I am embaressed to talk about this.. but have to ask this question? please a

September 2, 2004

Dear D.P. Singhji,

Its a natural phenomena! Anyone who is doing a shakt sadhna feels the

energy and heat rising in his body. It is a good sign that the level

of energy is rising, but then the physical energy in an adult also

flows in teh form of sexual energy which has a natural tendency to go

downward. When this thrust increases, the sadhak's mind gets more

attracted towards this downward flow of energy and even if he tried

hard not to think about any lustful things, his subconcious mind keeps

on dragging him there. As a result the mind at on point or the other

gives in to the pleasures of feelings. The sadhak then may even suffer

ejaculations in dreams etc.

There are two keys to controlling this. One is - increase your

physical activity - pranayam, and hath yoga and also loud chanting of

'beej mantras' if you need to. Another and the most important thing is

your mind control. Subconcious mind exepts usually the activities that

you indulge into conciously during day time. Keep a good watch on your

thoughts! If you see any lustful picture, film or some thought - just

don't entertain it!! wthdraw your mind immediately from it. Keep your

spinal cord straigth and concentrate on muladhar. There is also an

important exercise that Bade Gurudav used to do with us that is lift

and pull your arms skywards as much as you can, look towards the sky

and loudly recite OM. This tremendously helps in getting your downward

going conciousness and energy to shoot up and rise up instead of

going downwards. This will also enhance further your personality!

As a last resort, if you do feel a lot of excitement, you should jump

with both feet and knees coming up as high as you can standing at the

same place. There is also an important accupressure point little above

your tail bone that helps maintain your celibacy. That's why sadhaks

give prime importance to celibacy during the sadhnas and otherwise too.

Some yogis use this method also - as soon as your mind starts having

lustful thoughts, concentrate on agya chakra and bring Gurudev's

picture there or Lord Shiva's picture or Bajrangbali's picture and

belive that he is there and looking at you! All thoughts will vanish

instantly. You can also imagine a detailed vision of 'cremation

grounds with burning corps.

Hope that helps the situation, my friend. Wish you luck!

Jai Gurudev!!

Nitesh Dhawan

, Dhirendra Pal Singh <dp_singh@s...>

wrote:

>

> Hi All,

>

> I have noticed that, the more I do any kind of mantra jap, meditation,

> the more is the increase in my sexual desire.

> I am very upset and frustrated about it. Dont know what to do or what

> can I do?

>

> Is this normal, and a lot of other sadhaks have faced it, or is it my

> previous life baggage I have to get rid off.

>

> Also any solutions to this problem.

>

> Would really appreciate any comments on this...

>

> Jai Gurudev

>

> Thanks and Reagrds

> Dp

September 3, 2004

this case may also mean the activation of the kundalini in a situation where the

sadhak is not yet ready for it. thus such a situation may be dangerous and have

such effects. Learned members may further advise on the issue.

- Prakash

-

writemail1

Thursday, September 02, 2004 7:12 PM

Re: I am embaressed to talk about this.. but have to ask this question? please a

Dear D.P. Singhji,Its a natural phenomena! Anyone who is doing a shakt sadhna

feels theenergy and heat rising in his body. It is a good sign that the levelof

energy is rising, but then the physical energy in an adult alsoflows in teh form

of sexual energy which has a natural tendency to godownward. When this thrust

increases, the sadhak's mind gets moreattracted towards this downward flow of

energy and even if he triedhard not to think about any lustful things, his

subconcious mind keepson dragging him there. As a result the mind at on point

or the othergives in to the pleasures of feelings. The sadhak then may even

sufferejaculations in dreams etc. There are two keys to controlling this. One

is - increase yourphysical activity - pranayam, and hath yoga and also loud

chanting of'beej mantras' if you need to. Another and the most important thing

isyour mind control. Subconcious mind exepts usually the activities thatyou

indulge into conciously during day time. Keep a good watch on yourthoughts! If

you see any lustful picture, film or some thought - justdon't entertain it!!

wthdraw your mind immediately from it. Keep yourspinal cord straigth and

concentrate on muladhar. There is also animportant exercise that Bade Gurudav

used to do with us that is liftand pull your arms skywards as much as you can,

look towards the skyand loudly recite OM. This tremendously helps in getting

your downwardgoing conciousness and energy to shoot up and rise up instead

ofgoing downwards. This will also enhance further your personality! As a last

resort, if you do feel a lot of excitement, you should jumpwith both feet and

knees coming up as high as you can standing at thesame place. There is also an

important accupressure point little aboveyour tail bone that helps maintain

your celibacy. That's why sadhaksgive prime importance to celibacy during the

sadhnas and otherwise too.Some yogis use this method also - as soon as your

mind starts havinglustful thoughts, concentrate on agya chakra and bring

Gurudev'spicture there or Lord Shiva's picture or Bajrangbali's picture

andbelive that he is there and looking at you! All thoughts will

vanishinstantly. You can also imagine a detailed vision of 'cremationgrounds

with burning corps. Hope that helps the situation, my friend. Wish you luck!Jai

Gurudev!!Nitesh Dhawan, Dhirendra Pal Singh

<dp_singh@s...>wrote:> > Hi All,> > I have noticed that, the more I do any kind

of mantra jap, meditation, > the more is the increase in my sexual desire.> I am

very upset and frustrated about it. Dont know what to do or what > can I do?> >

Is this normal, and a lot of other sadhaks have faced it, or is it my >

previous life baggage I have to get rid off.> > Also any solutions to this

problem.> > Would really appreciate any comments on this...> > Jai Gurudev> >

Thanks and Reagrds> DpJay Gurudev

September 5, 2004

Thanks a ton Nitesh ji...

While sitting normally I just tried "detailed vision of 'cremation

grounds with burning corps".. and man this thing works... works great..

It scares me.. and off course my brain gets streamlined..

Once agian.. thanks a lot

Regrads

Dp

writemail1 wrote: