Guest guest Posted July 12, 2000 Report Share Posted July 12, 2000 Ramakrishna_Bruxelles , "Naren Cl. Laurent" <Laurent_Claude_3@c...> wrote: Hari Om! ------------- ~~~SOULMATES~~~ In the realms of light, we are all soulmates, spiritmates, Children of God. We are all luminescent pearls of unlimited possibility unfolding to the utmost of unconditionality upon the webwork of life. In incarnation, we form special, almost unique villages of seemingly disparate individuals coming together to learn the ways of unconditional love and to fulfill God's purpose. We have chosen to become a circle evolving with and through each other. We have chosen each other because of our very similar personal perceptions and expectations about the nature of creation and learning the stuff of love from that place of direct differentiation out of the Heart and Mind of God as our highest, most adult, most spiritual selves. The uniqueness of each and all of us cannot have meaning if it is not mirrored to us from without. The purpose and Highest Good in relationships can only occur when we are both served and of service to each other in this unfolding process of the evolution of consciousness. Each of our Souls embraces this great desire to be of unconditional and compassionate service to all others. Like the Spiritual Imperative that drives us, herds of sheep, down well-trod paths towards HOME, the desire to be of service to humanity draws to us those with whom we can have the greatest give and take - the greatest growth and healing into wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Through all the lifetimes, in all the forms into which we incarnated in which we have portrayed the various characters in this great hysterical and barbaric drama of "history, " those who we have loved, betrayed, disappointed, dismissed, vanquished, destroyed and those who have done likewise to us have served have served this higher purpose to provide all the experiences of fear and to heal them into love, forgiveness and gratitude. The totality of this unfoldment inexorably leads us to the conclusion that it doesn't have to be this historical barbaric way any longer. We CAN create or future lives - the next moments, hours, days, weeks and years in a wholly new, different and more loving way. We DO, here and now, have that choice. We can continue to create out of mental, physical, psychological, psychic attack, harm, domination, offhandedness, cruelty, and violence. We can continue to demand that others subject themselves to our wills for them, naming ourselves superior authorities without care to another's spiritual journey and the mandates of his/her Spirit's Will to learn the lessons of this lifetime. Coming together with our Soul Family - the Village of the Soul - and with those seen/unseen, known/unknown other incarnations who are a part of our Spirit's creation, we can go more gently. More lovingly into this good unknown but known Each time we heal some inner conflict, confusion or chaos, we are affecting All Life - but we are also transforming those with whom we have the closest Soul/Spirit relationship ties. There are no mistakes or coincidences that we bring around us those who most support and teach us along our way. We have made agreements with these individuals to help each other move into move loving states - to cause that moment of "Aha!" in recollection of the deeper purpose, the foundation of all our interactions. Whether someone is a part of our learning for merely a moment, pointing to a new understanding or insight into our current dilemma of personal unfoldment or is in relationship with and to us over time makes no difference. The purpose to create change is served when those moments of transformation occur. And then we go on, either to a deeper understanding with and through these individuals or are given a new freedom to move into more loving circles. LIFEMATES The very relationship for which we all yearn with our entire beings is to find and have a lifemate relationship in our lives. What is required of us to prepare for this eventuality? Through our previous and current relationships, we have the opportunity to bring ourselves into a harmonic balance within our own beings - to become insightfully complete within ourselves so that we do not stumble over the old limited/limiting/negative beliefs and emotions that otherwise hold us in separation from ourselves and each other. Moreover, we come to the realization that our male/female sides are not gender-tied at all, but are merely the yin/yan, bipolar energies through which we can manifest thought into thought-form. Finding our own creative power through this awareness of the creative/co-creative Oneness and purity within this experience of seeming duality/dichotomy frees us to see ourselves as One Totality, Wholeness and Completion, which is perfectly perfect even in its imperfection. The unfoldment of our beings into Godness takes us through deep, inner journeys, ever spiraling into the Spiritual issues that hold us in separation from Who We Are. Yet, when we have achieved the insight into our Oneness, our singular relationship with God and the Oneness of the world and universe that surrounds us, we are ready to enter into the deepest kind of relationship that we can have: we are ready to magnetize our lifetmates to us. Transforming ourselves into this enlightened state of being, wherein our energies, awareness, physical bodies, and lives are filled with love creates deep compassion and even unconditionality within for the world without. We become lovingly vulnerable, open and aware. We allow our love to flow out into the world without the need for our old defense mechanisms. Even our angers and sorrows, which belie our underlying fears, begin to dissipate. To know ourselves intimately - to have faced inward to both our terror and grandeur - permits us to view the Godness inherent in all others. It is this deep insight and understanding of our transformed selves that we are prepared to bring forward into a most personal, intimate relationship with one other human being. When we are prepared to allow another to see the places within where we are still frightened and confused children who are also Godness, we are ready to enter into a lifemate relationship. Upholding the Godness within each other even while we struggle through our life lessons in this eternal mirroring of our Souls and incarnations is the very substance that substantiates an ever-evolving relationship. Taking responsibility to be in a state of unconditionality for all the frailties, weaknesses, personality quirks, unhealed/inner child states of the other and allowing ourselves to be absolutely vulnerable even to the intense yet loving scrutiny that intimacy affords aids us in achieving that spiritual/psychological adulthood we most desire. To be loved and desired - to be the recipient of love honor, cherishing, valuing and respect equal to that we hold for ourselves, from another - is an ultimate experience of love. Beyond the neediness to "fix," or dote upon the other, the giving/receiving of the lifemate relationship requires the ability to be non-attached to the other's dramas and outcomes. We are merely present, mirroring love and possibility for change that is then beneficial to both individuals. So, too, sexual expression becomes an arena in which the absolute love for each other is transferred into the physical where we are beautiful, passionate, and desirable regardless of the appearance of the form in which we reside. To speak love through our physical bodies is both a gift and a means of reinforcement and strengthening of the bonds of love for with this one other being, we are able to speak out our desires, likes and dislikes, fantasies and fears and have them honored in this highest way. Too, long-term relationships are a means through which we can explore the realms of our sensuality and sexuality, expanding the experience, bringing something new to it each time we are close. Bringing forth our radiant Godness - opening our energy centers to their highest loving state with and through each other in the experience of all that is lovemaking is a fulfillment of the loving union we achieve in other areas of our lifemate relationship. The friendship, warmth, nurturing of our inner children's needs for touch and holding which are outside the acts of sex, too, are a part of this thing of creating loving union. We may choose Souls who are older, same age or younger to be our lifemates. Each will take us, mutually, ever more deeply into our life lessons in their own way and each will make us feel safe, trusting that the love we have found is a permanent and lasting one which will not be shattered by what we believe is lacking within us. And so, this marriage of Souls working towards each individual's and the relationship's own wholeness, perfection and completion creates its own Village of the Soul which is the highest union two beings an achieve where the central focus brings God within the relationship and where love flows to transform fear into absolute unconditionality. ********************************************************************** ***** ***************** FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION: With whom did you have energetic exchanges today? What were your underlying thoughts and what were your actions? Are you beginning to become mindful of your attitudes, body language and emotions when dealing with others? What was that interaction like? How can you change that to something far more loving for both of you in the future? FOR YOUR JOURNALS: List all the people with whom you are currently engaged in a relationship. List next to their names your emotional and psychic reactions to them. What do you like most and least about each person? What judgments and assessments to you hold about this person? Can you see the lessons you are learning with these people? FOR YOUR MEDITATIONS: During the next week, go into deep meditation, out the gateway of the heart to your Soul meadow and call to you each person with whom you are having a relationship at this time. At this level of your being, discuss with this/these others how you can come from a more loving space and resolve the issues between you at this time. Most of all, sit in a space of love for each person, allowing the purity of love to dissolve the barriers. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Peace and Joy! Naren --- End forwarded message --- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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