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Today I gave a talk to some students at Imperial College London.

The topic was Raja yoga....

 

Let me share my experience with you.

 

The show stopper turned out to be the concept of 'Celibacy'.

I insisted that in order to make any serious progress in

raja-yoga 'total' celibacy is absolutely essential.

No compromises....

 

You can imagine what happened next : )

Absolute uproar... ( I would not budge an inch)

I thoroughly enjoyed the bantering that followed.

 

They are now ready for the next talk:

"Life and teachings of Swami Vivekananda"

 

By the grace of Sri Ramakrishna these talks are going down a treat.

 

jay

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advaitin , "Vivekananda Centre" <vivekananda@b...>

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> Today I gave a talk to some students at Imperial College London.

> The topic was Raja yoga....

>

> Let me share my experience with you.

>

> The show stopper turned out to be the concept of 'Celibacy'.

> I insisted that in order to make any serious progress in

> raja-yoga 'total' celibacy is absolutely essential.

> No compromises....

 

You are throughly incorrect in that assertion Jay, and there

is no way you can prove it correct.

 

There are many examples of individuals, both living and dead,

who have come to be blessed with Self realization, or Moksha

as it is referred to in Patanjali, while having what one may

consider a normal sex life.

 

Your assertion denies the validity of the left-handed

tantric paths. Ramakrishna himself was a tantric, although

it can be argued that he didn't engage in any sexual practices

involving women.

 

While it is customary for the devotees of Ramakrishna to regard

celebacy as the highest ideal, most don't actually reach the

ideal, and those that do often take excessive pride in the fact,

which completely eliminates any positive benefit the practice

may engender.

> You can imagine what happened next : )

> Absolute uproar... ( I would not budge an inch)

> I thoroughly enjoyed the bantering that followed.

 

Your not budging only indicates your lack of experiential

knowledge on the subject.

> They are now ready for the next talk:

> "Life and teachings of Swami Vivekananda"

>

> By the grace of Sri Ramakrishna these talks are going down a treat.

 

I bet he's getting a real laugh out of the whole thing as well.

> jay

 

--jody.

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Namaste,

 

The word celibacy is a poor term to convey the concept of

brahmacharya.

 

For a thorough discussion of the subject, the book [downloadable] by

Sw. Sivananda, can be accessed at URL:

 

http://www.sivanandadlshq.org/teachings/brahmacharya.htm

 

It would appear to be a logical and spiritual fallacy to argue

that a person living in the Self [the true definition of

brahmacharya] can continue a life of pleasures on par with the rest

of humanity. The Self is genderless & without a sense of body-

awareness.

 

If humanity can look up to Buddha, Jesus, Ramakrishna, Ramana,

and a galaxy of other enlightened beings as true brahmachari-s, there

must be more than a grain of truth to their definition of

brahmacharya. Nobody has controverted them, nor has anyone equalled

their work for the uplift of humanity.

 

Regards,

 

s.

 

 

 

advaitin , "jody " <jodyrrr@h...> wrote:

> advaitin , "Vivekananda Centre"

<vivekananda@b...>

> wrote:

> You are throughly incorrect in that assertion Jay, and there

> is no way you can prove it correct.

>

> There are many examples of individuals, both living and dead,

> who have come to be blessed with Self realization, or Moksha

> as it is referred to in Patanjali, while having what one may

> consider a normal sex life.

>

> Your assertion denies the validity of the left-handed

> tantric paths. Ramakrishna himself was a tantric, although

> it can be argued that he didn't engage in any sexual practices

> involving women.

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advaitin , "sunder hattangadi" <sunderh@h...> wrote:

> Namaste,

>

> The word celibacy is a poor term to convey the concept of

> brahmacharya.

>

> For a thorough discussion of the subject, the book [downloadable]

> by Sw. Sivananda, can be accessed at URL:

>

> http://www.sivanandadlshq.org/teachings/brahmacharya.htm

>

> It would appear to be a logical and spiritual fallacy to

> argue that a person living in the Self [the true definition of

> brahmacharya] can continue a life of pleasures on par with the rest

> of humanity. The Self is genderless & without a sense of body-

> awareness.

 

Logical and spiritual fallacies have little to do with one another.

That is, logic has little to do with spirituality in reality.

Logic is an artifical means whereby the mind organizes information

about experience. The Self is utterly beyond the mind and its

experiences, and therefore is utterly beyond the means the mind

employs in the development of conditional understanding.

 

What you say about the Self is true. However, those who have

realized the Self *in* a body still *have* a body. While the

"person" in said body may be identified with the Self and

not the body, the body doesn't go anywhere, nor do all the

phenomena associated with it. That is, while a jivanmukta may

have abandoned any identification with his/her body, his/her body

continues to exist and display all the phenomena one will find

in a living body, including pain, pleasure, and the rest.

 

There is a difference between the experience of pleasure

and the identification with the experiencer of pleasure.

 

Here are Ramakrishna's own words:

 

"But it is not harmful for a householder who follows the

path of knowledge to enjoy conjugal happiness with his

own wife now and then. He may satisfy his sexual impulse

like any other natural impulse. Yes, you may enjoy a

sweetmeat (candy) once in a while. It is not harmful

for a householder."

 

"You may ask, 'Is there any difference between the

realizations of two jnanis, one a householder and the

other a monk?' The reply is that the two belong to

one class. Both of them are jnanis; they have the

same experience."

> If humanity can look up to Buddha, Jesus, Ramakrishna,

> Ramana, and a galaxy of other enlightened beings as true

> brahmachari-s, there must be more than a grain of truth to their

> definition of brahmacharya. Nobody has controverted them, nor has

> anyone equalled their work for the uplift of humanity.

 

Our information about Jesus and Buddha is mythological. That

is, we really don't know their lives as they lived them in

their time.

 

Furthermore, there have been many, many more enlightened beings

who have not received historical credit for the blessing. They

came to their realization, some as sannyasis, some as householders,

and left their bodies without having any devotees trumpeting

their glory.

> Regards,

>

> s.

 

Take care.

 

--jody.

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advaitin , "jody " <jodyrrr@h...> wrote:

> Logical and spiritual fallacies have little to do with one another.

> That is, logic has little to do with spirituality in reality.

> Logic is an artifical means whereby the mind organizes information

> about experience. The Self is utterly beyond the mind and its

> experiences, and therefore is utterly beyond the means the mind

> employs in the development of conditional understanding.

>

> What you say about the Self is true. However, those who have

> realized the Self *in* a body still *have* a bodyNamaste,

 

 

***As the French are wont to say: chacun a son gout, or

 

each to one's own taste!

 

 

 

Regards,

 

s.

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