Guest guest Posted August 18, 2000 Report Share Posted August 18, 2000 Hi everyone, I had posted a question in a while. I received interesting responds and some few comments which I would like to address. First of all my experience is not related to menopause or even early menopause. The Doctor confirmed that. The other comment is about having intuition. I believe that a lot of people don't trust themselves regarding this matter. I don't think I have a especial power and for a very long time I didn't trust my intuition either. I think everyone had this but we don't reach inside ourselves to touch it. Kundalini yoga helped me a lot about it. I don't want to talk too much about my experiences but I just want to say that there are a lot of things that can not be explained by thinking. It is easy to say than doing it. Good luck to all, Mitra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2000 Report Share Posted August 19, 2000 I think a lot of the mistrust in ourselves is due to certain programming, if you trust, respect, and believe in yourself some may look at you as being conceited or full of yourself. Taking the time for Kundalini Yoga not only helps get you in touch with your higher self, inner being, inner guidance, it helps you to trust in that part of you. I used to be one of those people looking for outside approval, looking everywhere but inside for answers to all my questions and not trusting in what my inner guidance was telling me. What a tough road that was. It does nothing for your energy system but weaken and stagnate it. Then I got to the point where I was receiving messages, but I doubted the information. The great thing about that was I was paying attention to them, even though I had my doubts. It was easier then to say "Oh yeah, I felt that or knew that!" As of today I have many things on my plate, and I have to say with shame that I have not practiced Kundalini in about three months. But, reading this list makes me realize just how bad I miss it. October 15th I start a three week fast for my final Reiki class, you better believe I will start my day at 4:30 a.m. searching for the strength within through Kundalini Yoga. Those who know me well know the a.m. is not my best time. ;O) Many blessings to all. May light and love guide you, surround you, and protect you. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2000 Report Share Posted August 19, 2000 Chris, I read your message about the Kundalini yo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2000 Report Share Posted August 19, 2000 Chris, I read your message about the Kundalini intuition and I was hoping that y Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2000 Report Share Posted August 19, 2000 cont. that yo could help me in that regard. You see, I am tryng to find myself and I know that inside of me is a beautiful person but now I can not even trust that there is such a person so I relay on others for gradification. Please write me back and help me with some mediation techinques or some advise to assist me in my quest. Lola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2000 Report Share Posted August 21, 2000 Lola: I cannot say that I have ever been one to find approval in others. I was more the type to feel more insecure about my self worth because of others' lack of approval, even though I knew that meant nothing and that I was a worthwhile human being, yada yada, even if others didn't see it. Then I got sick and lost my job and all sorts of changes took place in my life that caused me to search for my own truth, too. Yoga happened to be a part of it. I haven't done much Kundalini - mostly hatha - but I've gotta say that it alone helped me enormously is getting in touch with the inner truth and hence finding my inner peace. I realize now just how much even I was taking cues from an outside world who's opinions I never even much respected. But I guess I respected - or at least, trusted, my own less. I think just the very process of yoga and meditation will change all that for you, too. Once you start tuning in to your body to feel the sensations, the energy, that Kundalini (or any yoga, for that matter) stirs up, you will start getting more in touch with how you feel, the pure, uncensored, untainted feelings that the outside world has nothing to do with. Once you become more in tune with your own body, you should also begin to notice how YOU feel about things more, YOUR opinions and reactions to things, and care less and less about what others think. You will develop a confidence, a trust, in your own senses, because of how tuned in to them you become and how pure and honest they are. Little by little, you will know yourself more and more, start listening to yourself more, and the respect you give to what YOU feel will empower those feelings all the more so, and so on. Then, not only wont other people's opinions matter as much, but you might actually begin to find that your own newfound confidence in your own, plus the stronger energy behind you, will actually help shape the feelings of those around you. Hopefully, more positively. And you will know yourself in a completely different way than you ever have, and, I'm sure, like yourself more too. For now, try to remember, when you find yourself looking to others for approval, or answers, that its a cue to tune inward. Take a deep breathe, maybe even close your eyes, and just listen to what's going on inside of you. Even if you cannot fully believe in what you feel, out of habit, make a decision now to just trust it, implicitly, and honor it. This honor you give to yourself will give YOU the freedom to let itself be heard more and more. And that's a wonderful thing! All the best, Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2000 Report Share Posted August 22, 2000 >>> Message ISueMarcus Once you become more in tune with your own body, you should also begin to notice how YOU feel about things more, YOUR opinions and reactions to things, and care less and less about what others think. >>> This is so true. I grew up a very shy child/ teenager. Most of my life, I had believed everyone elses' opinion mattered much more than my own. The biggest difference I've received through my daily KY practice now is more confidence. I voice my opinion more. Criticism doesn't sting as much. I still have a lot of work to do though. There are days where I slip. And as far as yoga is cocerned, I'd be damned if I could stand in tree pose for more than 15 seconds! (The pose of being grounded and confident!) But I'm getting there. I am getting there! Sat nam, Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2000 Report Share Posted August 22, 2000 Angie: Brava! Interesting that you should give that example. I have found recently that balance poses are pretty much about confidence. I used to feel my balance slipping and give in to it; put my foot down. Now, I put my foot down metaphorically instead, and insist on staying up there. The littlest muscles in my feet started to respond to my determination and lo and behold, when I believe I can stay in tree pose, I can. My mind concentrates on it and it happens. That's the thing I love so much about yoga. Not only does listening to your body effect your mind/consciousness, but your body also listens to your mind. I guess its like any bridge or tunnel you build - it works just as strongly going in both directions. My teacher always says that the balancing poses are great for preparing your public self, for instilling confidence. Don't know if you also practice any hatha, but I find - and the lore has it - that the warrior poses also work wonders in this area. Do you know them? Have you done them? Thanks for responding with your story about your shyness. I love hearing anything about yoga healing the soul. ... Good luck! Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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