Guest guest Posted December 10, 2001 Report Share Posted December 10, 2001 Sat nam Everyone, Dharam & Sunder Kaur, I will appreciate you sending the material on Forgiveness, please. Thank you, Blessings, Chama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2001 Report Share Posted December 10, 2001 In response to Maria Mazin, there is a very good yoga set called "Ten Steps to Peace", to Remove Bad Memories and Painful Experiences. The steps take you through to forgiveness. The set is in the book "Physical Wisdom". If you don't have it I will e-mail it to you. Hope this helps you leave your past behind and move forward. Sat Nam. Sunder Kaur. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2001 Report Share Posted December 10, 2001 Sat Nam, Dear Cris and Gururattan kaur, Thank you for sharing this it really touched a thread with what is going on with me in my life right now. I was just speaking with someone today who I have had severe relationship issues with in the past and told them that I have forgiven them and released all of the hurt fear and anger that I have held onto for so long.. that I needed to do it for me and that I was tired of living in the past and holding on to past emotions and situations that could never be undone or changed...that I had to live in the moment of each day and embrace it fully as it came and not in the past or in the future. I have been doing intense meditation and reflection and chanting the triple mantra CD daily.. I am amazed at how much it has helped me. When I saw the post on forgiveness today it really seemed to be there just for me to see. Thankyou for sharing something so personal it really helped me to know I was on the right track and to trust in my instincts to release and let go. sincerely Jennie --- Cris Naugle <cris wrote: > Hi, Siri Gopal Kaur > > If I were to die tomorrow, forgiving my father will > stand out as my > toughest accomplishment. Each life/path being > different, I off you a few > things that made this possible: > > 1. I had to look back at him as an adult, regardless > of my age, I was > responding to him as a child -because I experienced > him as a child. When > I looked back at him as an adult and viewed his > behavior as an adult it > became more embarrassing than evil. > > 2. I researched him, I talked to His family and > friends -I saw how his > childhood damaged him and how sometimes his terrible > behavior was based > on reactions to what others had done, of which I > wasn't aware -he was > immature and I am not condoning his actions but > understood why. > > 3. Finally, I looked at him as my child. I agonized > over his failures, > his suffering, his bad luck and I learned to love > him and eventually > forgive him. Maternal love, even in an abstract > sense is pure and > uncomplicated. > > Unfortunately, I wasn't able to do this while he > lived but I needed to > do it after he died, it was a vital part of my > healing. Now I can > honestly wish him well on his journey and remember > with a smile a few > "good memories." > > I wish you well on this, you will never regret it. > > walk in beauty > > cris > > On Sunday, December 9, 2001, at 10:15 PM, Maria > mazin wrote: > > > Siri Gopal Kaur > > > > Check out Shopping and Auctions for all of your unique holiday gifts! Buy at or bid at http://auctions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2001 Report Share Posted December 11, 2001 I would be interested in this material on Forgiveness. It would be a great way to start a new year. Thank you, Helen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2001 Report Share Posted December 12, 2001 Sat Nam, I found the quote. Forgiveness is giving up the hope for a better past. Sat Nam, Gururattan Kaur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2001 Report Share Posted December 12, 2001 Sat Nam. Another quote I like about forgiveness is: "Forgiveness is a violet, that sends its fragrance after the heel that crushed it." Sat Nam Har Kaur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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