Guest guest Posted April 30, 2002 Report Share Posted April 30, 2002 Hey ya'll, This "fear" you speak of....where is it coming from?? What is the mechanism that is instilling this fear? What thoughts create a "fear" reaction? An even better question might be who is creating the fear? Assuming you've answered that the fear is coming from within, what part of the you is it that is creating the fear reaction? There is a voice in there and you can get to know it. It's that voice that is saying to you NO! Don't breath! Don't do anything without my say so! or it may be saying "oh!, be careful...you'll get hurt" It's sometimes very subtle this little voice. It's in our body language usually but the effect is crippling to the spirit of a child (which is pure, open and fearless). Yes, this is stuff we learned as children and now it is part of our chemistry and it's crippling to whatever positive sense of being one should have had. "As a twig is bent, so shall it grow". Self confidence, self trust and self esteem all suffer when we still have this emotionally crippling inner dialogue. How might things have been different if instead of acquiescing to the (usually) parental figure we shined our spirit!? Said something contrary to the parental voice or expressed anger or indignation. For many that wasn't an option as the big people would be made insecure and threaten to knock us into next week (time travel?). And so, because we didn't flash our spirit we absorbed that dulling way of thinking and now it's our job to clear out that toxic backlog and re-program how our systems (body-mind) and how we relate to ourselves and the world around us. This is Inner Anger. Anger at our-selves. When we don't have a healthy relationship with our anger and an awareness of when we are actually feeling it, it is so easy to turn it back in on our-selves and self destruct in some way. It may not be obvious but if you don't feel your goodness, your beauty, your intelligence or your sensuality you are not relating to your self. Even our anger is beautiful when it's not loaded with all sorts of toxicity. I hope this helps to deconstruct the mechanism you are calling fear. Maybe doubt or insecurity are a better words. I may have rambled a bit Sat nam, Dharam This email was cleaned by emailStripper, available for free from http://www.papercut.biz/emailStripper.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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