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I have a question .......i want to be a full spirited person .....and

enlightened .....but my parents are very closed minded when it comes to me

........ if i try to change my style or whatever their never ..openminded to

that ....they always ..blame it on my friends ...or something like that ..and

they still think im a child ....but im 17 and goin to college this fall

.......my friends are the coolest friends ...they dress how they feel about

things ....they dress appropriate ......and are very open minded to new ideas

etc . my mom always has something to say ......and thinks shes right and

never heres me out ......and my dads in his own world .....its hard to be ur

own person when ur mom especailly thinks ur copying from ur friends

.........this is really pissing me off .....and i always result in using

valgor language to solve my problems .......if u think you can help me

pleaaaaaassssee !!!! respond

 

PEAcE & LoVe

BYRD 182

"Give PEACE a chance "

 

"Living is easy with eyes closed.....misunderstanding all you see , its

getting hard to be someone but it all works out .......it doesnt matter much

to me ..."

(J.LENNON)

Come Join Us On This Long Hot Summer Night's Trip On Our Way To The Third

Stone From The Sun. When We Leave The Redhouse We Will Ride The Dragonfly In

The Crosstown Traffic Then Use Spanish Castle Magic As We Pass Thru The

Purple Haze On Our Way To The Castles Made Of Sand. O Rainy Day Lets All Just

Dream Away On Our Way To Meet The Voodoo Child That Came Back A Magic Boy

With Gypsy Eyes. He Told Us If 6 Was 9 We Won't Mind.

Just Ask The Axis He knows everyhing!

....And The Gods Made Love. ( Some of Jimi Hendrix song titles put into

a story )

 

"I can remember music and stars and planets. I could go to sleep and write

fifteen symphonies. I had very strange feelins that I was here for something

and I was going to get a chance to be heard."

-- Jimi Hendrix, 1969

 

No use if feeling lonely

I am you searching to be free

the story

of life is quicker

than the wink of an eye

the story of love

is hello and good-bye

until we meet again...

Jimi Hendrix' last poem

 

" Im the one who dies when its time for me to die so let me live my life the

way I want to" (Jimi Hendrix)

" Those who know do not speak ., those who speak do not know " ( Lao Tzu)

" If u look for it , it happends , if u wait for it , its luck " ( David

Peel )

" All castles made of sand slip into the sea eventually" ( Jimi Hendrix )

"OUR DESTINY IS TO BE HAPPY"

- Yogi Bhajan

" All you need is LOVE " ( BEATLES)

 

"Strawberry fields forever" ( BEATLES, J. LENNON)

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PEAcE & LoVe

BYRD 182

"Give PEACE a chance "

 

"Living is easy with eyes closed.....misunderstanding all you see , its

getting hard to be someone but it all works out .......it doesnt matter much

to me ..."

(J.LENNON)

Come Join Us On This Long Hot Summer Night's Trip On Our Way To The Third

Stone From The Sun. When We Leave The Redhouse We Will Ride The Dragonfly In

The Crosstown Traffic Then Use Spanish Castle Magic As We Pass Thru The

Purple Haze On Our Way To The Castles Made Of Sand. O Rainy Day Lets All Just

Dream Away On Our Way To Meet The Voodoo Child That Came Back A Magic Boy

With Gypsy Eyes. He Told Us If 6 Was 9 We Won't Mind.

Just Ask The Axis He knows everyhing!

....And The Gods Made Love. ( Some of Jimi Hendrix song titles put into

a story )

 

"I can remember music and stars and planets. I could go to sleep and write

fifteen symphonies. I had very strange feelins that I was here for something

and I was going to get a chance to be heard."

-- Jimi Hendrix, 1969

 

No use if feeling lonely

I am you searching to be free

the story

of life is quicker

than the wink of an eye

the story of love

is hello and good-bye

until we meet again...

Jimi Hendrix' last poem

 

" Im the one who dies when its time for me to die so let me live my life the

way I want to" (Jimi Hendrix)

" Those who know do not speak ., those who speak do not know " ( Lao Tzu)

" If u look for it , it happends , if u wait for it , its luck " ( David

Peel )

" All castles made of sand slip into the sea eventually" ( Jimi Hendrix )

"OUR DESTINY IS TO BE HAPPY"

- Yogi Bhajan

" All you need is LOVE " ( BEATLES)

 

"Strawberry fields forever" ( BEATLES, J. LENNON)

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Hi Byrd,

 

I had the same problem with my parents. I slowly opened them up by giving

them spiritual books on the things they are interested in. For example since

they are Baptist I let them read a book about the lost years of Jesus. Then

after that I gave them books about life after death and how wonderful it is

to "be". I then talked to a Psychic and she told my that and Indian my

grandpa(part Indian) was sorry he was never around his father. I told my dad

this and it shocked him. You see my grandpa is really an Indian and a

Pullman Porter in the early 1900's, he was never around his children as much

as he wanted to be. He started crying when I told him this. So as you see,

you have to show them slowly that things like this aren't bad. I grew up

thinking spiritual things was bad. Many people grew up like this and only

few see the light. Open them up by "making" them watch a spiritual movie

like the 6th Sense. Don't show them the cover and the title of the movie.

Let the following page help you, it's a very cool webpage:

http://www.near-death.com/

 

 

Love and Light,

Chris H

 

 

 

BYRD182 [bYRD182]

Thursday, January 06, 2000 10:23 PM

Kundaliniyoga

HELP!!

 

 

I have a question .......i want to be a full spirited person .....and

enlightened .....but my parents are very closed minded when it comes to me

........ if i try to change my style or whatever their never ..openminded to

 

that ....they always ..blame it on my friends ...or something like that

...and

they still think im a child ....but im 17 and goin to college this fall

.......my friends are the coolest friends ...they dress how they feel about

things ....they dress appropriate ......and are very open minded to new

ideas

etc . my mom always has something to say ......and thinks shes right and

never heres me out ......and my dads in his own world .....its hard to be ur

 

own person when ur mom especailly thinks ur copying from ur friends

.........this is really pissing me off .....and i always result in using

valgor language to solve my problems .......if u think you can help me

pleaaaaaassssee !!!! respond

 

PEAcE & LoVe

BYRD 182

"Give PEACE a chance "

 

"Living is easy with eyes closed.....misunderstanding all you see , its

getting hard to be someone but it all works out .......it doesnt matter much

 

to me ..."

(J.LENNON)

Come Join Us On This Long Hot Summer Night's Trip On Our Way To The

Third

Stone From The Sun. When We Leave The Redhouse We Will Ride The Dragonfly In

 

The Crosstown Traffic Then Use Spanish Castle Magic As We Pass Thru The

Purple Haze On Our Way To The Castles Made Of Sand. O Rainy Day Lets All

Just

Dream Away On Our Way To Meet The Voodoo Child That Came Back A Magic Boy

With Gypsy Eyes. He Told Us If 6 Was 9 We Won't Mind.

Just Ask The Axis He knows everyhing!

....And The Gods Made Love. ( Some of Jimi Hendrix song titles put

into

a story )

 

"I can remember music and stars and planets. I could go to sleep and write

fifteen symphonies. I had very strange feelins that I was here for something

 

and I was going to get a chance to be heard."

-- Jimi Hendrix, 1969

 

No use if feeling lonely

I am you searching to be free

the story

of life is quicker

than the wink of an eye

the story of love

is hello and good-bye

until we meet again...

Jimi Hendrix' last poem

 

" Im the one who dies when its time for me to die so let me live my life the

 

way I want to" (Jimi Hendrix)

" Those who know do not speak ., those who speak do not know " ( Lao Tzu)

" If u look for it , it happends , if u wait for it , its luck " ( David

Peel )

" All castles made of sand slip into the sea eventually" ( Jimi Hendrix )

"OUR DESTINY IS TO BE HAPPY"

- Yogi Bhajan

" All you need is LOVE " ( BEATLES)

 

"Strawberry fields forever" ( BEATLES, J. LENNON)

 

 

 

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Your cry for understanding reminds me of an old Cat Stevens song, "Father and

Son."

I listened to that song a lot in the early 70's when I was in college. I

didn't know why I liked it so much. It was soothing even though it didn't

seem to affect my stormy relationship with my folks cause they still urked

the hell out of me. Parental/child conflict seems to be our way of

establishing our own identity. Because our folks are the ones who support us

they feel compelled to "do what's right" and they will voice their opinions

"for our own good.

 

It was only in my 30's that I realized that they did the best they could for

me even though it wasn't all perfect. Now they've passed on and I feel

greatful to have had a mother who loved me and taught me how to sincerely

care about others as well as a father who sent me to college and gave me a

very stable home to grow up in.

 

I don't think there is one answer for you on what you can do to make your

parents be what you want them to be or vice/versa. Cultivating compassion by

imagining what they are feeling may help. Perhaps your longing is the first

step for a change in this relationship. As the I Ching says "Perserverance

Furthers."

 

I wish you the best,

 

Julia

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