Guest guest Posted February 3, 2002 Report Share Posted February 3, 2002 An Internet site for family issues recently published an article dealing with the common problem of aggression in children. Many parents, having had no success despite trying various methods to contain their children’s anger, manifesting as mild to intense aggression, had sent in their issues, seeking guidance. A mother of a five-year-old son said that the boy gets so angry that he hits, punches or kicks the closest person to him. She added that despite her son’s non-aggressive upbringing, trying non-aggressive methods, teaching him to handle his anger constructively, preventing exposure to action packed programs, etc., it is getting harder to control his anger. In response to such queries, the article gave guidelines to parents that included pin-pointing the circumstances that provoke the children’s anger, continuing with their current methods to control the children’s anger, allowing them to be angry, but not violent, enrolling them in martial arts classes, etc. The guidance further mentioned that with these techniques, the parents should see gradual progress, but if there is none, they should consult a professional counselor for their children. <br><br>The fact that young children display such anger, despite non-aggressive and careful upbringing, clearly shows that such behavior arises from personality defects, mostly beyond external circumstances. Hence, external measures like teaching the children non-aggressive ways of expressing anger would only treat the symptoms. Since negative behavior arises from deep-rooted undesirable subconscious impressions * and even subtler factors like trouble from negative energies, unsatisfied ancestors’ souls, etc., lasting relief can come only with subtle measures like spiritual practice.<br><br>Repeating The Lord’s Name** is not only a powerful spiritual practice to overcome such deep-rooted problems, but also is simple enough to be taught to children as young as three years of age. Depending on the severity of the problem, parents can daily repeat 6 to 18 turns of a rosary for their children, who are incapable of doing so for themselves.<br><br>Source <a href=http://www.sanatan.org/weekly target=new>http://www.sanatan.org/weekly</a> (Issue # 108) <br><br>**The Lord’s Name as per one’s religion. <br>*For details about the subconscious mind, refer to Issue #23 Clarifications of Doubts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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