Guest guest Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 Hi, I feel kinda of silly asking this, but is there a kriya that can heal a broken heart? Especially if the hold that person has over you is still so strong, and so difficult to break, no matter how much you want to? It's like living with part of your soul ripped apart. Unfortunately, he's moved on very well. Each time I get myself back on track, things go well then suddenlyt I feel a chain pulling me back. I have been told by several intuitives that it is a karmic hold that he has on me, that he's not willing to let go on the spiritual level. They have tried breaking the link, but it just works for a while, then it happens again. I would really appreciate any help on how to deal with this I don't know how to cope with the pain anymore. Satnam, Sharm ________________ The NEW Netscape 7.0 browser is now available. Upgrade now! http://channels.netscape.com/ns/browsers/download.jsp Get your own FREE, personal Netscape Mail account today at http://webmail.netscape.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 TAUGH JOB> First off all, it is very difficult to give advice, and at the end of the day, you must work and live with it. It depends totaly on you. At front, it is not good, from the yoga point of you, having a too big dependance of anything, of anyone. Make meditations thinking about the end.. and th begining of everything. Love yourself and everybody. Get friends around you.. think how fortunate you are (I am sure you are clever, sensible, beautiful from inside and outside) get the best from you to give to yourself and to the others... and we all love you, I will think about you all the time. I trust you, and I am sure you will succeed. sat nam Luis Martin ----------------- Nuevo Depósito a 1 mes 6% TAE, contrátalo: http://ingdirect.ozu.es ----------------- Correo enviado desde http://www.ozu.es Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 Sat Nam Kirtan Kriya is especially good at removing negative relationship imprints. I have included a link to the page that the lesson is on. You can download it from there. Also, something I have learned is that it is equally important to laugh as it is to cry when processing. Try it, you'll like it. kundalini yogaclasses.html Your Brother in Spirit Natesh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 Dear Sharm, We like silly questions here. This list should be re-titled "Silliness Spoken Here" The "Kriya for Pelvic Balance" (a little challenging with some wheel pose) p. 72 of Sexuality and Spirituality is excellent for getting what you gotta have. The relationship is a "Longing to Belong". Sometimes that longing goes on despite the reality of the situation. The longing is for a rightness of being....your own being. Cultivate that quality and all will be groovy. Next time around the potential to En-Joy Your-Self within the relationship will be tremendously improved. Do this Kriya after some real relaxing and tonifying warm-ups. Then do Kirtan Kriya and/or Sodarshan Kriya. Sat Nam, Dharam ariesskg wrote: > Hi, > > I feel kinda of silly asking this, but is there a kriya that can heal a broken heart? Especially if the hold that person has over you is still so strong, and so difficult to break, no matter how much you want to? > > It's like living with part of your soul ripped apart. > Unfortunately, he's moved on very well. Each time I get myself back on track, things go well then suddenlyt I feel a chain pulling me back. > > I have been told by several intuitives that it is a karmic hold that he > has on me, that he's not willing to let go on the spiritual level. They have tried breaking the link, but it just works for a while, then it happens again. > > I would really appreciate any help on how to deal with this I don't know how to cope with the pain anymore. > > Satnam, > Sharm > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 Dear Sharm, You could try Meditation on the Divine Mother(p.141 Transitions to a Heart -Centred World). It contains the Adi Shakti mantra, which is mind-curing and fulfills desires. It is said that this meditation removes blocks of insecurity. I feel for your pain, having had a deeply painful break-up myself. The key to such painful Karmic attachments is to release the other person and try to forgive them and ourselves, building self-esteem to the point where we no longer want to be with someone that doesn't want us back. Guru Dharam Singh offers a workshop entitled "dissolving the egregore", which is a kundalini yoga workshop based on breaking precisely this painful link you are describing. He is based in the UK, but travels all over teaching. You can contact him at gurudharam Contained within the pain is the seed for growth and although it is difficult it is really the only answer. Pray to God to change your destiny so that in future you no longer attract this kind of suffering. Another thing is that if you can immerse yourself in helping others it will make your own suffering less. Time will definitely heal. Try to be kind to yourself now. If you can see this separation from the one you love as a necessary happening ultimately for your own freedom, it will help you to come to terms with it. Keep doing yoga and let the Infinite take care of it. As long as you remember You and God are one the right things will come to your life for your happiness. Sat Nam Guru Sahai Kaur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 Satnam, You are doing great! A broken heart is a very powerful ailment that is probably the most diffucult to cure and the one paid least attention to by docters. Follow the advice of Dharam and Deva. No one can hurt you unless you let them. You can also still love the person but grow on to something else. You have your own self respect and a relationship is only one facet of your whole life.I have found that the mother energy heals the heart in a way that nothing else can. Be it the Virgin Mary, Tara or your own earthly mother. Praying also helps for it connects you to God in a very real way and soothes the spirit and gives hope plus it works!! I really loved what Dharam said about the longing to belong for it is so true.I will remember that one Dharam!!! You can belong to one aspect of a person but not on all levels and realization of this can bring closure.Filling the heart with self love is not easy but is necessary. Lots of Yoga and meditation will also help you fall in love with the Divine One who is all.Breathe deeply my child, God is with you for your heart is his heart and he is watching over you and healing you in a bigger way than you can imagine.Recovery form a broken heart is a very spiritual experience and I can only think of Jesus on the cross how broken he was when he was betrayed but he kept his connection with God.Keep up and you will be kept up.All will be well God bless you Satnam Kaur Khalsa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 Hi, Thank you so much for all of your replies. When I sent out my earlier post I was literally at my wits end, because I didn't know what to do anymore. I am truly thankful for all the advice that I have gotten, because it represents hope to me that I can overcome this even though I have been putting up with it for years. I will definitely try out the meditations, such as Kirtan Kriya and Sodarshan Kriya, as well as try to work on forgiving both him and myself.I'll work on the divine mother and Smiling Buddha after that as well. What really helped was the knowledge that I am not alone. I didnt realise that there were so many people who have also gone through this same kind of pain. If others have pulled through and got on with their lives successfully, then it gives me hope that I can too, with the help of KY. Thank you so much. I agree with Satnam, that a broken heart is a very spiritual experience because when I used to break down whenever I sought solace at a temple immeiately after the split. It was worse because I did the walking out when I couldnt take his indifference and calculatedness anymore. Could control the tears elsewhere easily, but never could control them before the Granth Sahib.They just flowed. And I always felt a bit better afterwards. Satnam, Sharm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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