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Dear friends,

 

Two important facets of spirituality is Love and Compassion.

 

We should have selfless love towards every being. How could one love God, when

one cannot love his brother?

 

Another dimension to this is to have compassion towards the suffering and to

serve them. We should try alleviate the sufferings of the suffering.

 

My question is:

 

How does the Bhagavad Gita inspire us to do the above?

 

Also, since this is the advaitin list, how does the advaitin philosophy

encourage "Love

all, serve all"? Does the advaitin care not for his fellow beings and their

sufferings?

 

 

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Warmest regards,

Ruben V. M.

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Dear Ruben,

 

First of all, let us get it clear - there is no such

thing called selfless love. Advaita accepts facts and

does not beat around the bush. There is only one

thing that I love. Me. There is only one thing that

you love. You. The other attachments are conditional

and in all of them, on ultimate analysis, some selfish

interest will be found.

 

Advaita does not ask me to treat everyone like me or

like my neighbour. It reveals to me with the best of

logic that everything, cockroach to terrorist,

including the Lord, is just me. When I realize that

everything is me, then I am in love with everything

just spontaneously, because I love myself. It is a

spontaneous outpouring which is akin to ecstasy. There

is then no need for any "inspiration" or

"encouragement" to come from outside.

 

You probably asked this question because you don't

find advaitins moving about the globe spreading the

"message of love". That is a job for mostly

proselytizers! Isn't it? I can answer your doubts but

would not like to do it here. I would rather expect

you to study advaita, then contemplate on this point.

The answer, I am sure, will be yours in the most

convincing manner and you will have done it without

ever changing your current affiliations, whatever they

are like!

 

Please read the verses in Bhagwat Geetha that deal

with values and that describe a jnananishta to see for

yourself the importance attached to spontaneous love

and kindness. I don't have a copy right now with me to

quote the stanza numbers.

 

Best regards.

 

Madathil Nair

 

 

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Ruben <rubenn wrote:

My question is:

How does the Bhagavad Gita inspire us to do the

above? Also, since this is the advaitin list, how

does the advaitin philosophy encourage "Love

all, serve all"? Does the advaitin care not for his

fellow beings and their sufferings?

 

 

 

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Madathil Nair wrote:

> would not like to do it here. I would rather expect

> you to study advaita, then contemplate on this point.

> The answer, I am sure, will be yours in the most

> convincing manner and you will have done it without

> ever changing your current affiliations, whatever they

> are like!

 

 

Actually, I was always Hindu, have read the Bhagavad Gita and am inclined

towards

advaita (with Bhakti of course).

 

So, helpfulness and charity is Sattvic.

 

I find compassion for all creatures to be a divine quality (BG 16.02), also

charity (16.01)

which (indirectly?) leads to Liberation but not an end in itself.

 

Unconditional charity found to be Sattvic in 17.20.

 

However, interestingly, those who worship the unmanifest Brahman (in BG 12.03-04

-

the Buddhists and Taoists?) appear to have to be engaged in the welfare of all

creatures (12.04). That is similar to what Buddhists do.

 

Thank you for your answer.

 

It is just that I find the excuse that everyone should reap the fruits of their

karma is not

good enough an excuse to leave a suffering person to suffer without anyone being

bothered in the least about them. Perhaps, this is just a Sattvic thought and

nothing

more important than that.

 

 

 

--

Warmest regards,

Ruben V. M.

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Hi Ruben!

 

Thanks for your understanding.

 

Still, I would like to do without unnecessary

terminology (like bhakthi, sattvic, brahman etc. etc.)

wherever possible in order to avoid confusion and

misinterpretation.

 

Please permit me to point out the following:

 

Bhakthi is not apart from the knowledge that I am

everything. As this knowledge results in spontaneous

love, bhakthi cannot be apart from love too. So,

advaita is not advaita without bhakthi and love, which

are in fact the same thing - let us say, the two faces

of the same coin.

 

An advaitin knows that binding action (karma) leads to

bondage and suffering. But, I don't think he sits

quite when the other guy is suffering. His hand

spontaneously extends to wipe the tears of those

around him. And, above all, he imparts that knowledge

that leads to liberation from suffering - nay the

mistaken sense of suffering. What better service can

one expect in this world, dear Ruben?

 

Thanks for providing me this opportunity to express.

 

Best regards.

 

M.R. NAIR

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Ruben wrote:

 

I am inclined towards

advaita (with Bhakti of course).

 

It is just that I find the excuse that everyone

should reap the fruits of their karma is not

good enough an excuse to leave a suffering person to

suffer without anyone being

bothered in the least about them. Perhaps, this is

just a Sattvic thought and nothing

more important than that.

 

 

 

 

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Namaste Rubenji:

 

Thanks for raising the question regarding love and compassion. These

questions are quite fundamental in almost all religions that sincerely

seek the truth.

 

In Bhagavad Gita, the understanding of love and compassion become

possible by cultivating the "Yagna Spirit" and/or the "PrasadaBuddhi."

This is achieved by deeds and not by words and consequently,

discipline, devotion and determination become the key ingredients. To

be a Karma, Bhakti or Jnana Yogi, the person should love everbeing

irrespective of their intellectual and physical shape and capacity.

The Yogi just acts without giving any importance to the

consequences of such actions (rewards and/or punishments). Such a yogi

could be a heart surgeon or a soldier in the field of war. They both

conduct their duties with the fullest devotion to their 'duty' without

any fear on the outcome. The surgeon's compassionate action may appear

as initial pain to the patient but the patient gladly accepts the

temporary pain for permanant cure. One of the lessons of Gita is to

make us aware that "Pain is inevitable, but suffering is always

avoidable."

 

Proper understanding of Gita definitely make us a better person in the

society. Our discriminating intelligence gets sharper to undertake the

action that will have beneficial effects on everyone around us. The

well known nuclear scientist, Oppenheimer is a great scholar of

Sanskrit and Bhagavad Gita. The following paragraph may explain his

love and compassion after the successful test of first A-bomb. The

first nuclear explosion in history took place in New Mexico, at the

Alamogordo Test Range, on the Jornada del Muerto (Journey of Death)

desert. The name of the test was Trinity and is commonly thought that

Robert Oppenheimer provided the name, which would seem logical because

he was the head of the Nuclear Weapon Project. A leading theory is

that Oppenheimer did select it, and that he did so with reference to

the divine Hindu trinity of Brahma (the Creator), Vishnu (the

Preserver), and Shiva (the Destroyer). Oppenheimer had an avid

interest in Sanskrit literature (which he had taught himself to read),

and following the Trinity test is reported to have recited the passage

from the Bhagavad-Gita immediately after the Trinity test during July

1945. The famous quote by Oppenheimer comes from Bhagavad Gita,

Chapter 11: "If the radiance of a thousand suns Were to burst at once

into the sky, That would be like the splendor of the Mighty One...I am

become Death, The destroyer of Worlds" to describe his emotions as he

watched the rising fire ball of the first above-ground nuclear

explosion. Oppenheimer was widely quoted as the moral conscience of

those who had worked on the project. He often made the point that "the

physicists have known sin, and this is a knowledge which they cannot

lose." When one of the reporters asked him to name his most favorite

book, his answer obviously was, Bhagavad Gita. (Website with

information on Trinity:

http://www.fas.org/nuke/hew/Usa/Tests/Trinity.html)

 

The bottom line of Gita's message is that the best way to express our

love and compassion is to act with the 'yagna spirit.' To get the full

understanding of love and compassion from the Gita perspective to

conduct a thorough enquiry and discussion on the following question:

"Why did the Lord advice Arjuna to fight the war with the attitude -

the destruction of the entire army of the opposition it is the most

compassionate act under the given circumstances."

 

warmest regards,

 

Ram Chandran

 

 

advaitin, "Ruben" <rubenn@p...> wrote:

> Dear friends,

>

> Two important facets of spirituality is Love and Compassion.

>

> We should have selfless love towards every being. How could one love

God, when

> one cannot love his brother?

>

> Another dimension to this is to have compassion towards the

suffering and to

> serve them. We should try alleviate the sufferings of the suffering.

>

> My question is:

>

> How does the Bhagavad Gita inspire us to do the above?

>

> Also, since this is the advaitin list, how does the advaitin

philosophy encourage "Love

> all, serve all"? Does the advaitin care not for his fellow beings

and their sufferings?

>

>

> --

> Warmest regards,

> Ruben V. M.

> rubenn@p...

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> >

> > Also, since this is the advaitin list, how does

> the advaitin

> philosophy encourage "Love

> > all, serve all"? Does the advaitin care not for

> his fellow beings

> and their sufferings?

> >

> >

 

Namaste Ruben ji,

 

If you look over the Training of Swami Vivekananda by

Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, there is an epsiode

wherein Sri Ramakrishna gives a discourse on

Vaishnavism and service to humanity.

At one time, Sri Ramakrishna says, one should show

compassion to all living beings and serve them.

Instantly, Sri Ramakrishna goes into Samadhi. When he

comes back to worldly consciouness, he is heard

muttering, "Compassion, lowly worm crawling on the

ground, Who are you to show compassion? No! It cannot

be compassion, but Worship. You worship the divinity

in all beings by serving them."

 

All this while, Narendra (Swami Vivekananda) was

hearing this strange discourse. He had that very same

question you had asked in His mind. How to reconcile

the ideal of service to mankind with the non-dualism

of Vedanta?

He found the answer in Sri Ramskrishna's blast.

You serve all beings seeing Brahman in them. That is

practical vedanta.

This episode transformed Narendra's life and He

preached the ideal of service to Humanity throughout

His life but at the same time kept the focus on

Advaita.

 

Regards,

Anand

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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About love and compassion.

 

I don't know how it is in India, but in the West there is a great suspicion of

"love and compassion" seen as a duty or as a noble goal to be aspired to.

This kind of "love and compassion" is often considered, and quite rightly in my

view, to be phoney. Now, if love and compassion arise spontaneously that is

altogether different. But if they don't arise spontaneously, if the reality is

fear and anger and "love and compassion" are smeared over the top of this

reality, the result is totally insincere and repulsively ugly. Something like a

Doris Day smile.

 

There is something absurd about a seeker after truth pretending to be loving and

compassionate when the fact is that his reality is very different. And there is

something especially absurd when someone who is interested in Advaita does it.

 

I would have thought that the first step for any truth seeker is to find out and

accept whatever is the case right now.

 

People who glorify "love and compassion" think that they know better than God,

they think that God made a mistake when She invented anger and hatred. What is

usually called "love and compassion" is nothing more than one part of the

movement of emotions between attraction and repulsion. Trying to have this sort

of "love and compassion" is like trying to be on a swing that only goes up and

never goes down.

 

Nor is it possible to get off the swing. But it is possible to see, even if only

as a glimpse, that who you are was never on the swing, (and I say this on my own

authority, I am not simply repeating something I've read in a book). If, after

this has been seen, some changes happen in the realm of swings and "persons" who

might or might not be on them, that is Her doing.

 

Trying to cultivate saintliness is both futile and ugly. The end result is what

we call in the West a plaster saint. Or, if the individual involved also has a

drinking problem, a plastered saint.

 

Cheers

Warwick

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Hari Om !!

 

 

advaitin, "Warwick Wakefield" <nomistake@o...> wrote:

> About love and compassion.

>

> I don't know how it is in India, but in the West there is a great

suspicion of "love and compassion" seen as a duty or as a noble goal

to be aspired to.

> This kind of "love and compassion" is often considered, and quite

rightly in my view, to be phoney. Now, if love and compassion arise

spontaneously that is altogether different. But if they don't arise

spontaneously, if the reality is fear and anger and "love and

compassion" are smeared over the top of this reality, the result is

totally insincere and repulsively ugly. Something like a Doris Day

smile.

>

> Trying to cultivate saintliness is both futile and ugly. The end

result is what we call in the West a plaster saint. Or, if the

individual involved also has a drinking problem, a plastered saint.

>

> Cheers

> Warwick

>

 

Is there one thing in human nature which is truly natural beyond the

urge to be Full and Happy ?

 

Is it not wise and prudent to make an effort to cultivate

saintliness ? Are those people not better than those who do not make

even that effort ?

 

Try and act in a drama as a King and see how at the end of several

rehearsals, your own traits get changed. Practice changes people my

friend. It is a blessing in disguise.

 

Once people start calling you, Revered Swami Warwick Ji, see how your

whole attitude will change, and how the transformation takes pleace.

 

Do I sound reasonable ?

 

Om Namo Narayanaya !!

 

Srikrishna

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Sri Krishnaji, Dear friend

 

thank you for your reply; it contains a definite flavour of sweetness.

 

But we disagree profoundly, and I think that, in this case, it is best to

recognise our difference and agree to disagree without any rancour.

 

May the Lord hold you in the palm of Her hand.

 

Warwick

 

Hari Om !!

 

 

Is there one thing in human nature which is truly natural beyond the

urge to be Full and Happy ?

 

Is it not wise and prudent to make an effort to cultivate

saintliness ? Are those people not better than those who do not make

even that effort ?

 

Try and act in a drama as a King and see how at the end of several

rehearsals, your own traits get changed. Practice changes people my

friend. It is a blessing in disguise.

 

Once people start calling you, Revered Swami Warwick Ji, see how your

whole attitude will change, and how the transformation takes pleace.

 

Do I sound reasonable ?

 

Om Namo Narayanaya !!

 

Srikrishna

 

 

 

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namaste. The following comments based on my understanding.

 

As long as the jIvA feeling is there, we take action to derive

happiness. That is, we are still bound to that seeking of happiness

as long as I-am-the-jIvA feeling persists.

 

Let us amalyze the jIvA's response to the following event, the

event being: the jIvA sees another human suffering.

 

I like to discuss the jIvA's response to this event in terms

of the jIvA's spiritual progress.

 

During the spiritual evolution of the jIvA, there are many

stages. At various stages, different responses come through.

The very early stage is when the jIvA is burdened by the

ariShaDvarga (kAma, krodha, lobha, moha, mada, mAtsarya) and

the first reaction of this-stage-jIvA to this event is "what

can I gain out of this?"

 

As the jIvA progresses in the spiritual journey, he/she becomes

more sAttvic and wants to improve his/her compassionate nature

and tone down the evil nature. The ego is still present. The

jIvA sees the event (of the fellow human suffering) and sees

an opportunity to improve his compassion. So, he/she consciously

helps the other person, with the ego still present and calculating

the pluses and minuses of this conscious helping of the other

person.

 

As the jIvA further progresses on the spiritual path, the ego's

hold on the jIvA becomes weaker and weaker. The jIvA's natural

reaction is much more sAttvic. In this spiritual mold, the event

will trigger a different type of response from the jIvA. The jIvA,

automatically and naturally (without any conscious or deliberate

attempt) goes to help the suffering person and there is no

deliberations of the positives and negative accruals to the jIvA.

This will be a spontaneous rather than a deliberate action.

 

In the final stages of the jIvA's spiritual journey, when the

ego's hold on the jIvA is completely gone, there is no separation

between the jIvA and the other person. I would assume, in that

stage, the jIvA (we are calling Him the jIvA, but He is not)

does not see any pain or lack of pain, does not see any happiness

or sadness. The earlier characteristic of the jIvA, the seeking

of happiness, is not there anymore. This entity sees things

unfolding as they should. In that stage, there will be no reaction.

 

What does the gItA teach in this respect? BhagavadgItA is a

teaching to a not-yet-realized samsAric genuinely-interested

student. It is not for a yogin who has reached the end-of-the-

spiritual-journey. That is why we have verses like

"karmaNyevaadhikaaraste maa phaleshhu kadaachana", which are

somewhat rare in the upanishads. Yet, the beauty of the

bhagavadgItA is we can still find verses which are pertinent

and practical advice for any occasion. Which verse we think

is an appropriate answer to the question at hand depends on

our stage of spiritual evolution.

 

Regards

Gummuluru Murthy

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According to advaita there is no love for others since there is no

others. In transactions the love for oneself translates to the love

for others. - aatmanasu kaamaaya sarvam priyam bhaviti says Br. Up.

- one loves others for ones own sake - love for oneself manifests as

love for others. Wife loves her husband since she loves herself -

her love for her husband is only translation of her love for herself

to be happy -Husband love wife only because he loves himself - No one

loves others or other object for others sake but only for ones sake.

 

If my finger goes into my eye by-mistake, I am not going to prosecute

that finger for hunting my eye. The same fingers will try to comfort

the eye from the hurt - all because the 'I-ness" extend to both eye

and the fingers.

 

In the same way when I have clear understanding that everything is

only mine and not different from me, the love of myself - I can not

but love myself since I am ananda swaruupa - that love for myself

extends all the way to 'so-called' others since since I have no clear

understanding that there "I-Ness" extends all the way and there is no

others - although it appears to be plurality - but that appearance is

only mere appearance and not a fact.

In fact true love for others and true compassion for others comes

only in the true understanding of the advaitic understanding.

 

Hari Om!

Sadananda

 

 

 

>Dear friends,

>

>Two important facets of spirituality is Love and Compassion.

>

>We should have selfless love towards every being. How could one love God, when

>one cannot love his brother?

>

>Another dimension to this is to have compassion towards the suffering and to

>serve them. We should try alleviate the sufferings of the suffering.

>

>My question is:

>

>How does the Bhagavad Gita inspire us to do the above?

>

>Also, since this is the advaitin list, how does the advaitin

>philosophy encourage "Love

>all, serve all"? Does the advaitin care not for his fellow beings

>and their sufferings?

>

>

>--

>Warmest regards,

>Ruben V. M.

>rubenn

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--- "K. Sadananda" <sada wrote:

> According to advaita there is no love for others

> since there is no

> others. In transactions the love for oneself

> translates to the love

> for others. - aatmanasu kaamaaya sarvam priyam

> bhaviti says Br. Up.

> - one loves others for ones own sake - love for

> oneself manifests as

> love for others.

 

 

Namaste Sada and Others ( who are not others really

but we had better not start that one again)

 

There is a wonderful Br. Up. verse 4.3.21 which

includes the following:

'As a man fully embraced by his dear wife knows

nothing external or internal, even so this infinite

entity fully embraced by the Supreme Self knows

nothing external nor internal. That indeed is his

form...in which all objects have been realised, in

which they have become the self, and which is devoid

of desire and beyond grief.'

 

I was very surprised when I met this verse for the

first time as it seemed to un-upanishadic as it gave

me a very recognisable symbol from common experience

to represent the transcendent.

We may replace, I think, the last few words with love

and compassion. This does not mean that love and

compassion may not appear as players on the stage as

you will know when embracing your baby daughter. It is

just that there is that which utterly transcends such

attributes.

Last evening we had a Rumi study session and I offered

the following to the group for discussion:

'When a man has attained to union, the go-between

becomes worthless to him.

Since you have reached the object of your search, O

elegant one, the search for knowledge has now become

evil.

Since you have mounted to the roofs of heaven, it

would be futile to seek a ladder.

After having attained to felicity, the way that leads

to felicity is worthless escept for the sake of

helping and teaching others.

The shining mirror, which has been cleansed and

perfect, it would be a folly to apply a burnisher to

it.

Seated happily beside the Sultan and in favour with

him, it would be disgraceful to seek letter and

messenger.'

Mathnavi 3. 1400-1405

 

It is our way to seek the lamps, the attributes of

compassion etc. and such efforts are valid in their

sincerity, I believe, but we tend sometimes to seek

the lamps and not the light that lights all lamps.

The Br.Up helps us understand and prevents us from

making fixed idols out of the attributes.

Om sri ram

 

Ken Knight

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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