Relationships

[Guest guest]

Hello Avtar Kaur,

I think I understand what your freind is going thru'

becasue I have a similar problem. I too am scared to

fall in love , maybe becasue of the pain and rejection

involved.. there were a couple of mails last week on

the list regarding mediatations and kriyas for

inculcating self- love and acceptance and forgiveness.

I am sure they will help.

 

Sat Nam

preeti

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Hi, guys, I was reading your e-mails about falling in love. By doing yoga,

even the spinal flexes your energy rises and you feel more confident. You

automatically attract the experiences you are ready for. I know, I found love

at forty and had a baby. So really, be confident in raising your own energy

level and when your not looking for love - that is when you find it! Joy

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Hi Avtar Kaur,

 

concerning the blockage of your friend regarding her trouble allowing loving

relationships I can suggest to try EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) at

www.emofree.com. I have great results with this approach with my clientele

and yoga students.

 

Sat Nam

Y.M. Vijnanananda

http://meditation.iquebec.com

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Thank you all for your suggestions. I'll pass them on...

 

Love,

Avtar

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[Guest guest]

OK Bradly,

Though I would like to take it in reverse order.

Relationships as understood with in the context of the emotional

inter-relationship between two people are in the limited physical

plane as a reflection of the higher selves' example of the male and

female bonding and connection to a single expression. This has a

direct relevance to the Kundalini. The two that are one and the one

that is two. So with in this context, the relationship is a

reflection of the " as above so below " concept.

 

People inside of the physical experience may find it quite difficult

to locate or find another person who can so exemplify the ideal that

the divine union represents. It is the attempt, the striving towards

that counts for the most as we live in the limited physical venue.

Even so it is within the realm of physical emotional expression to

live and love inside of a relationship to the degree that the

individuals can. Intention is the first gate.

 

What is it a person intends when looking for or choosing a potential

mate? What are the priorities? What thoughts have formed the basis

for particular passions or fantasies or expectations of another?

When these questions are considered then the person can find another

that corresponds, knowingly or not. We are not always conscious of

what we seek. Primal needs can attach to the thought expectations and

seek for them from a sub-conscious vector of searching. The alpha

male and alpha female scenario connected to the person's emotional

needs.

 

With Kundalini it is somewhat different. Integrity and truthfulness,

love and freedom are very important. As the Kundalini begins to

change the five bodies, the expressions begin to seek a closer

resemblance to the higher divine models. The two that are one. This

then begins to manifest in the search for another who can embrace

these concepts. If already in a relationship then the support and

love and understanding of the changes or the process one half of the

relationship is going into or through can be very helpful. Doesn't

mean they have to " understand " from an experiential aspect, but from

a place of allowing the process to unfold and not going into fear or

judgment about it can be very beneficial.

 

If this isnt allowed or is in direct blockage of the Kundalini the

relationship can dissolve.

 

Kundalini will go on regardless and if the physical reflection of the

divine marriage is lacking the internal, full being, individual

expression will not be. We " are " the two that are one and the one

that is two. So we are what we strive to find in another.

 

It is good to find and share our lives and it is needed for the

species to continue. But we can have " the Kundalini " alone and most

of the activation's and awakenings are in this context. It is rare to

find, in contemporary society, another who can understand and support

with out fear, the changes that can present inside of an awakening.

 

When a person inside the Kundalini is searching for social connection

with the idea of having a relationship, it is the qualities that the

Kundalini will wish to express that will help one to find that other

person. Much depends upon the level of activation a person is in. So

if it is a pronounced second chakra activation and only to that point

the physical expression of sex will be the overriding priority and

this activity will be sought over all others. This will fade but when

the person is inside of it will burn hot through the system and these

needs will require satisfaction.

 

This is one of the symptoms like the heat and the cold and the Kriyas

or the electrical and blissful phenomena that, in the person's unique

way, can have effect for all that come into this area. Though the

details and the urges may be unique to the individual the needs will

be similar. It is best to have a partner who can understand these

changes but it isnt often the case. So it is important to be able to

transmute these urges. Or find a partner who is willing to consumate

them with you. Be careful this where many can get into trouble as the

urges will not always identify with what one has thought was

the " modus operendai. "

 

They can be quite different from what one is used to and can be very

world altering from a " personal reality " position. No worries. It is

the " infusion " that is making these personal priority " changes and it

is best to go with them as long as they do not endanger your physical

or emotional well being or health. So be very careful and do your

best to stay clean and undamaged and out of jail regardless of the

extreme or not extreme scenarios you may find yourself pulled

towards. If already in a relationship one can work the inner physical

expressions turning or transmuting them into powerful energies of

creativity and strength and physical expression. Reverse the orgasms

and other means that on this general list I will not go into.

 

In the seeking for a partner to have relationship with one needs to

focus on the quality of love that one is extending and find a person

who can at least match that love expression. Imbalances in the

feeling and expression of love can doom a relationship, as the one

who loves the least will control the relationship. So look for

balance of this most important expression.

 

I have found that it is also very important as previously mentioned

to stay with in your integrity no matter if it means the loss of the

potential relationship. It is best as the importance of living

externally ones personal truths is part of the patterning process

that the Kundalini will engrave into a persons priorities. Often this

is the case not always though. It is what I recommend.

 

Often inside of the Kundalini if you start out as a difficult person

then as the infusion progresses you become even that much more

difficult. Driving everyone away from you. So look at your own

emotional balance and get " some " positive feedback so that you do not

blindly go into situations where you are expressing as a complete

idiot and an irritating one at that, and oh, trying to find a

relationship as well. This can be a very painful and potentially

dangerous experience. Be emotionally able to have and to hold another

person with equal ardor as much as you are able to do so. -