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Remain Unaffected by Sorrows (An Article from the Religious Section of The

Hindu taken with permission: "Copyrights 2000 The Hindu & Tribeca Internet

Initiatives Inc.")

 

The mind of even a wise man may waver. He has to bridle it and bring it under

control. This is a tough and stupendous task but Lord Krshn has prescribed

the techniques, the emphasis being on meditation. With patience and

perseverance a person develops concentration. He must continue to practice

regularly even when he faces worldly problems and not become impatient at the

delay in getting success. He will be resolute, persevering and

forbearing.

 

Such a person (Yogi), the Lord adds in His Bhagavad Gita, will relinquish his

desires, will regulate his senses, and ultimately realise his Self. Overcoming

obstacles by constant practice of meditation and curbing desires, he will come

to possess a tranquil mind, enjoy unending happiness and experience bliss. The

Lord points out how in spite of his efforts, even a man of intellect will

find his mind wandering. He knows that slowly and steadily, with tirelessness,

it has to be reined in and chained to the Self. At one stage, all disturbing

thoughts will cease. The result when attained will be something

ineffable.

 

In his lecture, Swami Swaroopanand said, the magical formula that helped in

controlling the mind and continue meditation was, ``I refuse to be

miserable.'' This indeed is the secret of life. One cannot escape sorrows but

it will be possible to avoid coming into contact with those worldly objects

which may cause them. For instance, fire is bound to scald a person but a

person can abstain from going near it. A Yogi will divorce sorrows from his

life and when they affect him, he will not get dejected.

 

A story is told of a farmer who was always happy, contented with cultivating

his farm with conventional tools and ploughing the land with a horse. The

animal died and he was not upset and when neighbors approached him, his reply

was ``we will see.'' They presented him with a young one which however ran

away. Even then, he smiled. The horse returned and his son, who rode it fell

down and got injured. Then too he did not show much concern. Later when young

men in that place were conscripted into war service, his son was spared

because of his fracture. The old man was calm and continued his work.''

 

A saintly person who abandoning without reserve all fancied or cultivated

desires, restraining all the senses by the mind and gradually withdraw,

merging the mind in the Self and experiences happiness within himself. If the

mind wanders away, he will be able to control it by constant practice. How he

has registered progress can be seen by the tranquility of mind. When the

knowledge of the eternal relationship between himself and the Lord awakens in

him (that the Lord is seated within him), he will live a life of loving

service to Him.

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Hi!

Some comments. There are two schools of thought. One is to "control" the mind

and another is to "watch" mind. In the former, it appears one takes control and

channelizes the mind to be quiet (just like a school teacher with authority) and

in the

latter, the mind dissolves or disappears thus becoming quiet. The authority

process works if the mind is capable of being scolded and subdued. The watching

process works if one has the patience.

The control the mind concept is probably more palatable since it goads our ego

to do something to achieve something -- it is a challenge and therefore worth

trying to get something.

 

Sometimes I wonder whether we have to goad the ego and succumb to it as we

"control" the mind since we have achieved something important.

 

The farmer in the story just accepted what was happening and was not really

controlling his mind. he did not even watch his mind!

 

-- Vis

 

Ram Chandran wrote:

> Ram Chandran <chandran

>

> Remain Unaffected by Sorrows (An Article from the Religious Section of The

> Hindu taken with permission: "Copyrights 2000 The Hindu & Tribeca Internet

> Initiatives Inc.")

>

> The mind of even a wise man may waver. He has to bridle it and bring it under

> control. This is a tough and stupendous task ..........

> .............

> ............

>

> A story is told of a farmer who was always happy, contented with cultivating

> his farm with conventional tools and ploughing the land with a horse. The

> animal died and he was not upset and when neighbors approached him, his reply

> was ``we will see.'' They presented him with a young one which however ran

> away. Even then, he smiled. The horse returned and his son, who rode it fell

> down and got injured. Then too he did not show much concern. Later when young

> men in that place were conscripted into war service, his son was spared

> because of his fracture. The old man was calm and continued his work.''

> ............

>

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On Sun, 6 Feb 2000, R. Viswanathan wrote:

> "R. Viswanathan" <rvis

>

> Hi!

> Some comments. There are two schools of thought. One is to "control" the

>mind and another is to "watch" mind. In the former, it appears one takes

>control and channelizes the mind to be quiet (just like a school teacher

>with authority) and in the

> latter, the mind dissolves or disappears thus becoming quiet. The authority

>process works if the mind is capable of being scolded and subdued. The

>watching process works if one has the patience.

 

 

I guess the key lies in when can u take the mind to the subject u desire.

If one is not that strong in concntration then the technique of letting

the mind cool down a bit by wandering here and there while we are

watching it's wandering and some sort of trying to detach from them is ok.

 

But if the person is strong in concentration he/she puts the mind to the

thoughts one desire. Mind struggles a bit but then gives up to the strong

conc. and will of the person.

> The control the mind concept is probably more palatable since it goads our

> ego to do something to achieve something -- it is a challenge and

> therefore worth trying to get something.

>

> Sometimes I wonder whether we have to goad the ego and succumb to it as we

"control" the mind since we have achieved something important.

 

We control the mind by diverting it to pious thoughts and lord. It can be

that one may have ego in doing so or one may not have so.

>

> The farmer in the story just accepted what was happening and was not really

>controlling his mind. he did not even watch his mind!

>

 

I guess his was an clear understanding abt the things.

> -- Vis

>

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