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[Guest guest]

Dearest group,

 

I want to ask you all to include a young mother and her little, only 2,5 years

old son,

when you do your Healing Meditations.

 

The little boy is very, very difficult to handle and his mother is really

finished. The father is working a lot and she's alone most of the time.

The little boy is very aggressive against other children and animals and he has

not a little bit respect. For example he takes the cat and throws it into a

pond.

She stays at home with him, because nobody want's a child like that.

When she's out with him, it is very dangerous, because he his running on the

street, without

looking, if there is a car or not.

Yesterday, it was the 3. time and the danger of accidents was very near.

The mother doesn't want to shout and call him 'idiot' or something like that and

she doesn't want to use the TV as a babysitter, but she doesn't know, what else

she could do.

She said: "I judged such mothers, but now I do the same and I'm really unhappy

with it."

 

She asked me for help and I will do my best, looking for a homoepathic remedy

for

the son and give her Harmonyum treatments as often as possible, she needs to

relax a lot.

Perhaps I should take the boy for some hours each week and make him tired on a

long walk with the dog?

 

I would really be happy to have your support.

Thank you so much in advance

 

Sonja

[Guest guest]

<PRE>I would suggest changing the childs diet a lot could be wrong sugar causes

strange behavior in children i was hyper active. however i wasnt a bully

type attack other children lets hope its a stage. music might be the factor

try forcing the kid into listening to classics betoven oprea clasicaly or

even positive bio feedback or subliminal music last but not least if that

doesnt work ........... you know what to do tough love ole school style but

make it count god bless and good luck.......

[Guest guest]

The child sounds like he needs professional help. Ramadasasasesohung would

probably help. As far as the homeopathy, where does this person live

and does she have internet? Sat Nam Rasayan often helps too, but there has to be

a dialogue with the mother for either of those modalities to be

effective.

 

On the subject of Harmonym, is that something you can do from a distance or are

you doing it in person?

 

Seva Simran

[Guest guest]

Satnam ji,

Motherhood is a great and powerful way to grow in patience and compassion

towards another person. You say this child is 2 1/2 years old.

This child is still basically a baby! A baby needs to be taught gently and

kindly, straight in the eyes with hugs and smiles.

This much concern at such a tender age... I understand must be very difficult

but there is still hope...The child must not be labeled in this age of growth

..

Boys are also different than girls, they show their anger differently.I would

not judge the action but work on the anger

If the problem is anger then it is either nutrient wise or behavior that is

learned in the present environment or from a past life.

Children pick up so much in the subtle realms and feel the environment around

them.I have found that some moms worry to much about the growth of their

children to soon expecting to much for their age.

I have found that diet is important. If the mom is conscious enough to lay of

the sugar and milk.. which the child could be allergic to and reacting to.

Constipation in children can make kids so angry because they can't do

anything and explain these things.

Asthma undetected can also make kids act out.Detergents in clothes and the

home can so easily cause this. I get really angry when expose to cigarette

smoke because my breathing gets affected..I did not know this for years..Do

they smoke around the child?

Any form of healing work will help. Sat nam rasayana is great on kids

Massaging the babies feet and body will help relax and soothe the nervous

system.

Peaceful music at night and during the day will help so much.

A 2/12 yr old child should be around his family anyway so don't worry to much

about interaction with others kids to much for now as far as I am concerned.

As far as the mom is concerned she probably needs some time of. Just helping

out a few hours or so can be a great relief for a mom.She needs help and

support if she does not have grandparents or relatives nearby to help with

the growth of the child.Yoga and meditation is a must and she has to fit it

in her schedule to stay sane and keep the child in a stress free

environment.He deserves it...She needs to understand that this is her

responsibility to provide. It will make her happy and her child to.A good

multivitamin supplement will also help her, along with her diet so she can be

healthy also.

Church,or places of worship can be a place of support for parents offering

counseling and baby care.

Motherhood is the most difficult job but the most rewarding. She should not

be to crtitical on herself,if she is doing what she can. She should not beat

herself up.Her boy is beautiful and she has to know that and send him that

message all the time.Words are powerful and she should say only good words to

him.A mother has the power to change the destiny of a child and she has to be

confident of this, this is her child and she came equipped to serve him with

her power and the ability to be humble to seek help when she needs it. Get

help wherever she can.

Lastly this is God's child and she should pray to him to take care of the

child everyday. Each day when she gets up she should say a pray for her child

sincerly and have faith that he will be okay.

God bless you for caring for your friend she is blessed to have you

S.i.r. khalsa

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Sat Nam Sonja,

 

My best friends son grew up ADD, sounds like what you are describing.

Emotionally out of control, agressive.. Diet is huge, it seems to have

great results for many. Make these changes now, or it only gets worse.

 

This link may help http://www.lef.org/protocols/prtcl-016a.shtml

 

Blessings

 

Brad

[Guest guest]

j> The little boy is very, very difficult to handle and his mother is

really

> finished

..

 

 

My daughter was born with problems. I had a very hard time. When she

was 2 years old, weighing 22 kg, she still could not walk, and I carried

her around. And of course, there were a lot more problems. No one would

baby sit. I had very little support from family. Dad was busy with his

stuff. Today, she is 26 years old, beautiful and brilliant, went through

university in the honor program, on a scholarship, preparing for a

career in childhood psychology, on her honeymoon now, married to the

most lovely man in the world.

 

She grew up, and I did my best. I could not do more than my best. I

tried to learn as much as I could, asked different professionals what to

do, but in the end, I did my best.

 

She grew up to be such an amazing person, not thanks to me. It was her

strength, I just held her hand.

 

She has a lot of complaints about me (student of psychology......). I

have to keep reminding myself, I did my best.

 

I think you should give your friend support, help her to realize she

needs time for herself, she will never be a good mother if she is not

good to herself. Help her to know, that doing her best is ok, and not to

beat herself for not doing all the things people think she should do. I

wish someone had told me: there is only so much you can do. Do your

best. It's ok.

 

shoshana

[Guest guest]

Sat Nam Shoshanna : )

I enjoy and gain much from reading the "discussion" on the KY site, but

I've never posted or written someone until now.

I just wanted to let you know how your words struck a chord deep inside

me. You sound like a wonderful, thoughtful and loving mother.

I myself am 31 yrs. old and a mother of three.

My oldest daughter is 3, and I have 19 month old twins.

I've always loved and appreciated my parent's and my relationships with

them_--But believe me, my family is not "perfect" or "normal" and has it's

share of dysfunctions (like everyone). Regardless, I've always known that

we're all doing our best---that's what makes us human and interesting and

helps us all to grow together.

Now....I must admit, that it wasn't until I myself truly experienced

"parenthood" first-hand that I feel that I REALLY understand even more

than I ever could before and appreciate and empathize even more with any

self-doubt us humans/parents have.

Love & Light,

Heather

[Guest guest]

I read a book "Change your brain, Change

your life" by Daniel G Amen, M.D. ( a New York Times

bestseller), just a couple

of days ago. It very clearly explains how the

functioning of the brain and thought processes

influences people's behaviors, and vice-versa, using

brain scans, and how these conditions have been very

effectively treated by looking into different regions

of the brain

which control different functions. Although the book

has scientific basis, it is well-written for the

common public, and perhaps, a must-read for everyone,

in my opinion. Especially for people with behavioral

problems, and people dealing with others who have

behavioral problems. Many problems which appear way

too complex most often have simple solutions.

 

Hope this helps.

 

gayathri

 

P.S: People with ADD really need constructive

encouragement, and they do well in areas that

stimulates their interest but in a relaxing

environment. Their behavior

gets more adversely affected if dealt with harshly

or which creates more stress. The people dealing

with them can make a huge difference in their lives.

 

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Dear Sonja,

 

Tell the mother to have her little boy checked for allergies and see that his

sugar intake is very limited. I have seen many little kids doing things they

shouldn't and being hard to handle shortly after they have sugar.

Best,

Diane

 

In a message dated 9/21/02 2:35:22 PM Central Daylight Time,

sonja writes:

 

 

> I want to ask you all to include a young mother and her little, only 2,5

> years old son,

> when you do your Healing Meditations.

>

> The little boy is very, very difficult to handle and his mother is really

> finished.