Guest guest Posted December 12, 2004 Report Share Posted December 12, 2004 <http://www.bestcoachesinc.com> UNREASONABLE SUCCESS TO YOUR DREAMS Healing the Un-healable This past month, I've been privileged with two incredible stories of how powerful people can be in attracting good health into our lives even when all odds are against us to live on. The common theme between the stories that follow is both people were operating from the conviction that their recovery was a "done deal." The first is from Frank, a former participant in the 90-Day Dream TeamT and whom I have had the honor and privilege to know and support while dealing with his sister's illness. What follows, in his words, is the unreasonable success in her recovery. ... This time last summer my family and I were spending a lot of time on the neuro ICU of the Mass General Hospital in Boston. My oldest sister Anna was diagnosed with a brain tumor and subsequently a very virulent strain of lung cancer, for which the prognosis and survival rate are very, very low (less than 5% survive beyond 5 years.) My sister made it through three brain surgeries, a life threatening cerebral infection and just completed 7 months worth of chemo. She completed her regimen a week ago and had her final diagnostic exams this past Thursday. I have to admit that I . was preparing for results that would indicate, more treatment, continued compromise of her quality of life, and ultimate regression of her condition.. This what she got.... she is cancer free, no masses, no tumors, no cellular activity, total response to treatment. The oncologists had very little explanation. According to them less than two percent of the cases of her type of cancer have any positive response to drug treatment, let alone total response. As her senior oncologist said, they never get to give this kind of news to their patients. Her case is so rare that they cannot give any prognosis because they have no statistical data, no history to base it on. September of last year the Dalai Llama came to the Beacon Theater and gave talks over a period of 4 days. My sister was determined to come see him despite recently having had brain surgery to remove the initial tumor that was discovered. She was in the midst of developing a very serious complication unbeknownst to us all. I had only a single ticket for that Saturday so she had to go in on her own. My younger sister and I got her inside and had to trust her to the ushers and the other people in attendance. The short of it was that she left soon after the session started, unable to sit for very long in the theater seats at the Beacon.. My younger sister and I returned to the two exits to intercept her at the appointed time assuming that Anna would either be the first or last one to exit the theater. We couldn't find her. Group upon group emerged from the theater but there was no sign. I left my younger sister to watch the main entrance while I circled back to the side exit, half expecting that Anna had managed to find a way to the entourage surrounding His Holiness. As I circled around, I see her standing in front of the Beacon Hotel, which is adjacent to the theater. She is holding the hands of an elderly monk, their foreheads touching. I had no doubt what she was saying to him although I was far enough away that I could not hear. I approached slowly thinking it could not be, that the Dalai Llama had such a large entourage and security etc and their were Tibetan monks all over the place, but still.... as I drew near I saw that this was not who I knew my sister thought it might be, especially in her compromised state of health and mind at that point. As the elderly monk drew away my sister was in shock and disbelief saying that he had told her not to worry that she would live long and would be fine, and of course convinced she had met His Holiness face to face. While I do not doubt that she met a lama that day, I knew it was not His Holiness, but I dared not say. She was convinced and that was all that mattered from that day forward through today. The last twelve months were filled with very dark moments as you can imagine, but this chance meeting endured in her mind even in the most confused and distorted states she had to endure and it sustained her extreme determination to overcome her circumstances. I can't make sense of everything I have been witness to over the last year. the best answer I have found is that if we can die to each day and face the next as if it were the first, new, unknown and uncertain anything really is possible despite how it may appear. --Frank Mancini, NYC, October 14th,2004 More to follow in a future e-mail. Namaste, Stefan Doering <http://www.bestcoachesinc.com> <http://www.bestcoachesinc.com> BEST Coaches, Inc. (Balance Empowerment Success Training) <http://visitor.constantcontact.com/optin.jsp?m=1011110683337&ea=> Subscribe Me! <http://www.bestcoachesinc.com> Visit our website <http://www.bestcoachesinc.com> P: 646.485.7688 F: 347.521.9366 <sdoering%20,isikyolculari Email us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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