Please ADVISE & HELP ME with VEDIC/VAISHNAVA CUSTOMS!!!

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_/|\_ Hare Krishna & Vanakkam dear Vaishnavas,

 

 

please advise me in my present situation. My sister in law gave birth

yesterday to a beautifull girl. We are all happy and feel blessed to

have received a new Lakshmi in our Family. My problem is that my

parents said according our Eelam Hindu Tamil customs i can not do

Abisheka etc. to the Deities in our House for 31 days.I follow a

mixture of Gaudiya Vaishnavam and Sri Vaishnava belief. I do on

Fridaya a special puja with mantras,Abishek,fire yajna for our House

Deities Perumal(Vishnu)with Sridevi Bhudevi and Lakshmi, i say

Narasimha & Narayana kavacam and Stotrams.

 

According to the ISKCON they ´ve advised me to continue with my normal

puja showing arati,ringing bells,lighting incense sticks,singing

songs,offering flowers etc. to Krishna and Narasimha, however i was

also advised that to certain Deities i shall not conduct a special

Puja where certain Mantras are used.

 

I will continue with my normal Puja but would love to do a very

special puja with Abishek & fire yajna on this Weekend to my Home

Deities Perumal with Sridevi Bhudevi and also Ganesh Statue. The

Deities size are like the ones in a any Hindu Temple, they ´ve a

seperate big room wich is only used as a puja room.

 

I am quite confused about the Deity service,please all my dear loved

Vaishnavas please advise me, if the deity workship can continue also

for the next 31 days. Many Many Thanks for you replies in advance.

 

 

Hare Krishna, Jai Sriman Narayana Murthi ki JAI

 

adiyen Rangan

 

PS: is there anything special to be done, according to our Vaishnava

customs by a birth of a child(regardless girl or boy)????