Guest guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 Date : 01/06/2001 Jai Guru Dev ! Rule : "ONE SHOULD REMAIN CELIBATE" during Sadhna. Whether the above rule is for any SPECIAL SADHNAS or it is also for "DAINIK GURU SADHNA" for a Grahasath Sadhak. Since "DAINIK GURU SADHNA" is a Lifetime Sadhna and if a Grahasath Person who takes Gurudiksha and daily performs "DAINIK GURU SADHNA" and don't perform any other sadhna then whether he SHOULD REMAIN CELIBATE or NOT. If he should remain celibate then what will be the difference between SANYASI and GRAHASATH sadhak because if he is Grahasath then one day his CELIBACY will must break whereas "Dainik Guru Sadhna" is Full Life Sadhna. Please guide me soon. Regards, Sanjay Dudeja Get personalized email addresses from Mail - only $35 a year! http://personal.mail./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 YOU ARE ALLOWED TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO WITH YOUR WIFE (ONLY) IF YOU ARE DOING ONLY DAINIK GURU SADHNA. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO REMAIN CELIBATE so go and have loads of fun!! IF I KEEP READING THIS DISCUSSION LIST AND LAUGHING, All MY ATTEMPTS TO CONTROL MY MIND AND DO SADHNAS WILL GO DOWN THE DRAIN. JAI GURUDEV ps: please pray to GURUDEV FOR MY SAFETY. SOMEONE MAY DO A MARAN PRAYOG ON ME OUT OF ANGER. BUT DO YOU HAVE TO REMAIN CELIBATE FOR THAT??? OK dear brothers, Good luck. See you after a short break love jai GURUDEV anu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 -dear brother sanjay, i am sorry if i was rude. i repeat my offer to you. send me your phone no. and the time available, and i will request either shrivastav uncle or shastriji to call you directly, and solve all your difficulties. sorry cannot do more for you. GURUJI is there to hold your hand and guide you. YOU are putting so much effort, are so careful not to make mistakes. That is enough. may you get success in whatever your aim is by the grace of our GURU, and the almighty. jai GURUDEV best wishes and affection anu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 JAI GURUDEV Dear Sanjay... According to Guruji's book 'Mantra Rahasya' and 'Gherand Sanhita', you are allowed to have sex with your wife if you are not performing any special Sadhana. You'll still be considered celibate. YOUR CELIBACY WILL NOT BE BROKEN IF YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR MARRIED LIFE WITH YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ENJOY YOUR MARRIED LIFE EVEN IF YOU ARE PERFORMING GURU PUJAN OR ANY OTHER POOJAN OR ANY MILD SADHANA. I suggest contacting Gurudham before starting any special sadhana. You also don't need, at all, to grow beard and mustache. You are allowed to trim them when you want, as you want. If you still have any doubt, contact Gurudham. If you feel I am being rude, kindly forgive me. If you feel I helped you, don't forget to thank me If any member of this group feels offended, kindly forgive me. Have a nice day. Ashish Marathe CEO, Twarit Technologies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 Jai Gurudev! Dear Gurubhaiyas! The purpose of observing celibacy is to have complete concentration during the period of Sadhana and nothing else. Even if you eat more and sit for sadhana, you tend to sleep and will forget the chanting of mantras. Moreover, if you eat spicy items, they will divert your attention and lot of trouble will be there in the stomach to divert you from the sadhana. If this is the case with over eating, you can very well imagine with other activities. Celibacy is needed only at the time of performing Sadhana and you can be as usual after performing the sadhana. G Sankaran --- Ashish Marathe <nikhilashish wrote: <HR> <html><body> <tt> JAI GURUDEV<BR> Dear Sanjay...<BR> <BR> According to Guruji's book 'Mantra Rahasya' and 'Gherand Sanhita', <BR> you are allowed to have sex with your wife if you are not performing <BR> any special Sadhana. You'll still be considered celibate. YOUR <BR> CELIBACY WILL NOT BE BROKEN IF YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR MARRIED LIFE <BR> WITH YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ENJOY YOUR MARRIED LIFE EVEN IF <BR> YOU ARE PERFORMING GURU PUJAN OR ANY OTHER POOJAN OR ANY MILD <BR> SADHANA. I suggest contacting Gurudham before starting any special <BR> sadhana.<BR> <BR> You also don't need, at all, to grow beard and mustache. You are <BR> allowed to trim them when you want, as you want.<BR> <BR> If you still have any doubt, contact Gurudham. If you feel I am being <BR> rude, kindly forgive me. If you feel I helped you, don't forget to <BR> thank me <BR> <BR> If any member of this group feels offended, kindly forgive me.<BR> <BR> Have a nice day.<BR> <BR> Ashish Marathe<BR> CEO, Twarit Technologies<BR> <BR> </tt> <br> <!-- |**|begin egp html banner|**| --> <table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=2> <tr bgcolor=#FFFFCC> <td align=center><font size="-1" color=#003399><b> Sponsor</b></font></td> </tr> <tr bgcolor=#FFFFFF> <td width=470><a href="http://rd./M=201903.1435627.3015748.304267/D=egroupmail/S=1700077\ 360:N/A=662183/?of Service</a>.</tt> </br> </body></html> __________ Get your free @.co.uk address at http://mail..co.uk or your free @.ie address at http://mail..ie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2001 Report Share Posted June 2, 2001 JAY GURUDEV DEAR ASHISHJI, I AM VERY HAPPY TO RECD. YOUR MAIL. BECAUSE I ALWAYS DOUBT WHEN I ENJOY MY MARRIAGE LIFE. AT MORNING I THINK HOW I DO POOJAN BECAUSE OF ENJOYING MARRIAGE LIFE. BUT I READ THAT THIS IS ALLOWED. THANKS DEEPAK - Ashish Marathe Saturday, June 02, 2001 12:05 AM Re: Rule : To Maintain Celibacy JAI GURUDEVDear Sanjay...According to Guruji's book 'Mantra Rahasya' and 'Gherand Sanhita', you are allowed to have sex with your wife if you are not performing any special Sadhana. You'll still be considered celibate. YOUR CELIBACY WILL NOT BE BROKEN IF YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR MARRIED LIFE WITH YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ENJOY YOUR MARRIED LIFE EVEN IF YOU ARE PERFORMING GURU PUJAN OR ANY OTHER POOJAN OR ANY MILD SADHANA. I suggest contacting Gurudham before starting any special sadhana.You also don't need, at all, to grow beard and mustache. You are allowed to trim them when you want, as you want.If you still have any doubt, contact Gurudham. If you feel I am being rude, kindly forgive me. If you feel I helped you, don't forget to thank me :)If any member of this group feels offended, kindly forgive me.Have a nice day.Ashish MaratheCEO, Twarit TechnologiesJay GurudevYour use of is subject to the Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2001 Report Share Posted June 2, 2001 sankarn "vriya" is something very imp. When it flows down it's the animal life when it flows upward its the life of enlightened one. In kundalini awakening the energy stored in vriya is made to move upwards and padmaasan helps in this. When some sadhana is performed mantra has to activate some chakraas and concerned naadis. Without the enough energy in one how will these chakraas get awakened. A friend who is a learned scholar n a great devotee said something like what can one do with a unloaded gun. When aimed at right aim with right bullet things do happen. It is said that the pleasure experienced in "sambhog" is comparable to enlightment. But the pleasure here is short lived n that in enlightment is for ever n much more sweeter n balanced. Uncelibate life will take one to the doors of death soon. Vriya is the vitality of the body. Now the wise will tap the vriya in the right way n get the pleasure too. Swami vivekananda has said if union with one body gives this much pleasure think of the pleasure that u will get when u get united with all bodies. Sankaran uncelibacy , spicy food n all affect body n mind both. Body n mind r linked to each other. Body affects mind and mind affects body. Enlightment is nothing but the unfolding of the puzzled mind. In kundalini awakening its the mind that goes through transformation and one gets transformed in to enlightened one. But for the celibate life both husband n wife should agree. if one disagrees and wants to lead a uncelibate life the other should support the one and through knowledge transform the life partner slowly. Shree Ramkrishna Paramhansa has said u be devoted leave rest to God your life partner will also change. I believe if one has lust towards ones wife even then its a lust. One has to conquer lust to know oneself and to be come someone like Himalayas that stands up straight looking in to the eyes of the universe. Look at children why r they filled with so much zeal, energy, piousness, purity, shine, innocence, ethics. One great reason behind this is celibacy. How come Bhishma Pitamaha had some much energy even when he was old n fought like anything even when he aged a lot. Vriya contains the "ojas" ( the light of life ). If ones lives a celibate life nothin like that. Otherwise one can just practise celibacy during sadhana. Some imp. sadhanas mention specifically that one needs to be celibate. If there is any issue regarding celibacy its mentioned in the sadhana vidhi. On Fri, 1 Jun 2001, [iso-8859-1] gopalan sankaran wrote: > Jai Gurudev! > > Dear Gurubhaiyas! > > The purpose of observing celibacy is to have complete > concentration during the period of Sadhana and nothing > else. Even if you eat more and sit for sadhana, you > tend to sleep and will forget the chanting of mantras. > Moreover, if you eat spicy items, they will divert > your attention and lot of trouble will be there in the > stomach to divert you from the sadhana. If this is > the case with over eating, you can very well imagine > with other activities. Celibacy is needed only > at the time of performing Sadhana and you can be as > usual after performing the sadhana. > > G Sankaran > > --- Ashish Marathe <nikhilashish wrote: > <HR> > <html><body> > <tt> > JAI GURUDEV<BR> > Dear Sanjay...<BR> > <BR> > According to Guruji's book 'Mantra Rahasya' and > 'Gherand Sanhita', <BR> > you are allowed to have sex with your wife if you are > not performing <BR> > any special Sadhana. You'll still be considered > celibate. YOUR <BR> > CELIBACY WILL NOT BE BROKEN IF YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR > MARRIED LIFE <BR> > WITH YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ENJOY YOUR MARRIED > LIFE EVEN IF <BR> > YOU ARE PERFORMING GURU PUJAN OR ANY OTHER POOJAN OR > ANY MILD <BR> > SADHANA. I suggest contacting Gurudham before starting > any special <BR> > sadhana.<BR> > <BR> > You also don't need, at all, to grow beard and > mustache. You are <BR> > allowed to trim them when you want, as you want.<BR> > <BR> > If you still have any doubt, contact Gurudham. If you > feel I am being <BR> > rude, kindly forgive me. If you feel I helped you, > don't forget to <BR> > thank me <BR> > <BR> > If any member of this group feels offended, kindly > forgive me.<BR> > <BR> > Have a nice day.<BR> > <BR> > Ashish Marathe<BR> > CEO, Twarit Technologies<BR> > <BR> > </tt> > > <br> > > <!-- |**|begin egp html banner|**| --> > > <table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=2> > <tr bgcolor=#FFFFCC> > <td align=center><font size="-1" > color=#003399><b> Sponsor</b></font></td> > </tr> > <tr bgcolor=#FFFFFF> > <td width=470><a > href="http://rd./M=201903.1435627.3015748.304267/D=egroupmail/S=1700077\ 360:N/A=662183/?> of Service</a>.</tt> > </br> > > </body></html> > > > > __________ > > Get your free @.co.uk address at http://mail..co.uk > or your free @.ie address at http://mail..ie > > Jay Gurudev > > > > > > Your use of is subject to > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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