Help

September 11, 2003

Hi everybody,

Iam new to this group, actually i was told bout this group by one of my friend

who herself is also a memeber of this group, as i am in a problem & need help

my problem is that 5 yrs back aguy proposed me & at that time i didnt replied

him & he thought my answer was no after that not even i tried to tell him that

even i like him,actually i myself was not sure of my feelings, but now since

he is getting engaged to someone else & i to someone else i relised that i

love him very much & wants him back in my life , but dont hav that much

courage to tel him, and i also feel that he is annoyed at me since he feel that

i hev rejected him but it was not so.pls pls help me out, tell me some mantra

that can bring him back in my life. laso wants to know if there is any body who

can halp me out i mean any disciple of gurudev in delhi on whom i can be sure

that he will honestly help me. please reply soon before he & I gets

engaged.

Saba....

September 11, 2003

, saba khan <saba12_khan> wrote:

Hi Sister Saba

I could not get the whole clear picture. Yet I write as per my

understanding. The best way is talk straight out. Though you should

have talked back earlier, even now it is not too late. Luckily you

have chance as you are not yet married. You must talk to that guy as

he has taken initiative to propose and you need him. If you have

somebody on whom you could confide your love, you could ask that

person to talk to your parents on what you want. I understand that

guy is engaged. Still you can get your way by talking to him trusting

completely God and Gurudev.

The adage that love requires courage stands true always. Also

the Mantras and Sadhanas we are to do are for giving us courage to

claim what we want in life or what we choose to do in our life so

long as it does not harm others. This is my view on Mantras and

Sadhanas. Understand that in what you are doing you are not alone.

Gurudev is always with you to help you get what you want so long as

it does not harm anyone else.

Mahadevan Venkitaraman

> Hi everybody,

> Iam new to this group, actually i was told bout this group by one

of my friend who herself is also a memeber of this group, as i am in

a problem & need help my problem is that 5 yrs back aguy proposed me

& at that time i didnt replied him & he thought my answer was no

after that not even i tried to tell him that even i like him,actually

i myself was not sure of my feelings, but now since he is getting

engaged to someone else & i to someone else i relised that i love

him very much & wants him back in my life , but dont hav that much

courage to tel him, and i also feel that he is annoyed at me since he

feel that i hev rejected him but it was not so.pls pls help me out,

tell me some mantra that can bring him back in my life. laso wants to

know if there is any body who can halp me out i mean any disciple of

gurudev in delhi on whom i can be sure that he will honestly help me.

please reply soon before he & I gets engaged.

>

> Saba....

>

September 11, 2003

Hi,

As you told that that you both are going to engage with some one else.

This is the best time to express your feelings and ask for apologies

and tell him all the events whatever has happened previously before

it is too late.We should try Mantra shadhana for solving any material

problem at the end, first we should physically resolve.

Though there are hundreds of mantras exist to solve your problem.

Jai GuruDev