16 times stronger ....diving into the world

[Guest guest]

Hey Jacques, where you been hiding out? You and Eric should have

something to talk about. He's a diver also.

 

(continued from my previous email.)

 

............around our seventh year we start wanting more Papa energy.

How to take it into the world. How to get from Point A to B without

uncertainty and with focus. How to do what needs to be done whether you

like or not.

We learn "Grit" from our fathers. If our fathers are in touch with

their feminine aspect than our experience of "Grit" is refined, subtle

and doesn't feel disconnected and out of balanced. There is joy in

activity and getting the job done. We can take on a new activity and not

be overly affected by "subjectivity' and our Mechanism is able to reset.

As I write this, I am remembering once having to drop the engine from my

'67 VW Microbus while enroute from Seward, Alaska to Anchorage in a late

October blizzard back in '81. I did this on the side of the road with

what tools I had on hand. It was a little bit like Mcguyver. It took

twelve hours but I was able to get back on the road, and we made it to

Anchorage, limping in on 3 cylinders instead of four. Something in this

experience about keeping up when I most wanted to bail out. About

keeping my head and remaining "calm", as there were lots of opportunity

for freaking out. It was all on me to do. Being the "Authority" is

generally associated with Father energy (if the woman lets him). Many of

us grew up without fathers and so the mother had to carry some aspects

of what the men have traditionally done. In my neighborhood, there were

so few families with men in the household, that we used to joking say

"when I grow up, I want to be a real man..... like my mother". We need

more clean Male models.

It's even said that (Robert Bly in "Iron John") that culturally if we

can't relate to the King energy, than we may very well have trouble

relating to God as a complete and whole entity.

So without both Mother and Father energy we are incomplete and prone to

crippling insecurity.

So, can you change a flat tire?

Sat Nam,

Dharam Singh

P.S. Diving will teach calmness

 

Jacques De Schryver wrote:

 

> If she is hapy with this, I presume it's all the best...

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> In another life she will learn to be clear.

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> Jacques

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> Jacques De Schryver