled with kalyana Guna, the parabrahman, Narayana himself will show u the way to the right guru. In certain circumstances he has even sent his most beloved ones to enlighten his devotees. to quote u could see that Sri Garuda was sent to enlighten the great acharya Swami desikan. Secondly , one can attain full spiritual knowledge only when one has full faith and devotion to his guru, so once u have chosen a guru , do not suspect him on his level of knowledge. third, choose a guru based on the lineage they come from, a guru is a person who comes from a particular lineage carrying forward the customs and knowledge of that particular lineage to the forth coming generations. A person who does not belong to a particular lineage , can never be a guru. Sri: Adiyen Sridhar.S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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