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~~~LIFE LESSONS/UNHEALED STATES/INNER

CHILD ISSUES: UNWORTHINESS~~~

 

Unworthiness substantiates separation and holds us in this abysmal

illusion in which we believe, experience ourselves, create our actions

and relationships as though we were not a part of the Heart and Mind

of God. Forgetting our One True Relationship/Who We Are, we

become prey to our own as yet unconscious, unhealed states.

 

The deep inner sorrow that we sometimes point to as an

invasive/pervasive loneliness upwells when we are least able to see

ourselves as love and instead point to or presumed darkness within.

Hidden away in our hearts, deeply buried beneath layers of lower ego/

self-defense, our core reality beckons.

 

Yet the belief held deep within the collective mindset that we *could*

be unworthy to be and know love, abundance, Grace substantiates

guilt, shame, separation, forgetfulness, doubt, worry and concern.

Whole civilizations have risen and known demise in "inevitable"

cycles of domination/victimization/subjugation.

 

The pervasive lack of self-esteem that originates from parent/child and

other outside authority domination/victimization has pushed so many

individuals into states of depression that manifest as

underachievement, totally giving up, addictive behaviors, dis-ease

and/or suicide. On the other hand, this same lack of self-esteem has

also given rise to greediness, selfishness and destructiveness in the

name of wealth. Unworthiness also underlies the

impulsive/compulsive/obsessive behaviors that come out of mental,

physical and sexual abuse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

These are not states that are happening "out there" but rather how

*we* feel and believe we are. High and low self-esteem not only

dictates how we will create our reality, but how we will be treated in

that reality when entering into the over-achiever competitiveness of

the employment arena, into the depths of intimacy in our personal

relationships or awaiting the flows of abundance on which most of us

believe we can only dream.

 

In the "old world" mindset, worthiness is counted in money and

possessions which can be easily swept away through foolish decisions

or world economic changes. We have each been carefully taught --

and have agreed to allow those beliefs to be reinforced -- to judge

ourselves as have's and have nots -- powerful or powerless -- based on

mere economics. We hold a lot of guilt and shame around these issues

which, as we enter the arena of flowing abundance, block our hearts,

stop the flow of love and therefore stop that flowing give/receive/pass

on lavishness that is our birthright.

 

The spiritual mindset concerns itself with how loving, wise,

knowledgeable, understanding we are, by our acts of lovingkindness,

random kindness, gentleness, honor and loyalty. The more

mindful/conscious we are of making loving decisions, choices and

gestures, the more we are filled with the joy of our spiritual worth.

 

For God does not judge us, but accepts us just as we are in incarnation,

just as we are as creators and co-creators/Children of God at the

godhead. While we stroll through the vicissitudes of emotional

hardship, God offers His/Her love unconditionally......surrounds us

with its powerful and abundant Good.

 

It is up to each of us to venture deeply within, daring to surround those

parts of us we believe to be unworthy of love and love them, love them,

love them with all our hearts. Each of us must assume the

responsibility for overcoming our self-forgetfulness so that we can be

embraced within the Heart and Mind of God and all the Goodness

offered to us in every moment.

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FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION:

 

What has been happening in your life that has made you feel small,

shriveled and unloved within recently? What has made you feel

enraged in the treatment you have been receiving? Are you still

blaming someone else or are you taking responsibility for what is

happening in your life? What beliefs about your unworthiness are

being shown to you at this time?

 

FOR YOUR JOURNALS:

 

Make a list of those things you deem unworthy about yourself. Be as

open and honest as you can, knowing you are the only one who is

going to see and read this. If you feel blocked, push through it and

find the truth beneath those blocked feelings. At last, give yourself the

right to do this and have the courage and inner dedication to bettering

your life to do so. Work with each of those beliefs this week, finding

the words that are unique to you, and shift each one into love.

 

FOR YOUR MEDITATION:

 

Go into deep meditation and look at those areas of yourself where you

believe you are still unworthy. Feel all your feelings around this, and

see these feelings as little children. Using the tools for transforming

inner child emotional states, work with each and all these children, in

your Soul Meadow, to place them in your heart and transform these

fear states into love. Receive your Soul's unconditional love for you.

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Be Happy!

 

God Bless you!

 

Narenji

 

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