Guest guest Posted October 15, 2001 Report Share Posted October 15, 2001 I surf hinduism.about.com quite a bit, and I've come across this topic on there a couple of times now. I wanted to show the members here, and get some opinions. This subject is, obviously, close to my heart as I am a Westerner myself.<br><br><a href=http://forums.about.com/n/main.asp?webtag=ab-hinduism&nav=messages&lgnF=y&m\ sg=86.1 target=new>http://forums.about.com/n/main.asp?webtag=ab-hinduism&nav=messages&lg\ nF=y&msg=86 ..1</a><br><br>What do you think?<br><br>Om Shanti<br>Erica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2001 Report Share Posted October 16, 2001 Hi Erica,<br><br>I have actually gained an enormous amount myself from the book mentioned in the original post. I got it from the library, but when I can afford it I shall buy a copy (have been buying too many books as usual!). At times, I have indeed felt that it will never be possible for me as a European woman to fully grasp what it means to be Hindu; however, books like this one explore the incredible, exciting diveristy of Hinduism, the intricate variation from village to village, household to household, individual to individual. In other words, the fact that there is no 'real', 'true', single notion of what it is to be a Hindu.<br><br>Part of the accessibility of this path is its freedom from dogma, the very lack of 'you should' and 'you must'; however, I suppose that for many people raised in a Judeo-Christian culture, this in itself may seem confusing and frightening. Eek! Where is the one authoritative book? Where is the simple list of rules to live by? <br><br>Also, many Westerners are used to thinking of 'religion' in terms of something which is communicated or dictated to them by an authoritative intermediary - a priest, a chaplain, a rabbi etc - and it requires a whole different mindset to make personal choices about whom, how, when, where to worship, to take responsibility for your own interaction with your God.<br><br>I suppose in a way I am lucky, having been raised in a completely irrelgious family, as I had fewer preconceptions to begin with.<br><br>Just my random thoughts!<br><br>Padma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2001 Report Share Posted October 16, 2001 Blessed Self, Erica<br><br>Hinduism takes in all, respects all, embraces all, without judgement, without reservation.<br><br>If a westener wants to understand Hinduism, he or she should move past the supposedly different deities and the different forms of ritual worship and seek an understanding of advaita vedanta, the underpinnings of Hinduism.<br><br>A start could be made with reading the Vedas, the Upanishads, the Bhagavad-Gita, Patanjalis's Raja Yoga Sutras. For a westerner to understand fully the basis of Hinduism, he or she should seek an enlightened master for guidance.<br><br>When all said and done, that spiritual aspirant may well end up with an renewed and vastly more profound understanding of their first religion. He or she will understand that while religions different greatly in their public face, all religions and spiritual paths come together in their mystic depths. The Jewish Kabbalist, the Islamic Sufi and the Christian contemplative orders all have the same vision, the same practices, the same experiences and use the same language (literally) even to the use of the same metaphors. There is no difference between any of these and a Self-Realized Hindu or Sikh. They are One.<br><br>Other than the occassional cultural reference, there is no difference between reading the writings of a 16th century Spanish female saint such as St. Theresa of Avila or the writings of a 20th Hindu saint such as Swami Sivananda.<br><br>So delve in the basis of Hinduism. You may become a practicing Hindu or make a profound reconnection with the religion of your culture or family. In any event, the result will be the same. You will forsake ego and judgement, gain wisdom and become One with God or Brahman.<br><br>Om namah Sivaya<br><br>Omprem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2001 Report Share Posted October 16, 2001 Thank you all for your thoughtful replies.<br><br>I did not write my opinion on this matter in my original post on purpose; I wanted to see what others had to think about this. <br><br>I agree with the majority here. I have found nothing but love and compassion since embarking on this journey seriously over a year ago. I've realized that it is me feeling odd in the community, not the other way around! Just like anything, persistence and sincerity are key in feeling comfortable and having others feel comfortable with your presence. <br><br>Personally, I feel comfortable with my beliefs and my way of life. I feel I have finally found the place where I belong -- or rather, it found me. It is not a community or people that do this, it is a feeling of HOME inside of my soul. I have not changed. I have only become *myself*. <br><br>Just as your place of birth does not define your person, your place of birth can not define one's "religion". I have an overwhelming desire to know God, and this is what leads me. <br><br>Om Shanti<br>Erica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2001 Report Share Posted October 16, 2001 Hindusim is not a religion per se as we all know. It is a lifestyle, a culture, a way of life, which has developed over millineums, and is constantly evolving. It is made up of practices that have developed over literally thousands of years, encompassing allll the paths of Union with the Truth. The various periods in its history, has seen varying period-appropriate practices changing according to the times. Some practices which were eternal, remained a constant factor throughout, and is slowly being brought to our notice through archeological discoveries. Some pratices, though obsolete, still remain as artifacts in the museums of cultural history. <br><br>In fact the term "Hinduism" is a name given by the outside world to the life and practices of the people who lived in the land of the river Indus (Indus Valley Civilization) and called them "Hindus". The land where they lived was called Hindusthan (staan= place, land). It denotes a geographical boundary. The British colonists later called the region "India", as they brought the western world into the subcontinent. The original name used for the culture was Sanatan Dharma (Eternal laws of life).<br><br>It is hard to "learn" culture, from books or people and typically has to grow within it. That is why there is no traditional concept of conversion into the "religion". Anyone who adopts the lifestyle, identifies with it and grows with it is a Hindu. The practices, of course, include the full range, from worship rituals to advait and yoga practice and philosophy, and like all "Hindus" one accepts some aspects and not others. Even those who are atheists or those who ridicule the religion are included in the folds. There is no need for proseletizing or a competition for numbers. The only "conversion" is for those who choose a monastic lifestyle, but this change is for all, including born-Hindus. To be a monk, even Hindus have to go through a ceremonies including (one's own funeral ceremoney) to symbolize the death of the ego self (the physical) and birth of the Self. <br><br>Overwhelming demand from those who identify with conversions and those some of those who formed groups and schools perhaps has perhaps led to the creation of procedures for such conversion, and various rituals have evolved. The only ones I am familiar with are those by ISKON and some through the Hindu Organization in Hawaii. I am amused when some of my friends here ask me, "If you don't convert how will you grow and become bigger?" Guess the "hindu" forefathers, even those who attempted to give it some degree of organization (Shankaracharya), didn't visualize capitalism in religion. An "American" disciple of Maharishi answered when I posed this question to him, "Hinduism is the grandfather of all religions. No one needs to be converted into something they already are". <br><br>Can westerners feel "Hindu"? You bet! I have "western" friends who are more "hindu" than perhaps even myself. It simply takes identifying, with a process of thinking and a set of natural spiritual laws, a willingness to understand, and a fundamental trust that there is a purpose to it all. The explanations will come all in good time, when the time is deemed right by the Universe.<br><br>I end with a story of one of my husband's colleague. He was saying, how much he wanted to go back and live in India again, and how his childen too would drop everything and go if they had an opportunity again. I asked him about the inconveniences, the inconsistencies, the paradoxes, the material problems, the politics etc etc. His answer was, "but if you love India none of that matters. That is not the spirit of India anyway". I had tears in my eyes. Having being social activist of sorts, I had to come 10,000 miles away to understand that aspect of "Hindu - sthan". <br><br>Love to all<br><br>_/\_ Tat twam asi<br><br>UMa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2001 Report Share Posted October 16, 2001 Greetings,<br><br>I beg to differ from the majority here.<br><br>Hinduism, and other oriental religions, have had such a profound attraction for Westerners because of their disabusement with Christianity.<br>The 'hijack' of the institutions of Christianity, namely the Church, by the ruling monarchies (during the middle ages and the late middle ages) and by the controllers of government and power at present times, have drawn Westerners to seek solace and emotional fulfillment in other-more exotic-religions.<br><br>Particularly Hinduism and Buddhism.<br><br>Hinduism is seen by Westerners as less controlled and less manipulated by the ruling classes.<br>However, the fact is that Hinduism, like any other mainstream religion, has long fallen prey to manipulation by the controllers of power.<br><br>It is as much a corrupted and tainted religion as any other.<br>Hinduism as a way of life exists only as an abstract concept, an ideal-as far removed from real existence as anything can be.<br>The common folk of India, like common folks in all other countries, spend most of their time figuring where their next meal is going to come from.<br><br>To come back to the original question-I don't think Hinduism offers anything that any other religion does not offer. It does not make anyone more or less liberated than any other religion.<br>Fulfillment and 'karma' is to be found within oneself, not by choosing one religion over another.<br>Particularly one so corrupted and manipulated by different groups over the centuries that its present form bears no resemblance to its ideals.<br><br>All this is of course IMHO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2001 Report Share Posted October 17, 2001 (This is why I wanted to bring up the subject!)<br><br>Good sir...<br><br>Thank you for going against the grain and posting your opinions here.<br><br>First, can you please define the word "disabusement"? I attempted to look it up in the dictionary, but I have not been able to find a definition. Thank you.<br><br>Second, I understand where you are coming from on this point. However -- speaking as someone that was raised in a Byzantine Catholic family -- I did not stumble into Hinduism while searching for something "exotic". I came to this path because I never felt satisfied with the information and the way of thinking I was being presented. The theories and commandments and logic behind the Catholic way of life (because, let's face it, *all* religions strive to be a way of life rather than just something one thinks of on Sunday morning) never filled my need or even made sense to me at all. <br><br>Thirdly, I can appreciate what you're saying in regards to Hinduism having fallen "prey to manipulation by the controllers of power". There are negative aspects to everything in this world. Good and bad, I accept the true essence of the path. <br><br>My sister worked at a family-run coffee shop, and the family just happens to be Baptist. This is fine, as we were raised not to think of people as a skin color or class or religion. My sister's bosses would continueally tell her that she was wrong for her beliefs, and she should come to their church, and that if she didn't she would be going to hell, and they did not believe in dancing or singing. However, when I was in high school I went to an Episcopalian church with a then-friend of mine and felt very accepted. They have women priests, and allow gay marriages. These are two ends of a very broad spectrum, yet these groups both follow The Bible. My point is, words are subject to interpretation. Words have limited control over helping us to understand, and sometimes the more words we use, well, the less effective they become and the more distorted they become over time. Have you ever played the game "Telephone"?<br><br>Om Shanti<br>Erica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2001 Report Share Posted October 17, 2001 Greetings Erica,<br><br>First of all, sorry for having 'coined' a "new" word !!<br>The word is actually 'disabuse', which is a transitive verb.<br><br>This is what the Merriam-Webster has to say about disabuse:<br><br>"Main Entry: dis·abuse <br>Pronunciation: "di-s&-'byüz<br>Etymology: French désabuser, from dés- dis- + abuser to abuse<br>1611<br>: to free from error, fallacy, or misconception"<br><br>Religion, like everything else, evolves over a period of time out of a cycle of conception, misconception and the resolution of that misconception.<br><br>What I say here is by no means original. The genesis of this idea is the same Hegelian concept of evolution of ideas.<br><br>However, in deviation from that, I would say that religion evolves, not because someone someday "finds a better idea", but because the existing ideals of religion become so far removed from reality that it does not serve the purpose and does not provide any emotional and social fulfillement to its followers.<br><br>All religions have evolved this way, including Christianity.<br>The 'disabuse-ment' of people with the Catholic form of Christianity gave rise to the Protestant form.<br>Similarly, all the other flavours of Christinaity arose and evolved because some or the other social group/class could not equate their religion with their social goals and ambitions.<br><br>Examples: the rise of Presbyterian and other flavours of Christianity during the late middle ages and the English civil war era can be traced back to the rising aspirations and ambitions of the different social groups and classes during those times and their socio-political ambitions.<br><br>Over a period of the next few hundred years, several other strains emerged from those religions.<br><br>[Contd...in another message. word limit D'oh] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2001 Report Share Posted October 17, 2001 [....contd from previous message in same thread]<br><br>Thus, the cycle of religious evolution is:<br><br>1. Disenchantment and dissatisfaction of certain groups/classes of people with a particular religion or religious order.<br><br>2. Forming of a variant, or a different flavour of the religion, or forming the idea of an entirely new religion.<br><br>3. Establishing the religious institutions and religious orders of this new religion.<br><br>4. Acceptance of these new religious institutions by the common people and, over time, a firm entrenchment of these institutions into the social fabric.<br><br>5. With these institutions becoming more and more significant vis-a-vis the society, and the controllers of these institutions bearing more and more influence over its followers, a gradual corruption and manipulation of these institutions by the ruling elite of the society.<br><br>6. An extreme stage where these so-called religious institutions are weilded exclusively for and by the dominant classes and groups in the society, to the exclusion and expolitation of the other masses.<br><br>7. Return to 1, and so on throughout history and to the present day.<br><br>Point 2 in the above cycle is important. Disenchantment with a particular religious institution can lead to either a branching off of that religion, or the establishment of a new religion altogether.<br><br>For example, the establishment of Protestantism is an example of branching off from Catholic Christianity, whereas the emergence of Buddhism is an example of a new religion emerging because of the problems existing with the existing predominat religion (Hinduism, in this example).<br><br>It is very easy to trace this cycle by following this example.<br>Hinduism, at that point in History, was dominated and expolited by the ruling classes-namely the Kshtriya and the Brahaman classes.<br>That gave rise to Buddhism as a new and fresh religion-a welcome break from the corrupt and tainted institutions of Hinduism.<br><br>It attracted a lot of followers, right from India to Sri Lanka in the South and to Japan and Thailand in the far east.<br><br>However, over a period of several 1000 years, Buddhism itself had become so corrupted that two distinct branches arose-Mahayana and Hinayana.<br><br>Later on, several other arose, such as Theravada and Vajrayana.<br>Each of these is now in such a decadent stage that people are once again crying out for changes.<br><br>Coming back to Hinduism, it has long ago outlived its appeal and its significance in modern society.<br>The only form of Hindusim that we see now is the militant form and the impoverished form.<br><br>The militant form is the one in which certain groups, mainly in India, are ready to take-up arms in a reactionary defense of Hindusim against Christianity and Islam.<br>The impoverised form in the one in which rituals are strictly followed by people in the lower strata of the society.<br>It has no, or at best a symbolic, significance for most other people.<br>Mind you, these two forms are still important in sustaining it. These militant groups are the present day version of the militant sadhus and warriors who protected the Indian subcontinent from the Islamic invasion. All Hindus owe a lot to them. Otherwise, Hinduism and Indian culture, as we know it today, would not have existed, but for these brave groups.<br><br>However, Hinduism, as a religion, has far outlived its significance in modern society.<br>For that matter, most other religions have.<br>Religion, as we all know it today is simply an instrument used to control the minds of people and make them believe that there are powers beyond the body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2001 Report Share Posted October 17, 2001 Respected tatwamasi,<br><br>Thank you for writing in such details.<br><br>All religions are developed on faith. And the faith depends not only on the family back ground, Place, Education and culture of the personbut also on the Karma of his previous birth and Mind.<br><br>With regards.<br><br>jyotishguru Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2001 Report Share Posted October 18, 2001 Blessed Self, silentopposition<br><br>Your characterization of how religions can disagree with each other and how different sects of a religion can spring up reminds me of a joke:<br><br>There was a Christian and a Hindu having a debate about religion. Naturally, the debate soon degenerated into a contest about whose religion was the best.<br><br>The Christian said, "God speaks to us. We live by His Word. The universe lives by his Word. Don't forget that 'In the beginning was the Word.' "<br><br>The Hindu said, "That is all very interesting. But we know what that Word is. It is AUM."<br><br><br>These two fellow spiritual travellers could have saved themselves a lot of stress and karma if their conversation had been more co-operative and sattvic instead of adversarial.<br><br>For example:<br><br>The Christian said, "In Exodus 3:14 God said unto Moses, 'I AM THAT I AM.' " <br><br>The Hindu replied, "I agree. So Ham." <br><br><br>Both the joke and the example demonstrate that while the public face of the religion is different and sometimes adversarial, all religions are based on the same immutable Truth that is open to all those who approach their religion and their fellow man with openness, serenity, equinimity and a longing for God.<br><br>Paths are many but Truth is One.<br>Paths are many but God is One.<br><br>Om namah Sivaya<br><br>Omprem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2001 Report Share Posted October 18, 2001 I agree that the way different religions fight amongst themselves is nothing but a joke.<br>However, I think that this is inherent in the nature of religion itself, and not just a particular religion.<br>Religion and spiritualism drives one away from reality and secularism.<br>It makes people concentrate on life beyond this world, beyond this mind and body and to dominate the 'worldly' with the 'unworldly".<br>Since religion has arisen from class societies like the vedic Indian society and the tribal socities (in the case of Islam) it breeds conflict.<br>All religion is a representation of conflict.<br><br>I agree with a previous poster that spiritualism is a different, albeit related, aspect of religion.<br>However, spiritualism is non-secular in character and abstracts the realities of the world, abstracts the reasons for conflict, pain, suffereing and war.<br>It prevents you from seeing what is behind the veil of religious and cultural ideas. In essense, it prevents you from exploring the real causes of conflicts, suffering and dissatisfaction.<br>It also makes a person inward-looking and individualistic.<br><br>In a related thread, a poster said that she considers love for all fellowmen as a way of life.<br>I agree with this. Love and compassion are above all religion. The powers and bonds of compassion should transcend all religion and should be the unifying factor in civilisation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2001 Report Share Posted October 18, 2001 Religion is nothing but a joke. Your post reminded me of a joke. <br><br>A man went to the Post Office to buy stamps for Christmas cards.<br><br>"What denomination?" asked the clerk. <br><br>"Oh, good heavens! Have we come to this?" said the man, "Well, give me 50 Catholic and 50 Baptist ones." <br><br><br><br>Who is sivananda? I never heard of such a saint. <br>what does Prem mean? <br><br>your dasa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2001 Report Share Posted October 18, 2001 Blessed Self, silentopposition<br><br>Guru Nanak, the founder of the Sikh religion or spiritual path, would agree with you when you say, "Love and compassion are above all religion. The powers and bonds of compassion should transcend all religion and should be the unifying factor in civilisation."<br><br>Guru Nanak phrased it this way: " Truth is greater than everything but higher still is true living."<br><br>True living is to live as one's authentic Self, to live in love and compassion, and to live with the grace of Brahman flowing through you.<br><br>True living entails that the aspirant strive to cultivate serenity, compassion, equanimity, fearlessness, openness and egolessness. Anger, desire, emotions, dry intellect, ego, judgement and over-reliance on the senses are all barriers to true living.<br><br>It is not the religions that are flawed, it is some of the practitioners of those religions who are flawed and have a flawed understanding of their religion.<br><br>Om namah Sivaya<br><br>Omprem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2001 Report Share Posted October 18, 2001 Dear Silentopposition,<br><br>In your post you state, that 'spiritualism' - although I originally raised the concept od spirituality, subtly different - 'prevents you from seeing what is behind the veil of religious and cultural ideas ... [and] from exploring the real causes of conflicts, suffering and dissatisfaction. It also makes a person inward-looking and individualistic.'<br><br>I have to disagree, in that I feel having an active spiritual dimension balances my political and social awareness. In the past, I have become very depressed by my participation in numerous causes to further equality and respect and to reduce suffering. While I have cated passionately about these causes, I have tended to become worn down by the feeling of my efforts being nothing more than 'a drop in the ocean'.<br><br>At the moment, I feel that paying attention to my spiritual needs helps me to survive better, to allow me to retain my love and compassion without becoming overburdened by the amount of pain and inequity in the world. Otherwise, each time I see an act perpetrated which is utterly without such compassion, I feel pained myself.<br><br>Just the viewpoint of an Englishwoman inclined to depression <br><br>Padma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2001 Report Share Posted October 19, 2001 Thanks, Prem! <br><br>You like my joke. I have many. Once, a catholic priest, a Rabbi, and a Mullah were bathing in a river. <br>They did not have their swimming trunks on. Just then some ladies passed by. The catholic priest and the Mullah rushed to cover their 'private parts' but the Rabbi covered his 'face.' the other two were surprised to see this. So, the mulllah asked, " why on earth, are you covering your face.?" The Rabbi replied, " my dear, those are the ladies from my synagogue. They will recognize my face before they recognize my "privates" .<br><br>I will check out the site you mentioned. But, I use the library to surf the web I am only allowed one hour. Brother Prem, I am homeless and penniless. I used to be a Liftman in wtc. now no job. no food. I go to sikh temple . They serve poori, chana and halwa. I luv that. <br><br>i will say- om om om . prem prem prem prem. divine love. i luv love . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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