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The Story of Nachiketas: Conquest of “kaama”

through

 

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redirecting Desire -- “gnyAna yOga”

-

 

There is a famous story in the Katopanishad where a

young lad, Nachiketas engages the god of Death, Yama,

in a rather grim but profound dialogue that takes

place under rather unusual circumstances. It is

recounted below very briefly. The story is a vivid and

dramatic illustration of how Vedantic conquest of

human Desire through “gnyAna-mArga” may be achieved

i.e. it shows us how human Will, when fortified and

enlightened by “gnyAna”, can easily "redirect" or

deflect our desires away from what is dross to what is

sublime.

 

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Nachiketa’s father was performing a “yagnya”, a ritual

sacrifice. In keeping with the ritual-tradition of

those Vedic times, the father was gifting away some

cattle to indigent Brahmins (“daana”). Unfortunately,

as young Nachiketas was quick to observe, the cows

being given away were all from his father’s old stable

–- old, lean, unwanted and quite useless. So

Nachiketas, with the moral naiveté and directness

typical of one his age, wanted to ask the father, “Of

what worth is it performing ritual, my father, when

sacrificial offerings are as worthless as these old

cows of ours?” But out of filial respect, Nachiketas

preferred to couch his question in words that were

suitably deferential and yet subtle enough to merely

prick, not shame, the father’s conscience. So the boy

asked softly, “Father, after you have given away all

these old cows, to whom might you choose to offer me

as sacrificial offering?”

 

His son’s pointed query stung the father to the quick.

Not only was his guilt and shame aroused but his anger

boiled over too. Instantly he flashed back, rather

thoughtlessly, at poor Nachiketas, “To Yama, the God

of Death, shall I offer you as sacrifice-offering!”

 

Those harsh and hasty words were spoken at a solemn

ritual even as it was under way, and when so spoken

they immediately assumed a ring of fatal reality. Poor

Nachiketas found himself journeying forthwith to the

Kingdom of Yama, the God of Death.

 

****************

 

The story further is best told in the words of the

Katopanishad itself (translation of original Sanskrit

text):

 

(QUOTE):

“Nachiketa went to Yama’s abode, but the king

Of Death was not there. He waited three days and long

nights.

When Yama returned, he heard an ethereal voice say:

 

“When a spiritual guest enters the house

Like a bright flame, he must be received well

With water to wash his feet. For from wise

Are those who are not hospitable

To such a guest. They will lose all their hopes,

The religious merit they have acquired and

Their sons and cattle too.”

 

Yama hence hastened to appease Nachiketas and spoke:

 

“O spiritual guest, I grant you three boons

To atone for the three inhospitable nights

You have spent in my abode!

Ask for three boons, one for each night”.

 

(UNQUOTE)

***************

 

We must pause a while and dwell on the story at this

interesting point.

 

Yama wanted to sincerely atone for his guilt and

misdemeanor at having made the young lad wait outside

the House of Death for 3 long, inhospitable nights.

And hence Nachiketa was offered 3 valuable boons that

were simply his for the asking! “What luck!” the young

Nachiketas must have thought to himself.

 

As first boon from Yama, Nachiketas asked that his

father’s anger towards him be assuaged and that he

would regain his place in his affections. Yama said

“Granted! Ask for the second boon.”

 

As second boon, Nachiketas asked Yama to impart to him

the rightful way to conduct the holiest of holy

“yagnya”, i.e. Vedic fire-sacrifices, and which paves

the way for wisdom and well-being in life on earth.

Yama was so impressed by this wish of the lad. It

spoke volumes about the lad’s spiritual ardor and

effulgence (“tEjas”) and the Lord of Death was pleased

to reward him with the second boon. After duly

initiating Nachiketa into the esotericism and practice

of the said “yagnya”, Yama made it known that the

fire-ritual so taught to Nachiketa would henceforth

become eponymous i.e. it would be known to all the

world as “nachiketa-yagnya”.

 

In thus granting the first and second boons to

Nachiketa, Yama virtually handed the young hero back

into the living arms of the human world, restoring to

Nachiketa all the happiness of past circumstances.

 

Next, it was the moment for Nachiketa to ask Yama the

third and last boon.

 

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Up to this point in the Katopanishad, the story is

told with a dry, matter-of-fact terseness that

conceals, however, several important moral lessons for

Man ("dharma-sookshma").

 

The first is this: It is always perilous to go about

conducting sacred rituals without requisite “shraddha”

--- earnestness, diligence and conscientiousness. An

attitude of laxity, inadvertence or a cavalier

approach to performance of Vedic “samskArAs” or

“karma” can have extremely unfortunate consequences,

as Nachiketa’s father, in the grip of momentary anger,

found out at very great personal cost.

 

Secondly, Charity ("daana") must always involve an

element of real, not token, sacrifice. Gifting away

old clothes and unwanted stuff that, over time, have

probably piled up in the basement or attic in your

house is really more home spring-cleaning, not genuine

charity. It is no different than Nachiketa’s father

giving away old, wobbly cattle from his stable as holy

sacrificial offering (“daana”), even while the poor

animals were on their last legs.

 

Thirdly, never should one be inhospitable, callous or

unkind to a house-guest. (“atithi dEvO bhava” says the

TaittirIya Upanishad). Do not keep people waiting

endlessly, unattended or feeling cold and unwelcome at

your doorsteps (as Nachiketas must have surely felt

waiting outside Yama’s doorsteps for 3 long nights).

The consequences of showing such blatant discourtesy

are something which let alone human beings, no less a

person (or god) than Yama himself fears terribly.

Death himself abhors lack of graciousness in a host

towards a house guest.

 

"Limbo" --- that state of suspended or indeterminate

existence in which a human soul finds itself while

waiting at the doorsteps of Death, prior to it being

decided whether it is to Heaven that the soul shall

ascend or to Hell that it must be consigned --- that

state called "limbo" is a purely Christian belief.

There is no place for it in the Vedic system of faith

where even the God of Death is obliged to deal

business with utmost courtesy and efficiency.

 

Besides all the above, the story of Nachiketas

contains one other great moral lesson --- on the

subject of “kaama”. But to know that one we must

continue with the rest of the story.

 

*************

 

(QUOTE):

Yama said, “Ask now, Nachiketa, for the third boon

 

Nachiketa said: When a person dies, there arises this

doubt:

“He still exists”, say some, “he does not”, say

others.

I want you to teach me the truth.

This is my third boon.

 

At this Yama replied with a sigh:

“This doubt haunted even the gods of old;

For the secret of death is hard to know.

Nachiketa, ask for some other boon

And please release me from my promise made to you.”

 

But Nachiketa insisted:

“This doubt haunted even the gods of old;

For it is indeed hard to know, O Death, as you say.

But I can have no greater teacher than you to teach me

this,

And there is no boon too equal to this”.

 

Then Yama spoke:

“Ask for sons and grandsons who live

A hundred years. Ask for herds of cattle,

Elephants and horses, gold and vast land,

And ask to live as long as you desire.

Or, if you think of anything more

Desirable, ask for that too with wealth and

Long life as well! Nachiketa, be the ruler

Of a great kingdom, and I will give you

The utmost capacity to enjoy

The Pleasures of life. Ask for beautiful

Women of loveliness rarely seen on earth,

Riding in chariots, skilled in music and dance

To attend to you. But Nachiketa, please,

Don’t ever ask me about the one thing that is

Forbidden to Men and that is the Secret of Death”.

 

The young Nachiketa, undaunted and unconvinced, spoke

again unto Yama, the Lord of Death:

 

“These pleasures last but until tomorrow,

And they wear out the vital powers of life too;

How fleeting is all life on earth! Therefore

Keep your horses and chariots, dancing women and

Music for yourself. Never can mortals

Be made happy with these. How can we be

Desirous of wealth when we see your face,

And know we cannot live while you

O Death, are here?

 

“This is the boon I choose and ask you for:

Dispel this doubt of mine, O King of Death.

Does a person live after death, or does he not?

Nachiketa asks for no other boon

Than the secret of this great mystery.”

 

(UNQUOTE)

****************

 

Anyone who has seriously studied the above passage in

the Katopanishad will relish this classic dialogue

between Yama and Nachiketa as one of the most

profoundly moving masterpieces of Vedantic thought.

Seated upon the very doorsteps of the Abode of Death,

a little boy asks Yama to reveal to him the ultimate

knowledge that Man aspires for: the Secret of Life

after Death, the Way to everlasting liberation of the

soul after it has shed its mortal coils.

 

Yama is unwilling to offer that Knowledge so easily to

a mere boy, fearing that he is unripe and unready for

it and that it may simply overwhelm and overawe a

spirit as young as Nachiketa's. So Yama prevaricates

by offering Nachiketas the greatest of life's sop as

an alternative --- "kaama". He offers Nachiketas the

rich temptations and sensuous pleasures of the world

that any youthful heart, inflamed by passions of

“kaama”, would naturally yearn. Death taunts and

teases Nachiketas, “Forget this desire for knowledge

about life after death. Re-direct it instead to the

enjoyment of the pleasures of life which I shall grant

you in more than full measure!”

 

The alternatives posed by Death are alluring no doubt.

But at a deeper level, if you contemplate deeply upon

them, they are frighteningly mind-boggling, aren't

they?

 

While reading and re-reading this passage in the

Upanishad several times in my life, I have imagined

myself to be Nachiketa and often wondered what exactly

I would myself do in the situation. If in my last

moments on earth, Death Himself were to appear before

me and tell me, “Choose now between the two: “gnyAna”

or “kaama”. I promise you another fresh and long lease

of life. No death for you now. You can go back now to

the world and lead a life full of enjoyment and

pleasure, where all your deepest desires of the heart

shall come true. However, if you want instead, you can

give up all the pleasures of “kaama” that is on offer

now, and become my student and I shall teach you all

about true “gnyAna”, the secret Knowledge of Life and

Death. You can have one but not the other. Choose. You

have one minute to make up your mind. And the clock

ticks.... Now!”

 

“What would I do in the situation?”, I ask myself,

again and yet again. And after all these years of

studying the Katopanishad and trying to understand it,

I must honestly admit, I have never been able to get

anywhere even remotely close to making up my mind.

 

****************

 

Not so, however, is the case with young Nachiketas of

the Katopanishad.

 

The Upanishad tells us that the lad weighed the pros

and cons of Yama’s choice, and firmly and quickly made

up his mind through an act of deliberate Will: “How

can I live and seek Pleasure and Desire while you, O

Death, are here?” Between the strong pulls of “kaama”

and the soft calls of “gnyAna” stood the great and

looming dilemma of Nachiketa, threatening his very

soul, as it stood teetering on the very edge of a

moral precipice, with claims and counter-claims on

behalf of life and on behalf of death. By what must

have been a superhuman effort of Will-power,

Nachiketas simply "re-directed" his youthful desire

--- away from "kaama" towards "gnyAna"... away from

fleeting Pleasure towards everlasting Truth.

 

****************

 

In the end “GnyAna” won. “Kaama” lost... It is the end

that has made the legend of Nachiketa one of the

priceless gems of Upanishadic parables held to be a

treasure-house of Truth by generations of

truth-seekers ("gnyAnis") in the ancient land of

India. In the cry of the TiruppavAi, in the 29th

Stanza, in that unforgettable expression: “maRRai nam

kaamangaL maaRRu”, a generation indeed of young

“aaypAdi” maidens --- perhaps as young as Nachiketas

of the Katopanishad --- the young girls prayed to the

Almighty that in the battle between "gnyAna” and

“kaama”, between Truth and Desire, they too should

emerge as victorious as the Upanishadic hero.

 

(to be continued)

 

Regards,

dAsan,

 

Sudarshan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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tiruvenkatam, "Sudarshan K Madabushi"

<mksudarshan2002> wrote:

 

Dear Sri DL Narasimhan,

 

Thank you and nice to know you enjoyed Post #15 of the series.

 

Yes, the Nachiketas story of the Katopanishad is an all-time

classic. But I remind you that it is not the main theme of my

series "maRRai nam kaamangaL maaRRu". The story is being used merely

to illustrate the Vedantic underpinnings of AndAl's TiruppAvai (the

essence of which is contained in the phrase "maRRai nam kaamangaL

maaRRu" of the 29th stanza).

 

However, if you are eager to pursue the other story of what happened

next in the Nachiketas/Yama dialogue, you must take the trouble to

go to the KatOpanishad yourself. Please do so and I assure you will

enjoy the adventure. The whole purpose of my series of postings is

to excite and encourage members like yourself to embark upon such

Vedantic curiosity.

 

Thank you once again for your kind words of appreciation.

 

Regards,

dAsan,

Sudarshan

 

 

> --- dharani balaji <dharubal3> wrote:

> > Dear sir,

> > THANK you for the soul stirring story of

> > Nachiketas from the Kathopanishad that you shared it

> > with all of us.Hoping to hear from you soon about

> > the last portion of the interesting and profuound

> > dialogue between Nachiketas and lord Yama.

> > thank you again .

> > Namo Narayana,

> > DL Narasimhan

 

--- End forwarded message ---

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