Guest guest Posted August 18, 2003 Report Share Posted August 18, 2003 "...You may indulge in thoughts such as "it will be nice if some trouble befalls them". If this feeling is intense and if your mind is also powerful, the emotional flood itself can cause harm to that person. This is how curse works. Is this not violence ? Eventhough your feeling may not assume as menacing proportions as a curse, it still amounts to violence by virtue of its wicked nature. This concept implicated by the above Sookti is of paramount importance to those who are in the path of spiritual sadhana. ..." from below: Sookti Manjari Ahimsa paramo dharmah (non-violence is the ultimate dharma) is a very popular saying. Normally, people apply this to actions such as wars, killing animals, hunting etc. Strangely, people do not apply it to themselves in their day to day life. True, killings are violent acts. Violence need not be always in the form of killing. Causing minor injuries is also violence. Hurting in any manner is violence. Is not harassing your subordinate in your office with a load of work beyond his capabilities an unjust and therefore a violent act ? Is not admonishing your wife without reason or rhyme also an act of violence? Is not being deceitful at the time of dividing the assets of your late father with his legal heirs an unfair and thus a vicious attitude? We encounter such questions in our own life as well as in the lives of our relatives and friends. When such things take place in our own life, we do not see even a shadow of the question mark. We believe that our actions do not fall within the definition of violence. Why? We simply assume that we know many things for sure and forge ahead blindly. This is indeed the cause for many emotional conflicts in life. For example, every one of us take it for granted that we know the meaning of "I". In reality, the true knowledge of "I" eludes even scholars. In fact, if its true meaning is realised, it means that the person has achieved the ultimate purpose of life! There are many such commonly used words for which we do not know the correct meaning. Himsa (violence) is also one such word, the meaning of which is poorly understood by most of us. We think that the word Himsa (hurting) means killing. This meaning seems correct to most of us. Let us consider an example. Someone starts praising you. He will praise you to such an extent that you get carried away and start giving away as gift all your possessions. After you come to terms with reality and when you get over the euphoria caused by praise, you will feel that the person cheated you and ruined you. Now you feel that you were actually harmed by that person even though he only praised you. Let us consider another example. A person with a non-healing wound in his leg goes to a doctor. The doctor decides that the wound can not be healed and that a part of the leg has to be removed to save the leg. The surgeon removes the decaying part. Now, if the patient cries that the doctor has caused Himsa to him, (harmed him), do we agree with him? No. With these two examples in mind, let us try to understand the real meaning of Himsa (harm). When we understand what constitutes Himsa (violence), we can comprehend what Ahimsa (non-violence) is. We will then be able to reap the benefits of observing non-violence. Keeping this in mind, observe this Sookti - Dvesha eva hi himsaa syaat Premaivaahimsanam matam Prayoktushcha prayuktasyaa vubhe dattah samam phalam Hatred is violence, love is non-violence- says this Sookti. It means that when the feeling of hatred resides in the heart in any form - words, actions or thoughts, it amounts to violence. There was a secret resolve in Shakuni's mind to destroy Duryodhana. He first earned Duryodhana's friendship and confidence. He used to praise Duryodhana for everything and supported him even when he indulged in wicked deeds. Shakuni's idea was that by doing so, he could make Duryodhana bloat with ego and develop enemity with the Pandavas and Lord Krishna which would eventually spell doom for the latter. Is this attitude Himsa? Or Ahimsa? The above Sookti leaves us in no doubt about the verdict. Though Shakuni's words were as sweet as honey and although he did not physically harm Duryodhana, what he did was nothing but harm. Most people indulge in such thoughts - though not in such magnitude as Shakuni did. At such times we justify ourselves saying that it is only a diplomatic approach and a strategy for achieving what we desire. We must realise that this Sookti is meant to ring the bell of caution in our hearts at such times. Sometimes hatred does not even manifest in the form of speech. It assumes the form of emotional vibrations. For instance you become jealous and angry that one of your colleagues got a promotion. You can not express your displeasure openly (through words) against your colleague or the person who gave him the promotion. What do you do? You secretly wish evil to them. You may indulge in thoughts such as "it will be nice if some trouble befalls them". If this feeling is intense and if your mind is also powerful, the emotional flood itself can cause harm to that person. This is how curse works. Is this not violence ? Eventhough your feeling may not assume as menacing proportions as a curse, it still amounts to violence by virtue of its wicked nature. This concept implicated by the above Sookti is of paramount importance to those who are in the path of spiritual sadhana. The following verse is chanted at the end of the prayer session everyday in the Ashrama - Sarve cha sukhinah santu , sarve santu niraamayaah Sarve bhadrani pashyantu , maa kashchit duhkhabhaak bhavet "May all of us live happily. May us all be healthy. May auspiciousness shower on us all. May not a single being be unhappy" is the meaning of this prayer. This is an emotional prayer. It is directly opposite to mental violence. In other words, it emanates from a heart that is devoid of hatred and is filled with love. Violence, which has its root in hatred bears the fruit called sin. Conversely, non-violence, which comes out of love bears the fruit called merit. Because greatmen pray - "Sarve cha sukhinah santu ......" at the end of all rituals, we can infer that it is a magnanimous attitude. It is needless to say that wicked thoughts arising out of hatred are equally heinous and sinful. The second line of the above Sookti ('Perm eva ahimsanam matam') reflects the same concept. The father scolding his son for neglecting his studies, the police behaving mercilessly with criminals in order to protect the society, the doctor prescribing strict dietetic regimen on his patient so that he recovers quickly, the husband imposing strict rules on his wife in order to ensure discipline - none of these actions can be labelled as violence (eventhough force is employed in each case) simply because the intention behind these actions is good. We have seen that knowledgeable persons have affirmed Ahimsa to be the harbinger of merit. Extending the concept, we can deduce that hatred, in whichever form it manifests, will result in accumulation of sin. If you are weak mentally and physically, you may not be able to inflict much harm on the other person. But that does not render your attitude less sinful. The sin you thus accumulate will have to be paid for here or hereafter. Similarly, the merit you acquire by practising non-violence will also reap its fruits to be enjoyed here or hereafter. It is said in the above Sookti that the fruit of action - good or bad - will affect both the doer and the enjoyer (or sufferer, as the case may be) equally (Prayoktuscha-prayuktasya-api -ubheh dattah samam phalam). If you harm someone out of hatred, he will suffer immediately. You will pay for it later. If you do good to someone out of love, he will enjoy instantaneously. You will reap the benefit later. Here, samam phalam (equal fruits) means that you will suffer if you make others suffer and you will enjoy if you make others enjoy. It does not mean that the effect is equal in intensity for both the persons. You can not think - "If the aftermath of my action is only as much as the effect of my action now, I would rather inflict harm on him now". Because of the distress you are now causing, you will face remorse later. The seed that you have sown now will take some time to sprout, grow in to a big tree and bear fruits. But you can not imagine how many fruits and seeds will come out of the tree, for which you have sown the seed. You will have to reap it all. You can not escape it. Let us therefore practise goodness in thoughts, actions and words. Sri Swamiji. ******** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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