How to develop faith ?

[Guest guest]

what ever I had wanted to acheive in my life I never got it..not even my soulmate.

 

I know Its a sin to say like this for a married lady but somehow I am realizing

that my husband is not my soul mate...Ofcourse I dont know who is my soulmate..

bcoz I dont have any person in my life except him..

Infact I am also not happy with my life ..I have also tried once to finish it up..

I cant say that I dont beleive in GOD but soemtimes I do have doubt on his

existance...I just think that why is he so unfair to me...I had never tried to

hurt or cheat anyone..i had never done anything wrong intentionally...so why am

suffering emotionally since last 18 years and I dont know how much years am

going to suffer like this ??

I had always obeyed to my parents..had always cared my younger sister ..always

given respect to my relatives and friends..so where am I went wrong to be

suffered like this.

 

few months back I met one of my uncle who advised me to choose the spiritual way

to get rid of my all sufferings..then I took guru dikshya and started chanting

guru mantra..

Intially I felt very good..but now a days again back to the same old

stage..infact I have also started loosing faith on this things...

Infact nothing good is happening to me ...thats why I think am loosing faith

I dont know what to do ..am totally confused...please help me...I really need help.

I dont want to destroy my life as well as others who are associetaed with me...

 

PLEASE HELP ME !!

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Two points

 

Suggest take - Guru hridaya darana diksha.. and do more of guru mantra

Read - How to stop worry and start living - by Dale carnegie..

 

if you can not afford above diksha, please retake guru diksha direct/photo

it will give positive enery to with stand the difficult time...

 

Regads, Chandra.Do You

?

 

[Guest guest]

, debajani majhi

<debajani_majhi> wrote:

> Thanks for your positive inputs.

>

> But I have taken the guru diksha by photo only.

>

> Regards

> Debajani

>

 

 

debajani

i am up early. I have been toying with the idea of writing to you at

. but there is no way I can talk about this issue soul

mates without bringing in my own relation with God as well as

several intense personal experiences in. i am unwilling to do it for

strangers on the web.

 

So i will just ask you a question. I read about mswati, the swazi

king who took in, i think, his 12th wife a teenager. 20000 girls

danced for him wearing only a read

and bare breasted hoping to be noticed by the king. One such girl

was interviewed. She was very poor, fed up of hunger the water

leaking in through the roof. Her hopes of abetter life pinned on

being noticed by the king.

Whats your opinion dear sir/madam? Does this girl have a soul mate

or are you the only privileged one. Lets hear your concept of

soulmates first. Please do not take my mails which may get harsher

as negative, also they may not be regular. I saw a good soul in you

and that is why have been compelled to talk.

God bless you.

Jai Gurudev

anu

[Guest guest]

Sisters Debajani, Anu, Other GuruBhais and Guru Bahens

Jai Guru Dev

I read through the mails by both of you, the replies from other

Guru Bhais. I have my own point to say on this process.

 

My own experience also could say something. My wife had been my

soul favourite may be because she had been the person who understood

me the most in this life. But she passed away just after nine years

of my marriage (two months before) and I really felt very bad and

immobilised. But that is not the reason to say that I should lose my

faith in Guru or God. In fact I visit Mata Amritanandamayi (a

spiritual master from Kerala) in every opportunity. And I did the

same. One thing I understand is in life you have to go through many

adversities and how you get through them through your faith in God

and become successful determines the quality of your life. Neither

are you going to get problems which are unsolvable. Every successful

person had to go through all sorts of troubles.

 

Debjani: For you also only point I would say is have unshakeable

faith in Guru and continue chanting Guru mantra. When adversities

happen all that it means is you are losing some more of backlogs of

previous Karma. For developing faith, one way is understand there is

nothing wrong with you and love yourself. As Anu said there are many

people who are going through troubles. Guru is always with you and

eventually you will see your life become better.

 

Regards,

 

mahadevan venkitaraman

 

 

, "devi_bhagat" <devi_bhagat>

wrote:

> , debajani majhi

> <debajani_majhi> wrote:

> > Thanks for your positive inputs.

> >

> > But I have taken the guru diksha by photo only.

> >

> > Regards

> > Debajani

> >

>

>

> debajani

> i am up early. I have been toying with the idea of writing to you

at

> . but there is no way I can talk about this issue soul

> mates without bringing in my own relation with God as well as

> several intense personal experiences in. i am unwilling to do it

for

> strangers on the web.

>

> So i will just ask you a question. I read about mswati, the swazi

> king who took in, i think, his 12th wife a teenager. 20000 girls

> danced for him wearing only a read

> and bare breasted hoping to be noticed by the king. One such girl

> was interviewed. She was very poor, fed up of hunger the water

> leaking in through the roof. Her hopes of abetter life pinned on

> being noticed by the king.

> Whats your opinion dear sir/madam? Does this girl have a soul mate

> or are you the only privileged one. Lets hear your concept of

> soulmates first. Please do not take my mails which may get harsher

> as negative, also they may not be regular. I saw a good soul in you

> and that is why have been compelled to talk.

> God bless you.

> Jai Gurudev

> anu

[Guest guest]

A sincere prayer will certainly be answered. If your prayer is not

answered, don't blame God for that. It simply means that you have not

prayed enough. It's not just a question of the length of time. You

may be praying for ten years and get nothing. Somebody else might

pray for one minute and get everything. So the quality of the prayer

is the important thing, how honestly, how sincerely you pray.

 

Suppose that even a whole-hearted prayer doesn't get answered. Then

the question is, did you pray with total faith? If you offer a prayer

with absolute faith in God, and if the prayer is not answered, will

you lose that faith? It is true that all of your sincere prayers will

be answered, but that does not mean you will necessarily be given

what you want. The answer might be: "It's no good for you, my child.

However much you cry, I can't give that to you because it will hurt

you. Without knowing how to use it, you may hurt others also. It's

dangerous." If you understand that and accept it, you prove that you

trust in God.

 

Don't just trust in God when you get everything. If, out of one

hundred requests, ninety-nine are denied, you should still have that

faith. That will eventually lead you to a higher form of prayer where

you don't request anything. You simply say, "Why should I ask You?

The fact that I am asking You means that I think You don't know what

I need. How ignorant I am. You know what is good for me; You know

what is not good for me. Do whatever You want. Why am I even asking

for something? Maybe You made me ask. Even the asking seems to be

Your prompting. Because You wanted me to ask, I am asking. Still, I

leave it to You to give it or not. Maybe You asked me to ask You;

then You are going to say 'no' to see whether I will accept it or

not. Okay, I am ready for that also." Just remember that God always

gives whatever is necessary for you. If you have faith, it's no

problem at all.

 

The great Saint Ramalingam prayed to the Lord: "You are feeding me; I

am fed. You are making me sleep; I am sleeping. You are showing me; I

am seeing. You are making me happy; I am happy. And not only me --

the entire universe is like that. You are the One behind every

movement, every experience." If you want to have a prayer, pray to

God to help you to always remember this Truth: that you are His child

and He is taking care of you every minute.

 

chinmasta

 

 

, debajani majhi <debajani_majhi>

wrote:

> I am very much confused ...

> what ever I had wanted to acheive in my life I never got it..not

even my soulmate.

>

> I know Its a sin to say like this for a married lady but somehow I

am realizing that my husband is not my soul mate...Ofcourse I dont

know who is my soulmate.. bcoz I dont have any person in my life

except him..

> Infact I am also not happy with my life ..I have also tried once to

finish it up..

> I cant say that I dont beleive in GOD but soemtimes I do have doubt

on his existance...I just think that why is he so unfair to me...I

had never tried to hurt or cheat anyone..i had never done anything

wrong intentionally...so why am suffering emotionally since last 18

years and I dont know how much years am going to suffer like this ??

> I had always obeyed to my parents..had always cared my younger

sister ..always given respect to my relatives and friends..so where

am I went wrong to be suffered like this.

>

> few months back I met one of my uncle who advised me to choose the

spiritual way to get rid of my all sufferings..then I took guru

dikshya and started chanting guru mantra..

> Intially I felt very good..but now a days again back to the same

old stage..infact I have also started loosing faith on this things...

> Infact nothing good is happening to me ...thats why I think am

loosing faith

> I dont know what to do ..am totally confused...please help me...I

really need help.

> I dont want to destroy my life as well as others who are

associetaed with me...

>

> PLEASE HELP ME !!

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I Remember your messages couple of years back. i hope you have adjusted with your married life. Remember though marriages are made in heaven but we on earth make it successful. No life is easy and everyone have their unique challenges, a person who strives through the harsh part can be a real survival. Its easy to compare with someone happy without a clue that they must have also experienced many challenges or its easy to listen to friends who can guide us through but remember when we live with the same friend day in and out and place our stake in them we see the reality and difference and once again its challenging.Never compare.May be i sound like preaching but this is through my personal experience, once we have financial independence we get less tolerance to things and its easy to break up but its difficult to sustain through the scar.No relation is unworkable if you love your spouse unconditionally he will be bound to reciprocate, mark my words!

Wish you a happy married life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

what ever I had wanted to acheive in my life I never got it..not even my soulmate.

 

I know Its a sin to say like this for a married lady but somehow I am realizing

that my husband is not my soul mate...Ofcourse I dont know who is my soulmate..

bcoz I dont have any person in my life except him..

Infact I am also not happy with my life ..I have also tried once to finish it up..

I cant say that I dont beleive in GOD but soemtimes I do have doubt on his

existance...I just think that why is he so unfair to me...I had never tried to

hurt or cheat anyone..i had never done anything wrong intentionally...so why am

suffering emotionally since last 18 years and I dont know how much years am

going to suffer like this ??

I had always obeyed to my parents..had always cared my younger sister ..always

given respect to my relatives and friends..so where am I went wrong to be

suffered like this.

 

few months back I met one of my uncle who advised me to choose the spiritual way

to get rid of my all sufferings..then I took guru dikshya and started chanting

guru mantra..

Intially I felt very good..but now a days again back to the same old

stage..infact I have also started loosing faith on this things...

Infact nothing good is happening to me ...thats why I think am loosing faith

I dont know what to do ..am totally confused...please help me...I really need help.

I dont want to destroy my life as well as others who are associetaed with me...

 

PLEASE HELP ME !!