Guest guest Posted July 5, 2005 Report Share Posted July 5, 2005 Thoughts presented here are assimilation of thoughts,opinions and quotes collected from various sadhaks. The common thread exists in all, although there may be lack of continuity in writing this mail. Om Nikhileshwaraye Namah Om Gam Ganpatye Namah Om Nikhileshwaraye Namah Before we say anything on this subject we would like to make sadhaks aware of an important information from the point of view of progressing in sadhnas. This has been mentioned many times in the MTYV magazine by Gurudev. "In the field of sadhnas there is no difference between a man or a woman, therefore a sadhak/sadhika should not keep any false pride of belonging to a particular sex when doing sadhnas". These words of Gurudev are eternal torchlight for the sadhaks to stop them wavering from their path of sadhna. If you just spend a few moments on pondering over these lines, you will always find many answers to dichotomy of thoughts which you face while doing sadhnas. " If women have been barred from doing sadhna on some particular days then it has been done to preserve their dignity, not to insult them or their sexuality." These lines are said by renowned sadhak of Gurudev in an article on Bhairavi in MTYV magzine which explains about finer and surreal emotions of a woman as a mother. The article unlocks many prejudices in the mind of a person who looks woman only as objects of consumption. " Every woman is physical form of Jagdamba". This line can be understood when a person have divine blessings of Gurudev. Oridinarily aperson is always confused by reading this line. Mother,Sister, Lover, Wife, Daughter etc. all are women. A person has different realtioship with all of them. A complete person is one who is able to manage his all realtioships and still be able to keep himself aloof from all bondages which come with these relatioships and move on the path of his life as shown by his Guru. This is impossible without the help of Guru. What is "help of Guru"? It is the knowledge of Guru in the form of discourses,mantra,sadhna,deekshas and many more forms which are not perceptible to a disciple but they come from Gurudev without the disciple ever realising it at that particular moment. In book written by Gurudev called "Tantrik Siddhiyan" , you may read about the deatils of sadhnas where sadhaks getting siddhi of Sri Bagalamukhi and Sri Tara by realising them as their lovers. The readers should bear in mind that they were doing sadhna after taking direct instructions in person from Gurudev. Gurudev had explained them many finer points about that sadhna. Therefore sadhaks should not take results of particular sadhna as general benchmark for realisation and act as per psersonal advice of Guru if they want to replicate those sadhanas. It is impossible to understand them without doing sadhnas after taking Gurudeeksha and contantly moving on this path with patience, dedication and devotion to Gurudev and His knowledge. Shakti of Jagdamba is present in men also. After all they are also sons of Jagdamba. Jagdamba's physical from is associated with women because of finer emotional nature associated with selfless love emanating from the heart is more prevalent in a woman than man. Shakti's representation as a woman signifies that shakti (Power in every form-Physical,Intelligence & Material) belongs to persons who is free from jealousy,anger,fear etc. transitory emotions and has only one ever conscious emotion of love. "When Gurudev say that to realise me in yourself you have to become woman then they mean by developing emotional side of heart which is associated with love. They do not mean a man to copy the outward mannerism and behaviour of woman." These lines are said by Gurudev and you may have read these many times in MTYV magazine and other books of Gurudev. Therefore outward represenation of Shakti in different forms have specific meaning which can be understood by sadhkas only. Others just spend their time doing bhajan-kirtan. A sadhak not only understands the meaning but imbibe it into heart and soul thereby deriving full protection by surrendering himself to the shakti which is none other than Guru. Surrendering to shakti is not an "unmanly" or "cowardly" act if taken in the context of sadhnas. Modern philosophy and western thought has thoroughly propogated various myths about courageous and macho behaviour in men. They just can not digest the fact that woman is central to human existense. This thought makes them feel very uncomfortable.To fight this thought their mind evolved different theories to overcome the hidden feeling of guilt and loss of self respect. How can be men the "great warriors", the "heroes" of human civilisation can owe their whole progress to "delicate" and "weak" women ? So to counter this they evolved different theories like Sigmund frued said about Indians. "Indian men are fixated with their thoughts and emotions towards their mothers". I am quoting these lines as said by Mulk Raj Anand, a noted English language writer, who died recently. He happened to consult Frued during one of his trips abroad and sought counselling from for his disturbrd state of mind. Whether Mulk Raj Anand agreed with Frued or not it was not mentioned in the article. Considering the contempt Mulk Raj had for Indian males we can make fair guess about his concurrence with the thoughts of Frued. Mulk Raj considered Indian males as "half males" as they do not know the finer aspects of love making. You will find large number of theories of psychology trying to decipher human mind. They have just one common goal. To overcome the feeling of uncertainty and vulnerabality. When a person can define a particular thing he feels comfortable about it. As soon as something goes beyond his general understanding or conventional logic and reasoning he starts feeling all kinds of emotions like fear, pretense,anger etc. He wants to define the thing so that he knows everything about its furture behaviour. If he can define something then he gets a snese of "control" and "power". If they continue to evolve psychology in the same a manner then they will never be able to achieve their objective. Everyday in newspapers we keep on reading new discoveries about a particular gene responsible form particular behaviour in men or women. Earlier these behaviours were explained to us with the help of theorie s of phychology. Tomorrow they may find something more finer than human genes. Of course it is very much possible.Then they will have to start all over again, explaining the human behavious from the point of view of new discovery. This process has no end. If you ask any modern physchologist or physhiatric to predict the behaviour of any person under some circumsatnces, his ablity to do so is exactly the same level as it was of Physchologists of 19th century or even those who belonged to more older era. "If you think that you can realise me by your critical reasoning and logical interpretation of my sadhnas or myself, then you are mistaken. You can realise me only through love". These are the words of Gurudev. Therefore in the field of sadhnas also if we keep on relying solely on logic and reasoning and do not surrender ourselves in the holy feet of Gurudev then we will not be able to fuse ourselves completely with the knowledge and conscious ness of Gurudev. We would be repeating the same mistake which the so called Physchologists have been doing for last so many decades. We may get a few siddhis just like the few theories of physchology which have eveolved over the period of time. These have no value beyond a particular point. Love and only love moves beyond that point. Therefore surrendering to shakti and effect to Gurudev is primary for any worthwhile progress in sadhnas. Leaving ourselves completey in the hands of someone else is very disturbing thought. As we have said earlier that western philosophy can not just digest this fact. It just shakes their whole structure of being the "torch bearer of modern human civilisation after the advent of industrialisation". Western physchologists say " A mother treats another woman in the life of his son as a compititor to her authority and right over her son" . They have many explanations ready for every problem in social and personal life of human beings. They just reduced the love of mother to petty jealousy. A mother is a woman and so is a lover or wife. There can be endless arguements about the manner realtioships are to be managed by a person. There is one fact that a person should keep in mind that a mother would never like to see his son(or daughther) wasting himself in reckless manner. Most of the sadhaks have physchological barrier in their mind regarding the manner which they percieve women. Listensing to word sadhna reminds them of strict code of conduct. Due to this reason they do not enter into the world of sadhnas. They have certain fears also in their mind. What if their leanings towards women is revealed to Guru? Lack of complete trust in Guru gives rise to this fear. Their mind is so overwhelmed by the consumerist image of women that they just do not want to come to face to face with Guru whom they percieve as a supernatural being capable of knowing their "dark thoughts". This phychological barrier is not easy to overcome and large number of people keep themselves away from the world of sadhna. They never realise that Guru is not sitting there to to make their hidden thoughts public or make make fun of their weakness. Guru means knwoledge. Guru's shakti works in a very special way. Gurudev know that whatever garbage has enters in the blood of person is different from the basic nature of that person as a human being. To purify it is a difficult task. Lectures on moral science can not do it. Strict environment with regimental control can not do it. Reading of religious texts can not do it. Only a Guru can do it. The only thing which is important is whether that person presents himself in the hands of Guru? or Just keep standing on the sidelines out of the fear. Sdahnas are direct manifestation of nature and so is the Guru. If a person fears nature itself then he can not progress in sadhnas. Progress on the path of sadhna and understanding the importance of shakti are parallel. Guru is the converging point. "Durga ,Kaali ........na Gururodhikam na Gururodhikam". This line of Guru stotra says" Durga and other Ten Mahavidyas are not more important than Guru" We can only say that we may be living life by keeping oursleves attached to various theories,philosohies,guidelines,words of wisdom and whole lot of similar things depending on the society we live in.We always feel shaky whenever we are hit by something unexpected in life. In more unfortunate circumstances we collapse completely. This happens without exception. Therefore it is Guru only which helps us. Outward image of world is deceptive. We can emerge unscathed out of it only if we develop the ability to think, act and live in a relative manner. Then we are not part of whole deceptive setup which leads to ultimate defeat and misery. We just can not do this on our own. Guru helps us to reach this state of being relative to all actions and thoughts and be free from their results, either good or bad. This just revolutionises the whole life of iindividual. Just like the Einstiens's theory of relativity revolutionised whole concept of classical physics to the extent that Eienstien is called the most influential personality of 20th century. That theory of realtivity dealt with the world ouside i.e. material or physical universe. The sadhna deal with the world which is inside us. Our thoughts, perceptions, consciousness, dreams, reasoning and other faculties of sense organs. Therefore it is much more difficult to achieve, because we are trying to put those things into realtive position which are acting as the observer of phenomenon of relativity. Therefore we are talking about a state of mind and a way of life that is absolute in itself and everything else in this universe is realtive to it. Einstien in later years was trying to develop a general theory of relativity, whcih could provide all answers, which could explain whole phenomenon of this universe in a perfect manner. He could not achieve that, because the path ahead was concerned with transformation of self whcih only an able Guru could do. As a scientist he could put one frame in realtive postion(observer) and another plane into the observed position. He did that and won applause of whole world. His next aim was to develop a theory for a "frame" or "plane" which would be realtive to none. It means an "absolute frame". Everything would be relative to that frame. If that happens then every phenomenon and every activity of this universe could be predicted with 100% accuracy and nothing would remain unexpalined or mystery. This aim can not be fulfilled by developing the theories of physics or any other branch of physical sciences. Like all things physical, physical sciences have a limitation , a final frontier beyond which they can not move. From there onwards begins the domain of sadhnas on which sages have spent centuries in search of that absolute.Finally they all concluded that Guru is that supreme absolute. There is nothing in this universe which a person ahould seek except the Guru. Guru is not just the body but the precious knwoledge, which is the sum total of this universe. All upanishdas have only one common base, and it is their emphasis on having a Guru who is able enough to take us out of this great fear called world and put us on a pedestal called the absolute. Once we become one with Guru then whole theories,questions, answers, sadhnas, siddhis, knowledge etc. just disappear. What remains is only Guru, only Guru, Only Guru.................... How to describe that state? We can only say again those famous lines of Shiv Mahimana Stotra by Pushpadanta."Even Goddess Saraswati can not define the complete nature of Shiva even if she uses all resources available on this earth". Guru is Shiva. Shiva is Guru. Shiva is never without Shakti. Shakti is never without Shiva. On the practical plane of life it is important that we respect women. It is not necessary that respect for women come only if you go near to them and praise them profusely. You can also respect women very well by observing alertly what exists inside your mind and eyes. Sadhnas beyond a particular level demand strength in the character of person just like it existed In Sri Rama & Sri Krishna. A person should first do sadhnas which fulfill his worldly desire for money and material comforts, after that only he should think of doing other sadhanas.This is not our opinion. MTYV magazine has also suggested this many times. That is the reason that emphasis is given on shakti sadhnas when a person enters the field of sadhna. Only Shakti gives movement to life otherwise which would be just monotonous cycle of days and nights passing without our doing anything. Shakti gives the ability to a person to stick to his resolve and not get defeated by adverse cicumstances. So Guru is the very essence of ourlife. Ourlife, which is the manifestation of Shakti and abode of Shiva. Om Namah Shivaye Om Param Tatvaye Narayanaye Gurubhyo Namah Om Namah Shivaye Free antispam, antivirus and 1GB to save all your messages Only in Mail: http://in.mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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