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SRIMATHE RAMANUJAYA NAMAHA.

 

Oppiliappan, "MK krishnaswamy"

<krishnaswamy@c...> wrote:

 

> Recognising our natural confusion, the Lord advises

us to rise above the confused mind, to abandon all our

ordinary concepts relating to the conflicts in the

codified dharmic rules and rely only upon Him who

resides as the inner Self in us. He seems to be

telling us:

> "I am not far, far away. I am always closest to my

devotees.

> You may not feel my presence due to your other

preoccupations and forgetfulness.

> But you can hear me in deep silence if only you

still your constantly chattering mind through

meditation and devotion to me.

> You shall then know without doubt what your true

dharma is in any situation.

> Act according to this divine knowledge and you shall

be absolved of all common concepts of Paapa (Sin)

relating to such action.

> Believe me, this is the only sure way."

>

> sarva dharmaan parityajya

> maamekam sharaNam vraja

> aham tvaa sarva paapebhyo

> mokshayishyaami maa shuca.

 

 

Respected Sri Krishnaswamy swamin,

Pranams.

A thought-provoking mail about the dilemma in knowing

what is dharma in a given situation. Seeking

permission from you to add my thoughts, let me write

what strikes my mind. I may be wrong in my

interpretation / views. It is because of my limited

knowledge and limited exposure to sasthras. Hence I

request you, Sir, and others to correct me wherever

needed.

 

It seems that there are two sets of factors that

determine whether an action is dharmic or adharmic in

a given situation. One set is swadharma and paradharma

and the other set is shreyas and preyas. When

swadharma and shreyas go together and match with each

other, dharma is in place. When they don’t go

together, conflicts arise. The resultant action may be

in tune with only one of these two and one is done at

the expense of the other.

 

There are reasons for clubbing these two sets. Based

on this, we can analyse the situations that you have

given in your mail. Texts declare (as you have quoted

in another mail from Katohpanishat) that shreyas and

preyas are the two factors that control a man in his

actions. Whether he likes it or not or whether he is

ready for it or not, the man is faced with an

inevitable situation of adhering to one of these two

at any given situation. A ‘dheeran’ understands the

difference between the two and adheres to shreyas. But

a ‘mUdan’ allows himself to be pulled by preyas

thereby slipping out of purushartham (Kato –2-1 &2-2)

 

Applying this distinction in the situations given by

you, let us see what comes up.

 

“> Noble Bharata did not observe the injunction "matru

devo bhava" and chided his mother Kaikeyi using

abusive words, for sending Rama to the forest thereby

also causing the death of Dasaratha. ‘

 

The swadharma of bharatha as son of Kaikeyi requires

him to abide by whatever she says. He did not follow

swadharma in this situation but that can not be termed

as adharmic. Why? Let us think of the situation like

this – that Bharatha had been very much in Ayodhya

when kaikeyi caught hold of this plan. Assuming that

Bahratha had come to know of her intentions even

before she could reveal it to Dhasharatha, what his

swadharma had been like? I don’t think he would have

accepted kaikeyi’s plan. His swadharma as her son

requires him to counsel her in the right ways. He

would have certainly prevailed upon her and changed

her mind. Perhaps sensing that he would play a spoil

sport, destiny had him removed from the scene to

enable Ramavathara - purpose to happen.

 

Now he had come back and come to know what damage his

mother had done. His swadharma in the action of

counseling in the former situation had changed into

chiding her. In the former situation (hypothetical)

too he had stuck to what is good for all (shreyas) and

in the latter condition too he had stuck to shreyas.

His swadharma did not suffer on any account, for, he

has only acted in the best way (in chiding her) that

would do good to his mother (since his swadharma

constitutes in bringing glory to his mother and not

dis-repute which would have happened if he had agreed

to his mother’s plans). There was no conflict in the

choice of shreyas and preyas for Bharatha for whom

both merged together in having desired the crown to go

to Rama. There was no conflict in his swadharma and

shreyas for him (it was for Kaikeyi only) in this

sense (mentioned above) and there is conflict as well,

if going against mother’s wish is against swadharma.

Bharatha stuck to shreyas unwaveringly.

 

In the next scenario,

“> Vibhishana deserted his brother Ravana and joined

his enemy Rama.”

 

But Kumbakarna didn’t, though he too thought that

Ravana was not right. Kumbakarna decided to stick to

his swadharma, while Vibheeshna failed in it. He saw

greater good in saving Rakshasas and their kingdom

from complete destruction on account of the mis-deed

of their king. He saw justification in the war on

Rama’s side and not on Ravana’s side. Where there is

justification, there is dharma. And dharma is what is

to be protected and sustained. So vibheeshana too gave

priority to shreyas.

 

Now it is about Sugreeva.

“> Sugreeva plotted and succeeded in killing his

brother Vali, taking the help of Rama.”

This writer thinks that there is no conflict of any

nature in this case. Sugreeva plotted and killed Vali.

So too Vali who can be accused of having denied

Sugreeva any share in kingdom and in driving his

brother out of kingdom. The same with reference to

taking possession of each other’s wife in the other’s

absence. So the question of dharma or adharma must lie

elsewhere.

 

Before he concludes the series of accusations on Rama

after he was hit, Vali says that it is perfectly

legitimate for Sugreeva to have aspired for the

kingdom and in having plotted to kill him to get that

kingdom. Such was the legitimacy conferred on kings of

yore whose main job was to expand their kingdom.

But the dharma angle comes at another place – in why

Rama waited for a day to kill Vali and allowed

Sugreeva to be hit badly by Vali on the first day. It

is difficult to believe that Rama had difficulty in

identifying who is who. He need not have to be present

in the scene. He could have just sent the astra from

any place. That would have hit Vali precisely. But

that he decided to allow Sugreeva suffer at Vali’s

hands in the first day, can have one explanation.

 

Rama would have either thought that Sugreeva needed

some kind of punishment – like some impediment in the

path of Rama helping him which must be removed – or he

had not yet made up his mind who is more culpable in

the offence for which he killed Vali (the reading of

the symbolism of Vali vadam written by this writer

would help to understand this thread of reasoning).

 

Both Vali and Sugreeva had known that Sita had been

abducted and both had not taken any effort to prevent

the abduction. One way of looking at Rama’s deliberate

letting of Sugreeva to suffer on the first day is that

He did not want to let go Sugreeva who had actually

seen the abduction. Sugreeva may think that he is an

a-shakthan (powerless) to prevent Ravana. No, that can

not be accepted. Even if some one is getting killed in

front of one’s eyes, the witness is expected to do

something, atleast scream and alert others and do

something to prevent the crime. Claiming himself to be

an a-shakthan, Sugreeva let Ravana safely cross

Kishkintha. Inspite of being a shakthan (powerful),

Vali, let that happen unchallenged. Depending on the

extent and nature of the offence, each one of them

faced respective punishments.

 

Vali failed both in swadharma and shreyas – the former

in failing to challenge the offence in his capacity as

king, that went past his territory and the latter in

having failed to install the Ikshvaku-Raj-dharma (the

details can be understood by going through the

dialogue between Vali and Rama.)

 

And now about Pandava brothers.

 

“> The Pandava brothers restrained themselves due to

the Rules of contract and raja dharma and thereby

allowed their wife Draupadi to be humiliated in open

court.”

 

A clear case of ignoring shreyas happened at an

earlier time which can be termed as the root cause of

this event. Yudhishtra agreeing meekly to play the

dice-game at the first instance and again at the

second instance may be in tune with his swadharma (in

having to abide by the King’s decree) but not in the

interests of shreyas. He just ignored to weigh the

invitation to play as against the probable

consequences in the first instance and refused to fall

on shreyas (knowing well what is in store) in the

second instance.

 

And now the most important of all..

..”> Ignoring kshatriya dharma, Arjuna at first turned

against waging war with the kauravas because of the

Dharmic rule against killing one's own kin and guru

but later, on Krishna's advice expounding the superior

dharma, took active part in the war and killed his

close relatives and gurus. “

 

This is a very clear instance of shreyas falling in

line with swadharma. When they go together, dharma is

established and it is glory all the way for the one in

the situation. Whenever the conflict between the two

had occurred (like in Vibheeshana’s case), the process

of arriving at the right decision (shreyas) had been

wrought with dilemmas of sorts.

 

Here a question comes ,-is this what Gitacharyan says?

He has not just once but twice said that swadharma,

though ill-done is better than para-dharma. (verses

3-35 & 18-47- shreyan swadharmo viguna:) So why think

about shreyas?

 

A deeper analysis of the verses give some insight.

To understand this, let us see the issues like this.

Gita talks about 3 phases of swadharma.

First there is a swabhava (18-41) arising from

Tri-gunas.

 

>From swabhava arises swakarma which is what the person

does in consonance with his nature (swabhava)

(BG-18-47 “swabhava niyatham karma)

 

Doing swakarma steadfastly is swadharma. (18-47)

 

Why does the Lord insist on swadharma even if it is of

ill-nature? This question gives rise to another

question.

What if the person’s swadharma is of bad and demonic

nature (like what Ravana did)? Is it right then to

allow the person to continue in that swabhava?

 

The first question is answered from Bhagavad

Ramanuja’s point of view.

He says when one clings to swadharma, he is doing

something that is of his nature and easy to perform.

Even if it is defective, it is ‘free from liability to

interruption and fall’. This is known as karma yoga.

He continues, “ For a person who lives practicing

Karma yoga –which is his duty because he is qualified

for it- even death without success in one birth does

not matter. For, in the next birth with the help of

experience already gained in the previous birth, it

will be possible for him to perform Karma yoga without

any impediments.” (Gita bhashyam 3-35) That is why the

Lord says ‘stick to swadharma even if it has sprung

from defective nature.’

 

To reply to the second question, for average persons

like us the Lord indicates in chapter 16 what kind of

divine qualities and demonic qualities are there to

follow. A thorough adherence to divine qualities and a

conscious shedding of demonic qualities will help us

shape our swabhava (nature) for the better. If we

don’t turn our minds from demonic qualities, He is

sure to doom us into demon-hood further.

 

Ravana didn’t change his demonic qualities. So his

swadharma just stuck to him. His refusal to look other

way came as an impediment in seeing what is shreyas

from him and his race. No Hitopadesam from anyone

worked, the reason for which is traced to his

swabhava. Vibheeshana was able to see shreyas and

escaped terrible fate. The presence of divine

qualities in him helped him in this.

 

>From the Lord’s words on swadharma it may be construed

that He favours only swadharma at the expense of

shreyas. No, this is where He expects us to stop,

think and proceed. In 2-31, He brings out a

qualitative attribute to swadharma. A war that is

“dharmyaath “ is greater. “There is no greater good

than a righteous war.” In such war, Arjuna, you should

not waver from your swadharma.

 

Again in 2-33, He says,” if you don’t fight this

righteous war, you will be turning away from your

swadharma and honoured position and will be incurring

sin.” Thus He adds this ‘righteous’ or ‘dharma’ clause

to swadharmam. The same swadharma (to fight) applies

to Kauravas too but He didn’t ask them to fight.

Instead He asked them to relent. Because any war that

they were planning to wage would not be dharmic.

 

He advised Yudhishtra to give a go-by to his

swadharma, though temporarily, to eliminate Drona,

because only then dhrama can be established (Here

shreyas has been given precedence). Bheeshma failed to

make such temporary amends with his swadharma ( and

allowed shreyas to take a beating) and so he saw the

down fall of the Hastinapur throne which he avowed to

safe-guard, right in front of his eyes. Karna stuck to

his swadharma and perhaps overcame what Raamanuja says

as impediments.

 

Coming to our lives, our focus can be like this.

Be aware of our swabhava.

 

Follow the divine qualities and shed demonic ones.

 

When the situation presents a conflict between

swadharma and shreyas, follow shreyas.

A dharmaic shreyas requires one to follow or shed

swadhrama accordingly.

Shreyas takes precedence, not swadharma.

 

This situation may be very difficult to follow. In all

those actions (and in every action too) follow

equi-distance from pleasure and pain, success and

defeat and profit and loss. (2-38, sukha-dhukkhe..)

In that way the Lord assures that we are relieved of

papam.

 

Such sama-dhrushti ultimately helps one to renounce

sarva-dharman whereby we are required to shed even

swadharma.

 

When that level is attained we will automatically find

ourselves at the feet of the Lord. We will become only

the ‘nimittham’ (instrument) (BG 11-33) in His hands.

The doership, doing and results would be His, not

ours.

 

Thus the “maam yekam sharanam vraja” has its beginning

in swabhava, then swakarma, then swadharma and lastly

but not at the least in shreyas.

When we cling to shreyas, the Lord is pleased. Because

Shreyas is dhrama and dharma is what the Lord is

terribly obsessed with!!!

 

So adiyaL’s prescription in short is not “sarva

dharman”, nor even the oft-quoted “karmani yeva

adhikaarasthe’.

 

It is

‘sukha-dukkhE samE kruthwa

lAbhA-lAbhau jayA jayau/

thatho yuddhAya yujyaswa

naivam pApam avApsyasi//

 

The rest will follow suit.

 

Regards,

Jayasree saranathan.

 

 

 

 

 

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